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I don't wake up looking for innovation. I like my
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bread and my peanut butter on it. That's
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what I like. What fresh hell.
1:17
Laughing in the face of motherhood. If I'm at
1:19
a restaurant or something, I'm like, I'm sorry, I'm
1:21
vegetarian. I don't know because I'll have any old
1:23
mushy pasta than salmon. With Margaret Aples and
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1:27
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Wednesday becomes regular Tuesday. Hello
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everyone and welcome to What Fresh Hell? Laughing
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in the face of motherhood. This is Margaret.
1:47
And this is Amy. This week we're going
1:49
to talk about picky eaters. We
1:51
have talked about picky eaters on
1:53
the podcast before, but we realized
1:56
that that was our first ever
1:58
episode of the show. the podcast.
2:00
Episode one, yes, picky eaters. It's something
2:03
that people ask us a lot about
2:05
and it's totally worth a revisit. I
2:07
did ask Margaret at some point giving
2:10
an update on my picky eaters and
2:12
so that's also in the feed but
2:14
this Amy, I'm going to blow your
2:16
mind because we talk about our
2:19
own kids and their eating habits
2:21
in this episode. How old was
2:23
your oldest kid when this episode
2:25
was recorded? In this time capsule,
2:27
I mean it's from 2016 to
2:29
eight years ago, my oldest was 13. 13
2:32
years old, you blew my mind. You're like, well,
2:34
my 13 year old. I'm like, holy
2:36
cow, it's been a long road.
2:38
Wow, and that was the big
2:40
one. We've been walking these lonely
2:43
streets all these years.
2:45
Yeah, that 13 year old now drives,
2:48
can go to a bar if he wants
2:50
to. Yeah, it's a long time. Amy, I'm
2:52
going to read you a direct quote from
2:54
that episode. Are you ready? Yes. I
2:57
wish so much that
2:59
I could look into the future
3:01
and know that this all works
3:03
out okay. Like if I could look 10
3:05
years down the road into the future and
3:08
know it's okay, I wouldn't have to worry
3:10
so much about it. Who said that you
3:12
or me? Me and I was like beating
3:15
myself up in this episode. I'm like,
3:17
and I will say I certainly have
3:19
some of my own
3:22
issues around food, which I've discussed on the
3:24
podcast. I consider myself in some
3:27
ways to be a picky eater, which
3:29
I find to be one of my like
3:32
worst qualities. And
3:34
it's something that I've
3:36
definitely in my
3:39
family, I guess I'm a more difficult eater.
3:41
I have a lot of issues around this
3:43
episode. And I was listening to like baby
3:45
Margaret and I just wanted to be like,
3:48
sweetheart, relax. So if you are baby Margaret
3:50
right now, I am literally
3:52
wow, is that the
3:54
wrong? You should have the word
3:56
literally. I am figuratively reaching
3:58
through the microphone. and
4:00
like putting my arms around you to give
4:03
you a gigantic calming
4:05
hug and say it's
4:07
not all gonna be alright it's not
4:09
gonna work out perfectly but like
4:12
everything else it's going
4:14
to be different I have told the story
4:16
on the podcast before about
4:18
a friend of mine from college
4:20
who gave me life-changing advice which is that
4:22
she had snuck somewhere away that she was
4:25
not supposed to be in high school I
4:27
believe with a boy gone to like some
4:29
house maybe her grandma's house probably to you
4:31
know I'm sure sit and say
4:34
prayers while they held hands on the
4:36
couch and she had locked
4:38
the keys to the car in the
4:40
car and so she's like where she's
4:42
not supposed to be she's made this
4:45
huge mistake she sits down on
4:47
the sidewalk and she's like she said that
4:49
thing that she kept saying is like this
4:51
is going to end at some point this
4:53
is going to be different at some point
4:55
like I am NOT always going to be
4:57
sitting here dreading this moment and I kept
5:00
coming back to me listening to
5:02
this episode and thinking wow it
5:05
really did turn out just like that I
5:07
will say that food and what my kids
5:09
eat at the time we recorded that episode
5:11
I would say was occupying roughly 79% of
5:14
my bandwidth yeah and I would
5:17
estimate that today it occupies about
5:19
4% of my bandwidth
5:21
and that's the best thing I can say
5:23
to people that's good that's done more than
5:26
a 90% react can you set the table
5:28
for what was happening in 2016 in
5:30
this episode you had a picky eater how
5:32
picky why was it taking up 79% of your
5:34
bandwidth I can and I will my children
5:36
let me knock your socks off for a
5:39
minute were seven
5:42
five and four so meal
5:44
times were hellacious they
5:46
were what fresh hell
5:49
every night for some different
5:51
what reheated hell what
5:53
like reheated or even worse
5:56
What hellacious think have I
5:58
put maximum. For towards
6:00
to be greeted by literal
6:03
like shouts of dismayed. Skiers.
