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8: My Boyfriend said: “I’ve NEVER had feelings for you.”

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8: My Boyfriend said: “I’ve NEVER had feelings for you.”

8: My Boyfriend said: “I’ve NEVER had feelings for you.”

8: My Boyfriend said: “I’ve NEVER had feelings for you.”

8: My Boyfriend said: “I’ve NEVER had feelings for you.”

Wednesday, 15th November 2023
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2:00

Just being perfectly honest. My

2:02

skin and also like oh my god I'm gonna eat it. No

2:05

no and also like if I've like... If

2:10

I haven't been to the scene it's like if you don't

2:12

go to the living in the morning. Yeah I've ruined my day. You're

2:14

like not healthy and I now like get pounded and

2:16

I'm like fuck him into the living. I'm

2:18

mental asia.

2:19

Neither am I. That's

2:21

all I can think about. You

2:24

think about a power side suit.

2:25

I was actually dealing with my siblings last night

2:28

and I was actually like not going to want to pork. I

2:30

never really ever ever eat pork anyway

2:33

but I'm not gonna have sushi anymore. Parasite

2:35

parasite. What do you have then? Oh

2:37

you just like I had like a chicken pasta thing.

2:41

Fine no parasites. I need to parasite them.

2:44

You know what you're normally always fine if you just cook for me properly

2:46

or the fish properly but sushi is like impossible to avoid. I

2:49

think that's all you've got parasites in me because I would watch you now. So

2:51

come on people have a watch. To

2:53

be fair when you used to get your parasites every now

2:55

and then I did think like because people think it's

2:57

an intolerance food and it's not and now you're fine with

2:59

so many foods that used to be intolerant food. I'm not intolerant

3:01

to have anything. No mental

3:04

but I feel fatigued so I'm worried

3:07

about parents. So yeah

3:09

we think about off skin every day don't we really. I won't

3:11

lie. And the hell. What I think

3:13

about Melissa is like how you you

3:15

know my sister's now. I

3:18

think we live my birthday

3:20

thing and Melissa like going

3:21

on about

3:23

right. You know what

3:25

my sister was going to call me up and be like Melissa. I

3:28

was like oh I know she's obsessed with it. George goes no

3:30

but I'll start saying she stopped talking about it. I wanted to

3:32

ask her more questions. She was like how

3:34

does she know everything. I mean today I think she's good with it.

3:37

She was like honestly she

3:39

railed off every question she went right. OK

3:42

I'm on Google now I'm ordering myself a water filter.

3:45

I can send her a good one if you want. No she's obsessed

3:47

with it. She's now she's now. She's now. She's

3:50

got parasites and toxins because you put it in her mind.

3:53

Oh my God I've got two of you on my case. I think

3:55

the thing is like you just have to try and be as like

3:57

educated as you can be because we can't rely on.

4:00

packaging in something to

4:02

convince us that it's healthy when it's not like oatly we

4:04

all thought was so good and then you have to educate yourself

4:06

on ingredients right? You just have

4:08

to educate yourself and then make your own decisions

4:11

basically. And just be super

4:13

vigilant. The parasites have been around for a long time.

4:17

I know but I thought a parasite was something like

4:20

you ate and you became like this then my mum

4:22

had one just before she was like me. That's a really bad

4:24

one. She was awake and said

4:26

it was the worst time ever. One of my friends...

4:29

You used to be able to buy them on the black market to become

4:31

skinny. One of

4:33

my friend's girlfriends, she told me the other day we were having dinner, she was

4:35

like I'm just a gut health blah blah blah because

4:38

she went travelling and got a parasite. She

4:41

had food poisoning one day and then

4:43

obviously it was then a parasite within her

4:45

and she said that by the end of it because the girls she

4:47

was with they were with her every day they

4:50

didn't really notice how dramatically she'd

4:52

lost weight and then one of her friends from home called

4:54

her like I'm really worried that something's

4:56

going on with you. You look so skinny

4:58

from like photos you're putting on Facebook back in their

5:00

Facebook. And I

5:03

think there might be something really wrong with anyway. She

5:05

was like yeah maybe you're right and then she was like god

5:07

I am like super super super

5:10

skinny show me photos and I was like oh my god it was like

5:12

terrifying. And then she had to go to this like hospital

5:14

and they basically like pumped her

5:16

with loads and loads and they flushed her with antibiotics.

