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Before we begin, Please note this
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series includes talk of suicide and
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sexual violence. Please take
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care while listening. I
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have dreams about Sandy for
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an entire year. She's been in the back
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of my brain, never far from my waking
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thoughts. The white coat she
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was wearing on the last night of her life. It
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hangs in my closet. I see
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it every time I get dressed. Her
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things, her check book, her calendar,
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notes she wrote are laying across
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my desk. Her handwriting is familiar
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to me. Now there's
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a note Sandy wrote to herself that I have have almost
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memorized. I've read it so many times. It
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helps explain where her interest in policing
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came from and where her career
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ambitions might have first begun. It's
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called My Life as a Cop
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Freak. This
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is a real story of my life as a cop
1:00
freak. It goes back to when I used
1:02
to walk past the police department to catch
1:05
my bus for school. I was only
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fifteen, and policemen would wave, smile
1:09
and say hi. They looked so
1:12
good in that white county car and blue
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uniform. I've always
1:16
wanted a job where I could be looked at with
1:18
respect. They always
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seemed to have that sort of ego with them.
1:23
Then one day I got a job at the local drug
1:26
store and at nights we had county policemen
1:28
in there. I met three
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that were really nice guys. First
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night I met Ray, a real nut. He
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was short and looked a lot like John Denver.
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He asked if I wouldn't mind a cold beer after
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work, until I told him I was only seventeen.
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Then he kind of said, we'll wait until you
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get older. After
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work, my dad was there to pick me up. The
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next night, a real young, great
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looking guy came up to me and asked who I
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was. I could hardly believe
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what he asked. He stayed by my counter
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all night, talking about bullshit. I'm
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pretty sure Sandy was still in high school
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when she wrote this note. The
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infatuation, the excitement,
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the giddiness about attracting male attention.
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It reminded me of how I felt about boys
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at that age. I'm not
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sure exactly what Sandy meant by cop
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freak, but by her own admission,
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she was one. She simultaneously
2:29
wanted to be liked by them
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and wanted to be like them.
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She wanted to enter their world, where
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their uniforms try on
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their egos, and at some
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point in her senior year of high school she
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did. Sandy's
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family told me that's when she set her sights on becoming
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a cop and began training in earnest
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going on ride alongs with local police,
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and according to her brother Michael, it
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all started out okay. She
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had her heart sat on I'm a
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police officer from the time
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she first mentioned it all
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the way up through. You know, she had
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nothing bad to say, probably
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a good year and a half that
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she did the ride alongs whenever
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they got a call that they went for, from speeding
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tickets to traffic accidents,
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nothing nothing major. M if
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something major came up, I think
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that she had to get dropped
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off. Ride alongs are exactly
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what they sound like. A civilian
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rides with an officer in their patrol car
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as they go about their duties. The
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earliest record of one that Sandy attended
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is marked in her calendar on March nine,
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Sandy would have just turned
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eighteen and been in high school. Still,
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based on my reporting, she would have accompanied
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one other police officer on a
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shift that typically lasted from
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three to eleven PM.
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I actually, you know, the way she talked I actually
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kind of wanted to do one to myself,
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just to just to see, you know, hey,
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what goes on here? You know, what do you do when
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you pull somebody? What do you do when
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you're you know, you're in
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a bad situation? How how do things
4:16
go here? You know? I wasn't as
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enthused about that as she was, but I
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did think it was kind of neat. But
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Sandy's sudden interest in policing was
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a bit confusing to her family, who
4:27
had no ties to the profession. At
4:30
first, I was a little surprised, like, really, yeah,
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So she was talking about these rid alongs
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and how she enjoyed them. Some of the long
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she was saying that, you know, they know it wasn't
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hundred said about board? What
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I do we call She's saying, yeah, man, Jesus,
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guys, get away with ship. Sandy
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didn't go into detail about what kind of
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ship they got away with, but the
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Pig County Police Department was notorious
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for its use of excessive force, especially
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against the county's growing black population.
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Once a predominantly white, working class
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county, the area saw a radical
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demographic shift in the seventies as
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black families moved there from d C. But
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as the racial makeup of the community
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changed, the police department remained
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overwhelmingly white, the
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results of which were often brutal for
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people of color. As one veteran
5:23
cop told The Washington Post at the time,
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quote, it was a known fact
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that if you came into Page County and made
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trouble, the police would kick your head in
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simple as that. Here's
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a story from around the same time Sandy
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would have been going on ride alongs in
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Thomas Pete, a black man, was
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pushing a stalled car in a seven eleven
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parking lot when several PG County
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police officers arrived. Witnesses
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reported that, unprovoked, the officers
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began beating Pete to the ground, cracking
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his head open. This incident
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triggered a public conversation about police
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brutality, but ultimately the
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police faced no real consequences.