6:06
I'd. Recriminations That's a good use of
6:08
the word literal that was literal sense
6:10
of dismissed as an emerald tears one
6:13
of my kids. I have realized. Has
6:15
some sensory stuff that defines a
6:17
lot of aspects of things for
6:19
this child. I talked a
6:21
lot about picky eating and like oh,
6:23
it was part of a larger constellation
6:26
of things that are going on and
6:28
is I didn't really see those things
6:30
as clearly then as I do now
6:32
and it. Food was
6:34
a problem for real
6:36
reasons. And it's.
6:39
It's. Totally fine and I think
6:41
I saw my kids do not
6:43
eat a roomba. But the
6:46
other day this is my big win. Would like
6:48
to simply them sir will seem insane. We got
6:50
take out to portray and I was like sitting
6:52
around watching three of my kids just eat. like
6:54
to pull like. If
6:56
you told me that picture what exists.
6:59
Nine. Years ago I would have been
7:01
like that's insane like one of my
7:03
kids, only it's very plain past us.
7:05
One of my kids would never even
7:08
be able to smell support. Lady who no
7:10
less be the same room with it. Yes,
7:12
things have evolved so
7:14
much and to do
7:16
my kids now. Are
7:19
they like mother might to pass the Brussels
7:21
sprouts for? And do they. Are my
7:23
favorites? No. Kids who
7:25
were very good eaters then have
7:27
different issues Now different things go
7:30
on with food throughout your life
7:32
ends. And gonna spoil the ending.
7:35
I. Think the best thing that we did
7:37
this around food was make it the
7:39
least interesting thing happening at the table.
7:41
Family. Conversation enjoy was the
7:43
purpose of meal time. We can
7:46
dig in a lot on what
7:48
that looks like and what that
7:50
means, but. Looking. Back if
7:52
a could have reached back
7:54
through the microphone and told.
7:56
Baby Margaret. One thing I would have
7:59
said you're doing the most important thing
8:01
which is filling your household with a
8:03
generalized. Feeling of like caretaking.
8:06
And happiness And the food
8:08
stuff will work and positivity
8:10
around mealtime. And said of fear
8:12
and an apprehension and citing and
8:14
writ large I think your kids
8:16
will remember. These errors as like we
8:19
did a lot of singing and dancing
8:21
and driving and go to the zoo
8:23
and seem cool stuff since having a
8:25
lot of fun. and last and they're
8:27
not time of her male time that
8:29
much and I think I probably could
8:31
have done things better in. Terms
8:34
of always offering.
8:36
May. Be wider range. Is and stuff
8:38
but he quit sli happens is
8:41
that your kids. Turn out to be the
8:43
kind of eater that you are. And
8:45
like Spoiler Alert this is the
8:47
podcast. I think about having re
8:50
read my journals at one point
8:52
from like. Four. Years span.
8:54
And I was in a relationship and every
8:56
other page was dismissing the exact. Same thing
8:58
about the relationship again and again for
9:01
four years straight And. Like how
9:03
I didn't realize. That I was reading
9:05
the same thing every two days. But like
9:07
the podcast version of that is, your kids
9:09
are gonna turn out like you. So
9:11
when I have this first episode I
9:13
didn't me listen but I remember at
9:15
the time so my oldest kid. Was.
9:18
A picky eater and the family. and
9:20
and I assume because I think this
9:22
is what happened in real life. By
9:24
the time my oldest was about thirteen,
9:26
he was moving out of that states.
9:28
And Iran are you being like was like
9:31
what's the secret Oh my gosh, I literally
9:33
was like tell me your ways. amy i
9:35
need to know what you did this and
9:37
this was a kid who just a set
9:39
the table from for where this to had
9:41
been was just again like a sensitive kit
9:43
and other ways to which i think you're
9:46
right to underline that like didn't like tags
9:48
and close pants had to be soft you
9:50
know that kind of stuff and that kid
9:52
would eat like for foods and then five
9:54
foods and then penny but not rigatoni and
9:56
this kind of role but not that and
9:58
of rule and You know, there were
10:01
many years of that and then slowly with
10:03
I think I'll skip to the
10:05
ending for me. I think the key is
10:07
you don't worry about it but you don't
10:09
ignore it, right? Like not freaking out about
10:11
it doesn't mean never put
10:13
any thought into it. It's like you
10:15
help them, you encourage them, you put different
10:18
foods in front of them. There are things you
10:20
can do to keep it from getting worse certainly
10:22
but worrying about it is not really one of
10:24
them. And this kid's case as
10:27
they reached puberty started going into,
10:30
you know, growing quickly and then
10:32
went to a camp without us
10:34
for a couple of weeks where dinner was
10:36
dinner and that was
10:38
I wouldn't recommend it for everybody but for this
10:40
kid that did the trick nicely. Like oh, I
10:43
do like enchiladas and again like enchiladas that was
10:45
not my wildest dreams that I think this kid
10:47
would ever eat enchiladas. Well they
10:49
did when that's all there was at this camp
10:51
and there were peers and there were cool 20-year-olds
10:53
saying the enchiladas were delicious like all sorts of
10:56
things I couldn't provide at home. And what
10:58
I think looking back and
11:00
re-listening to the episode really jumped out
11:02
at me is that one
11:05
always makes choices in one's
11:07
home about what their preferences
11:09
are and then the variables
11:12
are different children that come into
11:14
those choices. And what
11:17
I'm saying is this,
11:19
I certainly have
11:21
kids who have a lot
11:24
of anxiety around food. I remember being
11:26
that kid, I remember having
11:28
those anxieties. I
11:31
then make a choice that
11:34
I choose peace over
11:36
anxiety at mealtime which
11:39
may mean you don't have
11:41
to try the food that
11:43
grandma just made. And
11:46
if you don't like it, I'm
11:48
going to allow you to try the plain option
11:51
of that item even if
11:53
it means that at my
11:55
table someone says, I Can't
11:57
believe your kids don't eat what they're served. Let
12:00
me years. Shane Ray. I
12:02
can make my own choices about
12:04
how we conduct ourselves around. Food
12:07
is. Even. If other people
12:09
don't agree with this races and I think
12:11
that when I listen to Baby Margaret I
12:13
just hear so much of like I want
12:16
to do the right thing and I want
12:18
everyone else to do the right thing it's
12:20
and then when asked evidence to tell me
12:22
that I'm doing the right thing, my kids
12:25
changed a lot. In eight Nine Years,
12:27
but also Margaret said psyllid. And
12:29
Eight Nine Years. Of like oh,
12:31
we've actually made a choice. To.