5:19

And she was obviously like that got rid of the parasite but obviously

5:21

my gut health was completely messed up so like

5:23

no I'm a tough gut health blah blah blah blah but it

5:26

can happen and people don't know or they have

5:28

like slightly milder parasites within them right and

5:30

then they're like oh god I always like randomly

5:32

just get like a bath stomach or I've

5:34

got I'm allergic to this I've got really sensitive tummy. You

5:37

probably just had a parasite for years and years

5:40

and years. They can laugh and then just go well

5:42

you can you can get rid of them quite easily

5:44

but it's the knowing that that's

5:46

what it might be and then actually doing something about it. Yeah

5:48

I'm gonna do that parasite cleanse of that woman that

5:51

you showed me on Instagram that lady she's obsessed

5:53

with parasites. What does she do? What does she I think she sells

5:55

parasites like cleanses. Yeah same I might steal

5:57

it just for the sake of it like more. I think it's good like twice.

6:00

years to get parasite terms you can get them from anything

6:02

it's like not something that we can necessarily completely stop

6:04

but it's good to just do the old thing. Well

6:06

I saw that like if your dog like from

6:09

from your dog honestly you don't want

6:11

to go and kill it. If your dog

6:14

sleeps in your bedroom

6:16

like you kiss your dog. Oh you can get one. You're literally 90

6:19

cent got parasite. I'm like I'm screwed.

6:22

Yeah there's no helping. When I had Poppy with me

6:24

my family dog she stayed with me for a few months on

6:26

end and I always used to have her in my bed. Yeah

6:29

parasite. I also think if you've got a

6:31

clean dog obviously left like I think cats are

6:33

way more likely to give it to you. Oh god. Because they're

6:35

going out. The change of the season

6:37

right okay. How excited

6:40

are we? I'm excited

6:42

but that wasn't a very enthusiastic day. I'm not overly

6:44

excited. I'm more of a summer girl we all know that. I know

6:46

but we've had such a weird long up

6:48

and down summer with the weather. I feel like at least

6:51

it's like I know what I'm doing with my

6:53

wardrobe and my life now. Christmas

6:56

I'm excited for. I'm excited for skiing.

6:58

I'm excited for some snow. Same.

7:00

You're spending Christmas in the ski right? Yeah

7:03

same with me. Gorgeous in the ski. In

7:05

the snow. In the snow. Skiing.

7:07

Yeah so I'm excited for all of that. I'm excited.

7:10

I'm not excited for the actual temperature of

7:12

the cold. No you're not excited for

7:14

the cosiness. I really I know it's

7:16

depressing in the mornings but I'm liking the early

7:18

evenings. I'm like bedtime and dinner

7:21

at bedtime at 6pm. Lovely. Yeah I

7:23

had a shower this morning and washed my hair when it was dark

7:25

outside and I was like god this reminds me so

7:28

much of like boarding school and

7:30

like having to wake up really early in like year 12.

7:33

No not year yeah year eight year seven and

7:35

wash my hair before school. Yeah winter

7:37

skincare. Yeah what are you doing

7:40

at skincare? I'm a thick thick moisturizer.

7:42

Which moisturizer do you use? Any of that is

7:44

it. We're very lucky we get a scent a lot and I just

7:47

like moisturizers and

7:49

cleansers for me I just go through them like. Me

7:51

too like no tomorrow. I overuse. There's

7:54

no like one that I'm like this is my

7:56

one. Of course everyone's are my favorite but

7:58

I just don't really buy them. because we're very lucky we have so

8:01

many, but I love a balm, cancer.

