Divorcing couples often find themselves at a loss when trying to determine how to handle what is often their largest asset, the family home. Who stays in the home? What does the person who is leaving the home do for a substitute home? How do yo

What is a Guardian Ad Litem? with Hollie Bennett

Oct 12th, 2020 37m 25s

A Guardian ad Litem (GAL) is a community volunteer appointed by the court to serve children by advocating for their best interests before the court. When appropriate, the court may appoint a Guardian ad Litem in a child custody action. If you’r

Can I Get My Child Support Changed Due to COVID-19?

Jun 15th, 2020 15m 37s

The world has been facing a public health crisis that has caused significant economic changes and uncertainty. In the first two quarters of the year, families that are both intact and separated are facing increasing financial problems and strug

How Do You Raise Kids With Your Ex?

Mar 16th, 2020 44m 43s

One of the more prominent narratives surrounding separation and divorce involves ex-spouses being at each other’s throats and constantly arguing with one another. Such a hostile environment not only affects the former couple but negatively impa

How You're Screwing Up Your Divorce Case

Dec 2nd, 2019 20m 39s

The outcome of divorce and custody cases isn’t just dependent on your attorney or the judge. Believe it or not, your attitude and decisions during the whole process are going to affect how it all works out in the end. You have a lot of control

Alcoholism and Child Custody with Chris Beck of Soberlink

Nov 18th, 2019 39m 36s

Child custody cases are often the toughest types of cases that go through family court. Far too often, those cases involve parents with alcohol and substance abuse issues. Some states, including North Carolina, allow for alcohol monitoring syst

What is a Custody Evaluation?

Nov 4th, 2019 44m 25s

Child custody cases are often the toughest types of cases in family court. Frequently, lawyers must call upon experts outside the legal field for assistance. In this episode of Welcome to Splitsville, we explore what a custody evaluation is, wh

What is a Divorce Coach? With Sandra Lee of Emerge Victorious

Oct 21st, 2019 40m 51s

On this episode of Welcome to Splitsville, we explore what a divorce coach does and explore how utilizing a coach can help you navigate your divorce. Today's conversation is with Sandra Lee, a divorce coach in Charlotte, NC, with more than 20 y

Do I Need a Prenup ?

Aug 19th, 2019 24m 37s

You did the proposal, the ring, and the "yes!" Now, you're attacking your wedding planning To-Dos. The modern wedding planning to-do list frequently includes some variation of "discuss getting a prenup." On this episode of Welcome to Splitsvil

How Do You Pick a Therapist?

Aug 5th, 2019 34m 5s

Often a breakup is too stressful for a person to handle on their own. Divorce attorneys are often asked for recommendations on finding a good therapist. On this episode of Welcome to Splitsville, we explore how to pick a therapist and the thera

What Happens to My Fur Babies in a Divorce?

Jul 22nd, 2019 18m 32s

There are many things to consider during a divorce. How will the assets be split? Where do the kids spend the holidays? Who gets the record collection? One question we are starting to hear with regularity is, "who gets custody of the family pet

Does Your Diagnosis Matter in Your Child Custody Case?

Jul 8th, 2019 23m 41s

Child custody cases are tough on everyone. When one parent has a mental health diagnosis things can get very complicated. On this episode of Welcome to Splitsville, we explore how a parent’s mental health diagnosis may affect a child custody ca

The Role of a Child Therapist in Divorce Court with Maria Curran

Jun 24th, 2019 35m 18s

Custody cases are very complex and can include many experts who often are called upon to testify in court. On this episode of Welcome to Splitsville, we explore the role of a child therapist in divorce court. Today’s conversation is with Maria

How Do You Fill Out a Financial Declaration in an Alimony Case?

Jun 10th, 2019 31m 20s

Divorce can be an overwhelming process for many especially with all the numbers and forms required. On this episode of Welcome to Splitsville, we explore an area that can be one of the most daunting parts of a divorce for many: how do you fill

How to Protect Yourself From Invasion of Privacy During Divorce

May 27th, 2019 58m 51s

You might be shocked to find out getting a divorce is not the most private matter. On this episode of Splitsville, we explore the area of computer forensics and talk about how you can protect yourself from invasions of privacy in the world of d

How a Child Therapist Can Help Families Going Through a Divorce

May 13th, 2019 45m 20s

Divorce and adjusting to the new family dynamic of living in two separate households can be overwhelming for anyone, especially children. On this episode of Welcome to Splitsville, we explore how a child therapist can help families going throug

How do you use a Financial Advisor in a Collaborative Divorce?

Apr 29th, 2019 29m 31s

Divorce does not have to be an exclusively adversarial process. Today, collaborative divorce is becoming more mainstream and in this episode of Welcome to Splitsville, we explore the benefits of using a financial advisor in a collaborative divo

How Can I Get Out of an Abusive Relationship?

Apr 15th, 2019 57m 19s

There are several areas of family law that are darker than most, and one is the topic of this episode, domestic violence. If you are in one a relationship that is abusive and thinking of reaching out or know someone who is struggling to get out

Can I Move with the Children?

Apr 1st, 2019 19m 22s

Are you divorced or separated with children and considering a move, either just for yourself or with a new partner? The elevatable question pops up, can move with my children, to another city or another state, away from the other parent? If tha

Am I Legally Married?

Mar 19th, 2019 26m 52s

Are you questioning if you are legally married, or you may know you are legally married but a problem has occurred and now you want to see if you can get out of it without going through all the hoops of a divorce? If that sounds like you or you

"Top 5 Mistakes Divorcing Parents Make" with Trey Ishee

Mar 4th, 2019 32m 6s

Doctor Trey Ishee of Southeast Psych joins the podcast this week to discuss common mistakes divorcing parents make. Trey shares personal anecdotes from his career as well as a number of strategies to overcome these common mistakes and/or avoid

How to Get a Simple Divorce

Feb 25th, 2019 16m 7s

You've been separated for a year. No assets, no kids, not even a dog to fight about. You just want a quick and simple divorce so you can move on with your life. You may even be asking yourself if you need an attorney at all. If this sounds like

"How to Divorce a Narcissist" with Breta Collins

Feb 11th, 2019 27m 52s

Breta Collins of Dilworth Counseling is back to discuss the unpleasant task of divorcing a narcissist. The Mayo Clinic defines narcissistic personality disorder as a mental condition in which people have an inflated sense of their own importanc

How to Prepare for Mediation in Divorce & Child Custody Cases

Jan 21st, 2019 21m 19s

Mediation is a wonderful opportunity to resolve your dispute without throwing your case on the mercy of a judge. In fact, courts in North Carolina and South Carolina require mediation for most divorce and child custody cases. In this episode, y

"How Am I Going to Buy a House?" with Diane McDermott

Jan 7th, 2019 30m 47s

Diane McDermott is back to walk you through the ins and outs of buying your post-divorce home. After a stressful home-buying experience during her own divorce, Diane has focused her real estate business on guiding divorcing women through the ho