12:35
Alleviate. Anxiety on this score that you
12:37
may or may not agree with and listen
12:39
may or may not be the right choice,
12:41
but that's what we're doing and what I'm
12:43
seeing in the big picture is kids who
12:46
have enough nutrition probably could use to eat
12:48
a little bit more vegetables. I could I
12:50
used to it more vegetables. As a kid
12:52
I really like vegetables. Now I eat a
12:54
lot of the my order them at every
12:56
meal. Six it's fine I have chosen were
12:59
on the spectrum. Of anxiety
13:01
to. New. Foods: I
13:03
want to live there and I just
13:05
personally. Feel much more comfortable with it as a
13:08
choice. Also I ever thought about anxiety around foods
13:10
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So I think I have a slightly different take but
15:41
it's probably coming to the same place which
15:44
is that anxiety around food is not
15:46
worth it and certainly at your table
15:48
is not worth it and fighting is
15:50
not worth it and right and all
15:52
of that. On the other hand what
15:54
we know about anxiety is you can't
15:56
reduce or address anxiety by accommodating it
15:58
right that if it's legal. I only
16:00
eat blueberries, like okay, you only eat blueberries but
16:02
if you then only, if you have
16:04
a six-year-old only eat blueberries and you only
16:07
ever serve or present or make available blueberries
16:09
then you will have a seven-year-old who only eats blueberries. You
16:11
have to and then they'll be like, but I don't like
16:13
that kind of blueberries, right? This one looks wrinkled or whatever.
16:15
And the other thing I was going to say about anxiety
16:18
is I think nobody who has anxiety
16:20
about anything, food or airplanes or dogs or
16:22
whatever, actually wants to have that anxiety. It's
16:24
not a good feeling. You don't
16:26
want to have it. I'm
16:29
not saying that you're doing this, you
16:31
know, therapy in your home at every meal. That's not what
16:33
you should do. But saying
16:35
like we're just not going to deal because
16:37
it's hard, you're probably not going
16:39
to move them along a way that they do
16:41
want to move along. I'm thinking about my picky
16:43
eater. We would go to a cookout, 4th of
16:46
July and I remember the tears, the tears
16:48
in the car and the way there. Oh, you
16:50
talk about this on the other episode with these
16:52
bun and tomato and ketchup sandwiches. Wait, he needed
16:54
a plan. Like what am I going to eat?
16:56
And I decided that we weren't going to bring
16:58
peanut butter and jelly because he doesn't want to
17:01
do it where we want anymore because he would
17:03
eat rolls, bread and rolls like that category was
17:05
safe. But and I had compassion like
17:07
this kid in his booster seat, Thierry
17:09
concerned what am I going to have for dinner? I'm like,
17:11
well, I think I know there's going to be rolls and
17:14
you like ketchup so you can have ketchup on rolls and then
17:16
we'll see if there's something else you like. For
17:19
me, I felt like that was a good, I was
17:21
accommodating, I was not accommodating his anxiety.
17:23
I was compassionate towards his anxiety. I
17:25
let him know that he was going
17:27
to be safe. There was something he
17:29
could do, but it wasn't like you
17:32
can sit in the car and I'll take you for ice cream
17:34
later because you didn't like anything at the cookout. I just
17:36
feel like there had to be, there's this balance you currently
17:39
have to do to do with
17:41
this, to not let it take over further
17:43
and it's hard to know where to draw
17:45
that. Yeah, I think that's right. But I
17:47
think that just having the conversation around like,
17:49
what am I solving for here? Am I
17:51
solving for keeping people happy?