8:03

Yeah, me too. Which one do you... I'm using an LMS, yeah, cleansing

8:06

one. Love. I love

8:08

the LMS moisturizer, but I also

8:10

am using a Bobbi Brown rich cream, but I also

8:12

love the Augustine Bader, which is

8:14

really nice with their rich creamers. Is

8:17

it, Chef? Also, Clarins, one

8:19

is just great. There's just so many options.

8:21

A thick, thick night cream

8:24

lock in that moisture. I'm putting collagen

8:26

in my coffee every day. Me too.

8:28

I really like the taste. I put Davina

8:31

Taylor's collagen. I'm going to buy

8:33

that. Love the stuff with her. Okay, right. Moving

8:36

on to some dilemmas. Dilemma

8:42

bomb. I've been on and off with this guy

8:45

for a year, but now we both live in London. We've

8:47

now made it more official. He's a great

8:49

on paper, good job, smart and a good

8:51

hearted, nice guy. Lovely. But he

8:54

doesn't do the cute small things. I think are super

8:56

important in relationship. He's also

8:58

reluctant to spend money and always wants to share food.

9:02

He even suggested we share a king-size

9:04

roast at Toby Carvey the other day as I

9:06

wasn't very hungry. No.

9:09

Side note, he can absolutely afford to take

9:11

me out. He has a lot of money from his job. Okay,

9:13

well that's different then. Like, what are you doing? So

9:16

does any of the little things. He doesn't have to pay rent. Gorgeous.

9:18

My bad thing was in July and he took me for dinner and bought

9:21

me some trainers, which I asked to swap. He

9:23

returned them, but never gave me the ones I requested

9:25

despite reclaiming. He ordered them. I

9:29

guess I just want to know if you guys think I'm being silly

9:32

and shallow and should stay with him as ultimately he's

9:34

a good guy with a pure heart and I obviously

9:36

stay with him. Obviously you can stay with him. You can't

9:38

break up over the Toby Carvey. You just have to

9:40

just make your own money and split the mails

9:42

if that's the way it is. Sometimes people are

9:44

tight and that's just the end of it. It's

9:46

a bit annoying. Maybe try and lose. Not a deal breaker

9:49

surely, but the whole trainer thing's a bit weird.

9:51

I'm like, where's my birthday present? That's a bit

9:53

strange. Weirdly weird. Although I have done that

9:55

before in the past, like when someone's been like, oh, I've

9:57

already got that now. Take it

9:58

back and then just get out of the middle.

9:59

Yeah, a bit of an effect. And I think I've done it for my mum before on

10:02

her birthday and then I'm like, oop, sloth.

10:04

That's not nice, is it, Sophie? Or am I

10:06

being silly and clinging to him as I don't have many friends in

10:08

London yet and haven't met many people? I feel like

10:10

you've got the ick with him. I want someone who I feel could-

10:13

Well, so you're not saying I love him so much. You're saying he's a

10:15

nice guy. I think you want to be bored

10:17

by his thick cloe waves. Yeah,

10:19

also thinking of excuses. Not once have you said, I

10:21

love him so much. He's the best. I can't imagine

10:24

my life without him, but he's annoying me with this. You're like,

10:26

do I leave him? He's a nice guy, but he's a bit tight. Do

10:28

you know what I mean? Yeah, he's a bit boring. I'm not feeling

10:31

any passion from you. I'm not feeling

10:33

the love. I'm not feeling the love. I

10:35

reckon you suck him off. I reckon you suck him off. He sounds

10:38

dope. Darlan's

10:43

stingy, nothing worse. Like,

10:46

I just don't know. Like, obviously, nice guy,

10:49

but like, me and him are not getting on, that's

10:51

for sure. So like, if I'm a- Yeah, I feel like you've got

10:53

a bit of genetic love out there. Yeah, you want a

10:55

bit of spice. You want to be whined and dined. And

10:57

even if it's not about the money, because some people

11:00

like different things, that's okay. You just want

11:02

somebody to be excited about life. He feels

11:04

buried by the book. No, no, we can't be sharing

11:06

a roast. That's weird. To

11:09

be fair. I can't be that you can get beef

11:11

chicken and pork. Yeah, you

11:14

can. You can't be a chef. You can get

11:16

a bit of everything. My, do people do that?