17:53
But there's clearly too far an
17:56
end of that spectrum, right? Like you don't
17:58
want to just be like. Like it's the
18:00
most important thing is that my kid never
18:02
faced an obstacle and therefore it's
18:05
buttered noodles forever. That's
18:07
not healthy. On the other hand, I
18:10
want to go to this wedding and I know
18:12
that one of my kids is going to cry
18:15
the entire time
18:17
there about the food. And
18:20
I actually kind of want to enjoy
18:22
my let's say sister's wedding. And
18:25
so I am going
18:27
to take food off the table tonight and we're going
18:29
to work at it some other day. It's
18:32
maybe a not today problem. Similarly
18:34
and I still do this with my kids.
18:36
We just had this recently. I
18:38
had a family dinner, lots of generations at the
18:40
table. I said to my kids beforehand and my
18:43
kids are teenagers like find something you
18:45
want to eat on the table. I don't really care what
18:47
it is. Try not to comment on
18:49
the food. I'll keep some a little plainer on the
18:51
side in case you don't like the sauce on it.
18:53
Eat that. That's totally fine with me
18:55
because for me, what I'm
18:58
solving for like what's most important at
19:00
that table is like my kids
19:02
getting the gift of sitting down with like
19:04
three generations at a table, not
19:07
like are you trying the food? I
19:11
don't care if you're trying the food. But
19:13
even getting that three generations at a table,
19:15
that's tricky sometimes with a
19:17
really, really picky eater, restricted
19:20
eater, getting them to sit down
19:22
like you were saying before like if the
19:24
smell of chipotle makes you gag and there
19:26
are kids for whom this is not like
19:28
they're not making that up, even that, even
19:30
sitting at the table and coexisting with food
19:32
is a big step. It's something that I
19:35
think is important but it's not easy. Oh,
19:37
I had this child. Yes, absolutely. A kid
19:39
who, you know, and there's lots of kids
19:41
like it's obvious like every, you know, comedy
19:43
thing you see is like, oh, we
19:45
can't let the food touch and yikes, yikes and
19:47
that kind of thing that kids have. First
19:50
of all, kids don't have a lot of things
19:52
they can control. They can control what they put in
19:54
their mouth. So like there's a reason why control and
19:56
food goes together. It's very normal, makes a lot
19:58
of sense. There are some beloved,
20:01
you know we love them, biological imperatives
20:03
here, right? The kids' food tends to
20:05
get more restrictive as they get into
20:07
motion because in the wild, you
20:09
don't actually want a kid who can walk everywhere and put everything
20:11
in their mouth. So like, a baby puts everything
20:13
in their mouth is different than a three-year-old who
20:16
does because that three-year-old is more likely to
20:18
encounter poison berries, right? Lots
20:20
of different reasons why these are all
20:22
things that reasonably happen. It's
20:26
meeting your kid where they are and then
20:28
helping them to move where they are.
20:30
Like that's the two-pronged thing that we're
20:33
always trying to do. And yes, for
20:36
lots of people, that's
20:38
a kid who's like, can you tolerate
20:40
sitting in a room with someone who's
20:42
eating mustard? I'm not gonna lie, Amy,
20:44
I still struggle with that myself. Like
20:47
if I sit down at a ballpark and a guy
20:49
next to me is eating like a hot dog with
20:51
mustard and ketchup on it, I'm like, this guy has
20:54
ruined my day. I just don't wanna- To me, it's
20:56
the combo. Don't let him sit next to me. The
20:58
combo of ketchup and mustard, keep walking. It's so
21:00
gross to me and like the smell of it
21:02
and I have a lot of my own
21:04
sensitivities around food and smells. My husband
21:07
calls me the super sniffer and
21:09
it's true. I don't
21:11
choose to be around smells I don't
21:13
like. So like, it's, I think food
21:15
can be a great place
21:17
to use our former guest,
21:20
Dr. Becky's good inside starting
21:22
point that like, this
21:24
kid is good inside. They're trying to give
21:26
you their best. But like if
21:28
what you're getting is very difficult,
21:30
like why? Don't start with like,
21:32
it's because they're a bad kid. Like no, they're a
21:34
good kid. Now let's start
21:36
the conversation. And I think that's
21:38
right. They're a kid who wants to be at
21:41
the table with all of us enjoying themselves. What's
21:43
getting in their way of that? And
21:46
then what are the decisions I'm willing to
21:48
make in regard to that? And it's not
21:50
as simple as like they'll eat when they're hungry
21:52
and taste the rainbow. No. That
21:54
being said, I think there are
21:56
some big
21:58
guidelines. that we can
22:01
talk about around mealtime that I think
22:03
are helpful. One of them
22:06
is, think about, in order
22:08
to think about this question of like, what
22:10
is going on at mealtime that is making
22:12
this eating picky, right? I'm
22:15
going to say one
22:17
of the biggest culprits, I think, is dinner
22:19
time. That dinner is
22:22
the meal at which we most often focus
22:24
on like, this is when the family comes
22:26
together, this is when we try these
22:29
foods, this is the meal I
22:31
cooked for three hours, this
22:33
is dinner headline. And
22:36
that dinner can be one of the worst
22:38
times of day to be eating because
22:41
everyone's tired. Everyone's
22:43
at the end of a long day. After school
22:45
restraint collapse has, everyone's had their after school restraint
22:47
collapse. It's
22:50
in full effect, right? There's other stuff they're trying to
22:52
get to. As your
22:54
kids get older, it's homework. As the
22:56
kids are younger, it's often like, okay,
22:58
after dinner is dessert, relax TV, fun
23:01
things. There's a lot working
23:03
against you at dinner time and it's worth
23:05
just clocking that. And the biggest thing that
23:07
is working against you is that
23:10
your kids may not be that hungry. So
23:13
especially young kids who've been at school all
23:15
day, they've had usually like three meals by
23:17
dinner time. They've come home,
23:19
they've had a snack. How
23:21
hungry are they? And
23:23
so think of all of these
23:25
factors that are
23:28
coming together and you're like, now
23:30
it's time to try my delicious
23:32
fishy swas, mustard chicken. And it's
23:34
like, no, I don't want to
23:36
do that. I'm not hungry. It
23:38
smells gross. I'm tired. And
23:40
I just want to get to the cartoons that I
23:43
know come after dinner. And
23:45
so I just put
23:47
that in your path, folks. Like maybe
23:49
lunch is the time to try more
23:52
new things. Oh, that's interesting.
23:54
And also I was thinking lunches, sandwiches
23:56
and carrot sticks, but dinner, again, we
23:59
like code these. things, right? Lunch
24:01
can be little bite-sized things, bread
24:03
with anything on it counts as
24:05
lunch but dinner has to be a
24:07
meat with some kind of gravy on it
24:09
and a vegetable and it's also where we're
24:11
more likely to innovate and try
24:13
new and different things because I don't want
24:16
to eat the same thing every day and
24:18
my spouse doesn't so we try to mix
24:20
things up and neophobia is one word they
24:22
use to describe these kids for whom like
24:25
a new food is deeply, upsetting
24:28
unfamiliarity around food and
24:30
dinner is the time where that neophobia is most likely
24:33
to rear its head. Don't you think you the same
24:35
thing for breakfast every day? They can have the same
24:37
thing for lunch every day. I don't care but dinner
24:39
like you said mustard chicken. Right.
24:41
Breakfast is basically eight moving parts, right?
24:43
Like pancakes, waffles, French shows, I
24:45
mean we're in the US like bacon
24:48
or sausage and then like strawberries or
24:50
oranges or apples like. Right. That's
24:53
right. The moving pieces. And picky eaters
24:55
like breakfast because it's like it's the same.
24:57
It's predictable. A lot of it is prepared
24:59
foods like pre-prepared foods which are
25:02
consistent. You know what a bowl of Cheerio is going to
25:04
taste like? Even what a blueberry is going to taste like kind of.
25:06
And people have different preferences at breakfast too, right?
25:08
Like you know I am a toast and
25:11
peanut butter. That's my breakfast every day.
25:13
Like I like my same little breakfast. I
25:15
don't wake up looking for innovation. I like
25:17
my bread. I'm a peanut butter on it.
25:19
That's what I like. And so it's
25:22
not that these are rules that like kids
25:24
are ready at breakfast but you
25:27
are waking up so hungry at time of day.
25:29
Like there's reasons why you know. And
25:31
I think that people have gotten the story of like well
25:33
kids used to do what they were served. It's like right
25:35
but a lot of things have actually changed.
25:37
I mean you know kids
25:40
maybe are not as active or
25:42
they're on different schedules. Like there
25:44
are reasons why maybe if you
25:46
were like working on the
25:48
farm all morning you sat down to one meal
25:50
a day and you just went to town on
25:52
whatever it was. I don't
25:55
know but I think that starting
25:57
with like you clean your place.
26:00
at dinner, there's a lot of things getting
26:02
in your way there. Mm-hmm. Mm-hmm.
26:05
That makes sense. So dinner is the place where
26:07
you're most likely to introduce new foods and also
26:09
so that's another reason, right? Your picky eater is
26:11
going to have a hard time. I don't
26:13
think that that means necessarily that, okay, so you
26:15
have the same three foods that are safe. I
26:17
think I got into a little bit of a
26:19
trap with my two kids when they were little
26:21
because my picky eater would only eat chicken
26:23
nuggets and you know microwaves, frozen broccoli and
26:26
then I would eat something else
26:28
with my spouse and he came home from work and so
26:30
I kind of turned into like that's what's for dinner and
26:32
then all of a sudden when I was introducing something else,
26:34
there was whaling and gnashing of
26:36
teeth. If you want to,
26:38
yes, same. And that's how I grew
26:40
up. I had, we had kids dinner and
26:43
then my mom and dad ate when my dad came
26:45
home from work, like a nice dinner. And you want the
26:47
kids to eat. It definitely leads to some issues. Yeah, you
26:49
want the kids to eat so you give them the two
26:51
or three things they eat and then they'll eat two or
26:53
three things. So what I'm thinking back to this first
26:56
episode ever, I remember from this episode
26:58
that you had used Pillsbury Crescent Rolls
27:00
as the constant that your picky eater,
27:03
you know, didn't know what awaited them
27:05
on the dinner table. Might be mustard
27:07
chicken but they're also going to be Pillsbury
27:09
Crescent Rolls and there was the sort of sameness
27:12
of one thing and then you could introduce different
27:14
things around it. This was a solution that
27:16
worked phenomenally for me. Your
27:19
food with unfamiliar food that
27:22
like you never go from
27:24
like it's Pillsbury Crescent
27:26
Rolls, chicken nuggets and broccoli
27:28
to mustard chicken, you
27:31
know, ramps and
27:33
you know, some sort of pop over. This
27:35
is what I was like, you don't do
27:37
it. You can't make that hard lift on
27:39
a kid. And that's right.