11:18

They get one of every meal. What sauce do you have? That's

11:20

an absolute nightmare. What sauce?

11:22

Apple sauce, bread sauce, mint

11:24

sauce, or no, no, no. I

11:26

would have every sauce with every meat. Like

11:28

I will have mint sauce with every single thing in the world.

11:31

That's so close. No. Is that

11:33

maybe people that put ketchup with everything? I'm like, you must.

11:36

I would do that too. Oh, so

11:38

good. I would do that too. I don't think there's anything

11:40

wrong with it. No, I just don't. I just don't

11:42

get it. If you mix it all together, like

11:44

I remember once we were in South America

11:47

filming for that show I was on, and

11:50

Alex Mitten got, he got this beef

11:52

meat thing, and it was like chicken wrapped

11:54

in bacon with inside, was

11:57

like mint turkey, and then it was like a

11:59

sausage, a pork. And I was like I actually might

12:01

be sick that is sacrilege

12:04

That's me that is

12:06

never you know what the only time you're allowed to mix

12:08

me So when you have pigs and blankets and at that point it's

12:10

from the same animal So I think we can accept that that's

12:13

okay. What about chicken wrapped in parmam?

12:15

Well, you're so right. We'll allow that. I guess

12:17

it's like when people get like a girl like a What

12:20

is it called when you get like a when you when

12:22

you go to Megan's and it's kind of like a Lebanese II vibe

12:25

Or it's a Greek and you

12:26

get mixed grill. Yeah mix grill

12:29

It's giving me that It's

12:33

a mixed grill for the Brits, it's a mixed

12:35

grill Sunday, right? Oh, you know what? I

12:37

can I get it's a minute when you've got three different

12:39

animals surely you can share that Well,

12:42

that's I actually don't think that's the unreasonable

12:44

thing for him to say and so yeah Yeah, but

12:46

it's because it's like you it's all you can eat like

12:48

you could can't you be like kind of way

12:50

more roasty So he's obviously being

12:52

like Get out

12:56

Pittering yeah, but that's just like singe

12:58

like you're ready to go for a car free Just

13:02

having picking your own. Yeah, I get

13:04

you like the plate must have been mounted

13:07

up here and they're both like picking off it I say

13:09

get you not very romantic. No,

13:11

not really Don't eat that

13:13

much be that potatoes mine. Yeah Get

13:16

off my breath sauce. I'm having a chicken

13:19

wing Oh Darryl

13:23

goes to the car freeze on the Sun Where

13:27

is this car very place? I'm hoping I don't

13:29

know about here about it all the time I really

13:31

know I've never seen one or heard of it.

13:33

Never heard of my entire life. I swear is it It's

13:37

like a weather sweetened Right

13:40

culture car should be in the table. We've got we have just

13:42

as a whole team production team

13:44

made the decision We're gonna go to a TV's car free

13:47

and try it. She keeps going. I might

13:49

like it off I've just been bashing it for the last half an

13:51

hour I'm so excited to have a bit of like

13:54

beef with some mint sauce

13:55

Coming from the back I'll

13:59

have my

13:59

with some bread sauce.

14:02

No, I'm mixing it up. Oh, we needed some red

14:04

currant jelly. There we go. And

14:06

then some Worcestershire sauce. Not Worcestershire

14:08

sauce, horseradish sauce. With

14:10

some lamb. With some lamb. I actually love

14:13

lamb. Did I do a good Yorkshire pudding? Yeah, no. That's

14:15

essential. Love a bit gravy. I'm

14:17

actually buzzing for this Toby's cup. Who's

14:19

Toby? It's Toby's strawberry pudding. Oh. Toby

14:23

should come with us. Oh my God, you should.