27:41
I think they call this chaining, food
27:43
chaining that like you start to
27:45
introduce and build stuff
27:48
out. And for
27:50
us, that worked really, really well that
27:52
a kid who came to the table
27:55
knowing whatever else happens, I could just
27:57
eat a Pillsbury Roll.
27:59
and I will not
28:02
be hungry and miserable and then
28:04
I could just leave the
28:06
table or I could maybe try
28:08
some of the other stuff but like I'm
28:11
looking for my familiar things
28:14
and I will say that I
28:16
don't know if this is the greatest idea my kids
28:18
sometimes kind of approach this like but I do think
28:20
there's a little bit of a skill in like you
28:23
can find something to eat on that table and
28:26
like put a small servant I don't eat
28:28
salmon it's a very common food people serve
28:30
it everywhere I don't like it mm-hmm I
28:32
don't like it either you don't like salmon
28:34
I hate it if I'm like out of it like a
28:36
dinner kind of thing and they serve salmon I mean it's
28:39
somebody else's house I'll just eat it but if I'm in
28:41
a restaurant or something I'm like I'm sorry I'm vegetarian
28:43
I don't know because I'll have any old
28:45
mushy pasta than salmon yeah anything but
28:47
salmon so funny I don't know if
28:49
we've discussed that salmon is gross so
28:52
I know if I go to a dinner party
28:54
like if I came to your house for dinner
28:57
it's two couples right like you're like I've
28:59
made my delicious salmon my heart sinks
29:01
and I'm like I am hopefully you've
29:03
called me beforehand been like is there anything I don't eat and
29:05
I'm like salmon and peas are the two things we don't want
29:07
on the table but I have it so now
29:09
it's time to eat the salmon I
29:12
take a small serving of salmon and then
29:14
I load up on the sides like that's
29:16
still how I eat with stuff I don't
29:18
like so I think and this
29:20
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29:22
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29:24
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33:07
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33:12
you were talking about my familiar foods. Very
33:15
helpful. Big point. I'm not going to dial
33:17
down on it because if you've listened to
33:19
the podcast all you already know it. Big
33:21
fan of the whiteboard where you lay out
33:23
especially for kids who are anxious. Here's
33:26
what's for dinner every night and
33:28
here's what's happening every night.
33:31
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33:33
dad is back. Mom goes out
33:35
to dinner with like for kids as soon as
33:38
they can read you can do this with pictures
33:40
when they're littler. I think it's
33:42
super helpful to give kids a
33:44
lot of information because Sarah
33:46
Ulcher did this. Remember Mighty and Bright is her company.
33:48
We had her as a guest a fresh take and
33:51
she was talking about this in terms of kids if
33:53
it's divorced parents and they're going back and forth from
33:55
home to home. The most important thing for a kid
33:57
is to be able to see a visual representation
33:59
of Here's how today's going to go. So
34:01
it totally makes sense that that happens for food too.
34:03
Right. And think about it. Like
34:05
being a kid is really hard. I mean, my
34:08
sister in law, I remember, pointed this out to me
34:10
at some point. Like school is
34:12
like, okay, it's art time. Are you enjoying
34:14
art? Stop art. It's math time. You
34:17
hate math, but you have to do it for an hour. Okay,
34:19
now stop it. Now kickball. And you're like,
34:21
what the heck? Like if someone made you
34:23
live your life like that every day, it
34:25
would be torture. And
34:27
I think like, right, that we forget that
34:31
like, oh, come on, we're going, jump in the
34:33
car. Where are we going? Like
34:35
the kid is just constantly at the mercy of your whims and
34:37
then shows up to dinner and it's like,
34:39
I don't know what this weird food is. I don't know if I
34:41
want to eat it. Well, that's what's for dinner. And that's not if
34:43
my spouse and I are home alone. What do you feel like? What
34:46
are you in the mood for? You know? So first
34:48
thing I started doing that really helped is a lot
34:50
of like, and it sounds like a
34:52
lot of work. And please know that I'm
34:54
not talking about like Pinterest board versions of this. A
34:58
lot of like, make your own, add
35:00
your own. So it's a burger night.
35:02
There's like cheese, bacon. There's like four
35:04
things that could go on the burger
35:06
and then it's taco night. And
35:08
so it's like you can just have plain ground beef
35:10
with rice or you can have
35:12
rice and beans or you can have, you
35:15
can make your own version. And I do
35:17
think that giving kids some control over the
35:19
choices they make is helpful. And
35:22
one thing that unlocks this for me and it
35:24
never occurred to me is letting kids
35:26
serve themselves at the table too. That
35:28
like I had gotten very used to like, here's your segmented
35:30
plate and I give you this much of this and this
35:32
much of this and this much of this. Once
35:35
we started passing food, I feel like the
35:37
kids just had a lot more control. Like,
35:39
oh, I can take a little bit of
35:42
salmon and a lot of roll and
35:44
three pieces of broccoli. Like that's
35:46
my comfort level with this food.
35:49
And that I found until my kids were eight or
35:51
nine, again, like you said, like just
35:53
out of habit, just out of shortcut. I was
35:55
like, okay, I know you don't like this. I'll
35:58
give you a little piece. I was making. all
36:00
of those decisions and it was getting in the
36:02
way of their like growth in relationship with food.
36:05
I love that make your own idea because then these kids
36:07
again for whom new foods are a little distressing,
36:10
they can see the chickpeas in the table
36:12
and they may be like, chickpeas gross and
36:14
you say, oh, I think they're delicious. I especially
36:16
like them when I cook them in the oven
36:18
and they're crunchy, they you're exposing them to them
36:20
in a very, they're not on their plate, but
36:23
they're in the room and they see somebody else
36:25
enjoying them and then maybe two weeks later they
36:27
see you enjoying them again. Like it's a
36:29
good way to introduce more foods into
36:31
their awareness in a low pressure way.
36:33
Yeah. And I do think that the
36:35
action of like, I'm going to reach over and
36:37
try that versus like, I put that on
36:40
your plate and there will be no brownie
36:42
until you eat it. It's just a completely
36:44
different kind of interaction and something I
36:47
think that kids can start doing very, very
36:49
early. And
36:52
then, you know, table culture, we talked a lot
36:54
about in this episode and the only thing I
36:56
want to say about table culture is
36:59
we don't talk about the food at my dinner table. My
37:01
sister-in-law gave me this rule. We talk about anything
37:03
but the food. You like it,
37:05
you don't like it, you eat it, you don't eat it.
37:08
Think about hunger. Like maybe a kid's not
37:10
eating because they're not hungry. And
37:12
then now that my kids are teenagers,
37:14
we're doing another reset around, oh wait,
37:17
we don't do, I'm not hungry at dinner and then I'm
37:19
going to eat 36 Oreos and make 47 trips to the
37:23
fridge to eat nonsense. That's not allowed. That's
37:25
not a good idea at night. Turns
37:27
out, no, it's not great
37:29
because I still get a lot of like, well,
37:32
I'm not hungry at dinner but suddenly
37:34
at 9, I'm eating a bowl
37:36
of something, you know. And
37:39
it's, you have to let kids make their
37:41
own choices to a certain degree but parameters
37:43
around it make sense. And
37:46
what about dessert? Do you offer dessert
37:48
regularly in your house? I will say
37:50
my kids are now in an age
37:52
that they get their own desserts. And
37:55
I was just having this conversation this week with
37:57
my husband. We're just a little bit. We
38:00
need a back to one at our house. We're out of
38:02
control with a lot of things. It's like I've
38:04
been sick and traveling and he's been
38:06
traveling and like just like the piles
38:08
of chaos are everywhere and they're like,
38:10
let's just get taken because we're lazy
38:12
is every night and the
38:15
let's stop at the corner store for dessert
38:17
on the way home from the sport,
38:20
the concert, the lesson has become
38:22
this weird default also and everybody. And
38:24
so I think it's time for a
38:26
back to one around like just kind
38:29
of dessert as food,
38:31
you know? And I
38:33
think one of the things that I looked
38:35
up revisiting this episode is don't make dessert
38:37
a default and I was like, oh, that's
38:39
a smart idea. Like dessert happens sometimes. Sometimes
38:42
there's cookies on the table when you
38:44
get home from school, but there's no
38:47
like giant balance wheel in which like
38:49
this, then this food and dessert. It's
38:51
not a reward. It's not
38:53
a naughty, I deserve this. It's
38:56
just sometimes it's there and sometimes it isn't. Sometimes
38:58
it's there and sometimes it isn't and sometimes we
39:01
eat too much of it and you
39:04
know, one of my kids was, I
39:06
was thinking about people talking about, oh,
39:09
I was reading some article about, oh, they went to grandma's if
39:11
you fed them this and now we're all fighting because we
39:13
don't allow it. I'm kind
39:15
of team like there's never one day that
39:17
makes your nutritional profile. So like, I don't
39:20
care what they eat at grandma's house, but
39:22
at one point my kid went to
39:24
grandma's house and ate so much
39:26
ice cream and they don't have any kind of lactose
39:29
intolerance, but they ended up with like
39:31
really bad gastrointestinal bible. They were painful,
39:33
I would say. I will go into
39:35
details. Maybe some people are eating while
39:38
they listed this, but it kind
39:40
of taught them not to do that. I
39:42
mean, I think that this can all be a little
39:44
bit more light touch. The other thing
39:46
I did, do we talk about new food Wednesday already?