14:25

Why is it Toby's cup? You know what, this is the sort of shit that Toby Watkins

14:27

would also just love. Right, what's on our

14:29

side? Let's just go back to this. Oh yeah, we've told

14:31

her, sack it off. Sack it off, you're not into

14:33

it. No, you're not into it. You don't want that Toby Harvey anymore.

14:36

You want a plate of beef on your own.

14:38

You're just icked out by him, I can sense

14:40

it. He's pissing you off. The

14:43

little isms about

14:44

him are just too much for you anymore. You're

14:46

not finding

14:47

him cute. Because you're like, he's so nice, but you

14:49

don't want to be there. Because really, in the grand scheme of things, what

14:52

you think is in this big deal. No, not at all. And

14:54

the fact you've written it in, you're pissed off by it. Because

14:56

actually,

14:57

it's not actually that.

14:59

There's nothing there. There's nothing there. Okay,

15:02

dallamity. I was lying

15:04

in bed with my boyfriend the other night and I saw on

15:06

his phone, DMing someone on Instagram, what

15:09

the fuck is going on? There's something in the air. I couldn't see

15:11

the name of the person or what the messages read,

15:13

but saw that it was a girl's face.

15:16

It quickly closed his phone. I feel sick. Then

15:18

I've noticed he keeps his phone on him all

15:20

the time, even sleeping with it under his pillow and seems

15:22

more secretive. Sorry, the MFD radiation

15:24

from under the pillow has really not

15:25

invited me. It was just me and I was just like, all right.

15:29

I've been a bit naughty since then and

15:32

charged up his old phone to have a look. I can't

15:35

see any messages with that profile pickle from any girl.

15:37

God, so he must be deleting them.

15:39

Or he's got a different account. He's a sick son

15:41

of a bitch. However, my curiosity

15:44

then got the better of me and I started reading a chat

15:46

with one of his mates where they were just sending

15:49

photos

15:50

from Instagram models to each

15:52

other, which made me feel a bit shit.

15:54

I don't like that that really upsets me. I think

15:56

Instagram models, I don't like it. It really

15:58

bothers me. But

16:00

also what is an Instagram model? Like I don't

16:03

like that. I don't like it. I've seen it on Jamie's

16:05

phone for and I got really upset about it

16:06

because they're attainable. They're like,

16:09

they're not a porn star, which is a porn star.

16:11

And they're also not like a major celebrity, right?

16:13

They're not, they're like the normal girl

16:15

off the street that's posting like sexy pics. They're just

16:17

another ass who you're finding better than me.

16:19

I'm talking about like, no. And don't

16:22

look at that Sally like free

16:24

bum and think that's natural because there's not.

16:27

In the same chat, his friend sent

16:29

me the sent him a meme

16:31

of a blind guy with a caption that said, when

16:35

you see your mate cheating on his girlfriend,

16:38

the friend followed it with the message, you. Oh no,

16:40

I've got goosebumps. I

16:42

actually feel sick. What the fuck? This is what I do not understand.

16:46

If I cheated, I'm totally like,

16:48

you would be like, you've got to tell him or I'm

16:50

going to because this is just so fucking morally like fucked

16:52

up. Like I can't even, the boys do

16:55

this sort of shit and they encourage each other. Like that's

16:57

not funny. That's disgusting.

16:59

And I can just imagine the pit of her stomach

17:01

coming out of her. I thought, would you rather? Now

17:05

I'm so confused, confused

17:07

whether this means his, his friend

17:09

has cheated and my boyfriend has kept it secret

17:11

or my boyfriend has cheated and his friend

17:13

has kept, I think it means that your boyfriend's cheaters and he's

17:15

kept it secret. So I

17:18

don't feel like it's concrete evidence to

17:20

accuse him, but I still feel iffy, especially

17:22

because I'm good friends with the girlfriends of my boyfriend's friends.

17:25

Should I confront him for context? We live

17:27

together and have been together for three years. Right. Listen,

17:30

I feel like, you know what, I know what he's

17:32

saying, but you don't know which ones who they're talking. I

17:34

know part of me is like, I kind of think it is

17:36

more of a thing that the other guy's cheating. But why

17:39

would he say I'm cheating and like

17:41

reference that his mate knows? No. Also

17:44

boys tell their girlfriends everything. I feel

17:46

like, yeah. So like, if

17:48

I feel like Toby would probably say to me, I don't

17:50

know for a fact, but I'm, I feel like he would probably

17:52

be like, I'm really upset with such

17:55

and such. They've cheated on their girlfriend and they've sent something into group

17:57

chat and I should don't agree with it and I can't be okay with it. He

18:00

would probably tell me that, Jamie would 100% tell you that. So

18:03

I feel like the fact that he's not telling you either means

18:05

that he's so, so, so loyal

18:07

to his best friend. And they're like having this weird

18:10

banter about it, which I think is morally

18:11

so fucked up.

18:12

Or he is the one cheating. I think

18:14

I'm really so sorry. I think you've got to confront

18:16

him. I would confront him. I would say,

18:18

I would double bluff. I'd be like, I've heard.

18:21

I know that you're cheating on me. I heard you've

18:23

been inappropriate. And if he's like, where from? I'd be like,

18:26

can't tell you. Just why does that matter?

18:28

Besides the point. People always do that. The

18:30

minute they go, where did you hear it from? Guilty.

18:33

Well, not really. Because if someone said that to me, I'd be

18:35

like, where the fuck have you heard that from? But I

18:38

smell about it. I know what you're saying. If they're

18:40

like, how did you, who told you

18:43

that? Who told you that? If it's like, you know,

18:45

that's not true. Who's spreading shit around me? It'd be like,

18:47

who told you that? Yes, the tone. Did you go through

18:49

my phone? Why would you go through my phone? Do you not trust

18:51

me? That's, then like, because

18:54

it should be like, oh my God, I absolutely have not. Go

18:56

through my phone if you want. Like, no, I haven't. I'll

18:58

call my friends right now. It's not about

19:00

me. It's about them. And then then he

19:02

opens up and tells you, like, look, you know, one

19:04

of them is cheating. So he either could do anything like

19:06

you've got it wrong. It's not me. It's him.

19:10

But likelihood is he's going to be like, where have

19:12

you had that? And then, you know, you know, you've

19:14

got one. You've got a gut feeling for

19:16

a reason, right? No, you've got a hunch. Well,

19:19

you've seen him DMA something. Yeah, so that's weird

19:21

in itself. So we've got the, you've already seen with your own

19:23

eyes. And he deleted it game over. Oh my God. Have

19:25

you seen this new fucked up thing Instagram are doing right now? So

19:28

apparently they're doing something where you can change in your

19:30

settings. The only

19:34

people that see you like, so say

19:36

if I can change in my settings, I'm liking Matthew

19:38

Nasca, that's who fit models, photo,

19:40

but only me and she will

19:43

see that I've liked it. No one else

19:45

I follow, no one else that follows me will ever see it.

19:47

What the fuck? And so basically giving her

19:50

a one up for tea. Yeah, encouraging

19:52

people to like, cheat. I'm not not

19:54

here for it. But have you seen them? I

19:57

saw where it came up on my news out on my

19:59

like. my feed on Instagram and it was

20:01

like so I think it was someone doing a podcast or an interview

20:04

discussing it and I thought it was That's

20:09

so good It's not

20:11

a very thing personally. I think that's a very because

20:13

females are more like emotionally Like

20:16

they're not like I'm gonna stuff a lot more

20:18

right? We don't like like you see also boys

20:20

are like Why are you liking someone's photo

20:23

right? You're going you're trying to get their attention. Yeah

20:26

Yeah

20:28

It's absolutely foul

20:30

behavior. Anyway, I think confront

20:32

him for sure and I think you

20:34

know, you have Hold your own

20:36

don't know 100% Right.