39:49
No, no, but I mean, we have ever, but you should talk about
39:51
it now. The other thing that I tend to do, and
39:54
I did love this and it worked out really well, someone gave
39:56
me this tip I stole it from someone, can't remember who, wish
39:58
I could credit you. New Food Wednesdays
40:01
so that we tried New Foods on Wednesdays and then
40:03
the rest of the week and then once it was
40:05
a New Food Wednesday, it could go into any slot
40:07
on the rest of the week. Right.
40:10
New Food Wednesday becomes regular Tuesday.
40:12
New Food Wednesday became regular Tuesday
40:14
and one of the things
40:16
that you talked about that I think is very
40:18
important is watching the labeling and like you said
40:20
the falling into. Oh, he doesn't like
40:23
peas. I'm never going to serve him peas. Oh,
40:25
he wouldn't want that. Oh,
40:27
he won't taste that. Always
40:30
offer. Just continually offer and I do
40:32
find now that my kids are tweens
40:34
and teens that they constantly surprise me
40:37
with, you know what I want to
40:39
try? I mean my kid who I didn't work that hard
40:41
on pretty much eats everything. Just
40:43
went on a trip with his aunt was
40:45
eating all sorts of crazy foods that I
40:47
would have never thought of and
40:49
I try not to comment on that either. Like oh my God,
40:52
you used to. You would have never tried that before. Just
40:54
kind of try to let the food
40:57
stuff be a stream that's passing by.
41:00
Every once in a while you may have to go into the stream
41:02
and do a rescue. That rescue being
41:04
like you have eaten 76 Oreos
41:06
and nothing else so we need to
41:08
do a reset around this but generally
41:10
just let it pass you by on the
41:12
stream. The
41:15
other hopeful story I will tell
41:17
Amy is that in this episode,
41:19
our New Food Wednesday that
41:22
I had just done was lasagna and
41:24
it went terribly but I was like it's only one day a
41:26
week and it's kind of the point of the thing. Everybody tried
41:28
it. Nobody will eat it now.
41:30
It's horrible. Everyone, they thought I was
41:32
trying to kill them making them eat lasagna and I
41:35
will say that my kid, my pickiest kid is now
41:37
basically Garfield. Like he only eats lasagna
41:39
and I was like be careful what
41:41
you wish for people. That's such a
41:43
good because like I went from a
41:45
non-lasagna eater to Garfield. Right, that's an
41:47
intense process but for food chaining lasagna,
41:49
like once your kid will eat noodles
41:51
with stuff in it. Like I
41:54
was thinking about food chaining is
41:56
like if your kid eats cheese ravioli then
41:58
maybe now they'll eat cheese and and
42:00
meat ravioli and they're eating ground
42:02
beef and now you can, that
42:04
you chain from familiar things become
42:07
or if you're kibalee crescent rolls, maybe
42:10
they'll have peanut butter on
42:12
crescent rolls and now they're gonna try almond butter. Okay,
42:14
now we have almond butter, now we can try this.
42:17
The lasagna is very. Yeah, and
42:19
also like a tortilla wrapped around
42:21
chicken is a chicken
42:24
sandwich, is a bao bun in
42:26
a Chinese restaurant. Right, right. And you can
42:28
really be like, this is what this is
42:30
and it's the same thing we say about
42:32
so many things. You're scaffolding rather than getting
42:34
in there and making something happen. You're
42:37
just like, oh, let's try it. Oh, I'll serve a
42:39
variety of things. Oh, this, oh, that, not like, if
42:42
I do not somehow get this pork chop into
42:44
this six year old's mouth, it
42:46
means everything is
42:49
lost. Not true, friends,
42:51
from the future, we're here to tell you,
42:53
not true. And I will say, before we
42:56
closed, it's not perfect at my house.
42:59
Kids who were the most sensory are still struggling
43:01
the most with this. As you
43:03
get older, different issues start to come
43:05
in around food, especially, you know, weight
43:07
and food issues. There's lots of stuff
43:09
down the road that's still gonna be
43:11
complicated and difficult. Set
43:14
that tone of like, what happens
43:16
at my table is joyful family
43:18
time and the food is secondary to it.
43:21
The food will come along, but
43:25
keep your pediatrician in the loop about this too.
43:27
Look it up, Google it.
43:30
Like, that's different than picky
43:32
eating. And so, don't
43:34
look to us for things that are medical
43:36
issues. Like, is your kid
43:38
gaining weight? Are they getting any nutrition? These
43:40
are questions you should be talking about
43:43
every year at your pediatrician's office. And
43:47
then from your comedy podcast, friends, you
43:49
should be getting the idea that like,
43:51
New Food Wednesday. We think you can
43:53
relax a little bit and maybe try New Food
43:55
Wednesday. Well, yeah, the relaxing, right, your anxiety will
43:57
not change anything in the...
44:00
increase the anxiety of your picky eater
44:02
who probably feels anxious around food and
44:04
that's why they're picky. They're not doing
44:06
it to get to you even though
44:08
it feels that way. Yes, for sure.
44:10
For sure. They're good inside.
44:12
They're hungry inside. Just like find it
44:14
together. Solved it. Solved it
44:16
for the second time maybe, let's be honest. Yes,
44:19
for the second time, right. Then and
44:21
now picky eaters, they aren't a problem anymore.
44:24
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44:57
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