20:38

I let my three. I'm really sorry. That's awful My

20:41

best friend of 15 years suggested I date

20:43

her boyfriend's best friend. We went on a few days

20:45

and got him really well He eventually asked me to be his

20:47

girlfriend One

20:50

day he turned around and said he had no feelings

20:53

for me and never had what he

20:55

ended things with me and never wanted to What

20:57

less than two weeks after he posted his Instagram

21:00

story of a new girl He was with my

21:02

best friend then proceeded to tell me that she was going on

21:04

a double date with a new girlfriend And I'm

21:06

not sure how to react to this

21:08

My terrible fan for asking you not to go.

21:10

I think you're gonna have to accept this just the way

21:12

that it is They're already, you know,

21:15

her boyfriend is ultimately best friend Tim still and

21:17

she's not gonna like Yeah, stop

21:19

that relationship from going on On It's

21:23

very very uncomfortable though. I get it. I

21:25

get it's really uncomfortable and I get it There should be a sense

21:27

of loyalty there, but ultimately our

21:29

boyfriend is also best friends with him So

21:31

and I guess like you weren't married.

21:33

He didn't cheat on you. It's like one of those

21:36

things. Yeah Also,

21:39

it will make it more I think it will paint you in

21:41

a worse alight to say if she's like I can't

21:43

go on this date because you fucked over My friend right

21:46

so then your boyfriend the boyfriend

21:48

turns up for dinner with him and the new girlfriend

21:51

Yeah, Katie can't come because hmm. She's

21:55

really pissed off that you dumped her friend

21:57

like No, you can't

21:59

you can't do that And then it makes you look so nice. You don't have to swallow

22:01

it. You have to just almost kind of, you don't care. And you

22:03

probably, what you should say to your friend is, look, if you want

22:05

to see him go on dates, I don't want to hear about it. And I'd rather

22:08

you just be like, I'm just so

22:10

fine with you guys hanging out obviously, but can you just have a bit of respect for

22:12

me for the time being whilst I'm just getting over this and don't

22:14

panic a bit. Hi

22:20

girls, only new to your podcast this year.

22:22

Sorry, just on ET42. Oh my God, how many

22:24

episodes have we done? Hundreds. Just on

22:27

ET42, an absolutely belly laughing, like you make

22:29

me do on the regular scene. At

22:32

the rant about the swimming pool and those horrible swimming

22:34

caps. I thought I didn't even remember. I'm picturing

22:36

like the schools swimming caps on EOTs in the morning. That

22:38

also gives such bad headings. And you'd have that line

22:41

for the rest of the day. Oh, I'm dropping. They

22:43

say with me, like when I sleep on the pillow and I get like

22:45

an indent, it will last there all day long. So like

22:47

me with those swimming caps, and the rest of the life, and

22:49

the swimming goggles. Yeah, yeah, I agree.

22:52

I work on a farm at home and however much I love

22:54

my job this time of year, requires a lot

22:56

of time in a tractor alone and you two make me

22:58

feel like I'm sat chatting to some of my friends. Sometimes

23:01

for eight hours plus a day. After

23:03

a tough year with accidents, injuries, tragic losses

23:05

and fall outs of some friends, I can always rely on this

23:08

podcast to cheer me up as every episode has something

23:10

relatable, hilarious in it. That

23:12

is so sweet. I love you. We love

23:14

you so much. Thank you so much. My voice is not that

23:16

horrible or that very sweet. I don't think either

23:18

of us is odd, but maybe after a certain amount of time, you

23:20

just come numb to it. Yeah,

23:23

totally. Make

23:26

them do it. We love you. We

23:28

love you. The farm's really wholesome. I

23:30

know, I'd love to be on a tractor all day. I know, just

23:32

going to do like the, you know, you see like the misty fields.

23:35

Really, like the mornings. Breathing in clean,

23:37

clean. You know. Those lungs

23:39

are gorgeous and they're fresh. Yeah,

23:42

no black tar on there. Oh no. You've

23:44

got to get that IPRI going on there, guys.

23:50

Questions. Tiny questions. You guys.

23:53

Didn't get the tiny. You guys are tiny. Descending

23:55

your questions. Tiny questions

23:58

to ask and send them in on insta. anything,

24:01

ask us literally anything, any vibe goes.

24:04

So we've got one from Jemima and this

24:06

is how did you both meet? So

24:08

simple. So simple. And yeah so

24:11

so much depth behind this question. Yeah

24:14

right we first met on Me and Chelsea. I actually

24:17

am gonna stop saying correct. What?

24:20

We first met when I was 20 years old in

24:22

the interview that I had Me and

24:24

Chelsea like the first like not the interview so like the meeting

24:26

like the catch-up meeting at the beginning of the series

24:29

in the jam what's that pub

24:32

on Chelsea like opposite at the Chelsea Lodge

24:34

it was called like the jam something. Yeah that was

24:37

no that wasn't you were filming. No it wasn't

24:39

so my life I wasn't it was the catch-up

24:41

meeting and I had come down from the stairs and you

24:43

were waiting downstairs and we met and you were wearing

24:45

one of these like furry gilet things and

24:48

you were so sweet and you gave me a massive

24:50

hug that was like a fleeting high by how?

24:54

Obviously you were so nice and then the second

24:56

time is when you're really talking about it I know when. I know

24:59

that's when I remember vaguely yeah

25:01

because everyone was like oh my god Harry's got new

25:03

girlfriend I was like I've met her. Yeah

25:05

I was just Harry having a meeting came downstairs you

25:08

were waiting downstairs to go up. I remember

25:10

you wearing Jimmy G trainers. Oh my

25:12

god I was. How did I know what I was because they didn't

25:14

have any ranting on but I remember seeing him.

25:16

Oh my god. And I remember thinking.

25:19

I thought lovely about your skinny

25:22

jeans on. And I actually relayed that

25:24

to people. I was like yeah his girlfriend's got great love.

25:26

Wait so then when was the next time? The next

25:29

time we were filming. When we actually spoke properly.

25:31

Yeah. You were really good

25:33

filming like for us. I was only brand new pretty

25:36

much. We basically started made Chelsea together.

25:38

Yeah. You've been on it a tiny bit longer

25:40

than me hadn't you? You started like a few

25:42

episodes into the last season but you lost

25:44

the end of that like three episodes. Yes.

25:47

And then we basically like just got on really

25:49

well. We were kind of newbies you weren't getting along

25:51

with somebody. Well someone just hated me.

25:53

They just hated both of us and for no

25:56

reason. And we were like and we kind of bonded

25:58

over it. Yeah. And then the rest. the rest

26:00

is history. Oh, and I know why.

26:03

Because you sent me a sweet message and you

26:05

were like, what are you wearing on the event day?

26:07

Because basically you have event days and you kind of get given like a brief

26:09

on like what to wear. I remember it was lingerie.

26:11

It was lingerie. And I was like, what are you wearing? It was like quite

26:13

a scary thing to like obviously have to dress for. And

26:16

so you messaged me, and like, what are you wearing? And I was like,

26:18

oh my gosh, sweetness, but I'm not actually going to this event.

26:20

I remember. She's so

26:23

nice. And I want to see, we were just like this. Yeah.

26:26

And then we went to Sri Lanka like quite shortly and

26:29

soon. But we were already

26:31

like buggy buggy then. I feel like that

26:33

made us even closer because we went away together. Yeah, we were

26:35

like joined up here. Yeah. That

26:37

was so fun. All right guys,

26:38

we'll leave it there. Thank you so much. Love

26:41

you. Bye. Bye. Bye. Bye.

26:44

Bye. Bye. Bye. Bye.

26:48

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26:53

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26:55

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