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Like Sandy said, they got away
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with ship. From
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My Heart Radio, I'm Melissa Jolson
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and this is what happened to Sandy
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Beale and I Heart original podcast,
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Chapter three, My life
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as a cop freak growing
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up. She wasn't any different than us getting in trouble.
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We had all three kind of seemed
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to get in the same kind of trouble. After
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a while, Sandy kind of her
6:37
own way. Michael is in his early
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sixties now and moves with a quiet
6:42
and deliberate air. He's
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warm, but also a little bit guarded,
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which makes sense when you learn his backstory.
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He has lived through the excruciating pain
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of losing two daughters, one
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to congestive heart failure and another
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in a car accident. But
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Sandy is the first loss of Michael's
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life, and it came early, when
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he was a senior in high school. The
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two siblings were close, both in age
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only a year apart, and in the
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intensity of their relationship. With
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most of her family. Sandy was tight
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lipped about her time with police, but
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Michael was granted a rare glimpse of her world.
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She graduated a year before me,
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and while she was out of school,
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most of her time was spent with
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work and with um,
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hanging out with the police department
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and the ride longs and stuff
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like that, and then going to these
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FLP lodges and hanging
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out with them and
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drinking and stuff like that. He said, she
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said they all were just let
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the hair down, when in that FOP
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stands for fraternal Order of Police.
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It's the largest professional police organization
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in the country. State level
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outposts are called FOP lodges,
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and some, like the FOP Lodge in Prince
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George's County, have a bar where
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officers can socialize. That
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lodge, number eighty nine is where Sandy
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would go to grab drinks with cops. Michael
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said the drinking age was only eighteen
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back then. She talked about just going through
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the club and hanging out and having a good
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time, and the cops will bring
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her home. Half the time they had been half
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drunk. When you're bringing her how many cop cars?
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So I'm like, well, there you go. The
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FOP lodge Sandy visited is still
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open today. I haven't been there,
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but I looked at pictures online. On
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the inside, it looks a bit like your average
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sports bar, with carpeted floors,
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bare walls, and blinds pulled down
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over the windows. It has
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eight flat screen televisions, two pool
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tables, and a jukebox. The
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bar stays open until two am Monday
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through Saturday, and on Tuesday's
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domestic beers are a dollar. Is
9:00
long as you were in law and enforcement, you can go
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to this place. They just go
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there and hang out and swap stupid
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stories and cheating their wives
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and doing silly things like that. So
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it's about pretty much. But I got out of it.
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But she was trying to learn as much
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as she possibly could by going on
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these ride alongs and hanging out with the police
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and and you know, just taking
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things in and seeing seeing just what goes
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on, how things are donned,
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you know, so that when she
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was able to get into the academy, she would
9:32
have something, she would know what to expect, what was
9:35
coming down the line. At the time
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Sandy was trying to become a cop, women
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accounted for only two percent of sworn
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officers, and many of them worked
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desk jobs. It was only
9:46
in two the Prince George's
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County started admitting women into the
9:50
police Academy get Sandy
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envisioned a place for herself there, even
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when there was little indication that she would be
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welcomed. I wanted to
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understand the climate she was operating within,
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and without being able to talk to Sandy,
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I found the next best thing, another
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woman who began policing around the exact
10:08
same time, Dottie Davis.
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It wasn't like it was my lifelong goal
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to be a police officer. Um,
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I literally was looking for an
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occupation that paid well and
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that was satisfying to me, And so I
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started as a dispatcher, which then led
10:25
to me applying to a neighboring
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agency. Literally,
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I was watching the officers,
10:32
the troopers that I was dispatching,
10:34
the calls for service, and
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I was thinking I could do that. First
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of all, I'm an avid runner, and
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um my father was against Smith. So I've
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been shooting since I was eight and reloaded
10:49
new ammunition since I was nine. I
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grew up in what I believed to be kind
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of a paramilitary household, where
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the only way you responded to my parents
10:58
was yes or and no, may am. So if you
11:01
can put everything but I just said,
11:03
together, I think about what I recruit
11:05
classes like in the academy.
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Man, I loved it. Dottie
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has retired from policing, but she spent
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over thirty years with the Fort Wayne Police
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Department in Indiana. She
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started as a patrol officer, moved
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up to sergeant, then lieutenant, captain,
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and finally deputy chief. My
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very first, very
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first training officer told
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me to get in the car, don't
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touch anything, and shut up.
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If I need anything from you, I'll tell you.
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And I was like, this
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is going to be a really long eight hours.
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It wasn't a very welcoming environment
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for a female, but I learned
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early on, um, you're probably
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not going to be heard. If
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Dottie had been attempting this journey just a
11:57
few years earlier, it's likely
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she would have been shut out. But in
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nineteen sixty four, Congress passed
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the Civil Rights Act, which prohibited
12:06
employers from discriminating workers
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on the basis of sex. In
12:10
nineteen seventy two, Congress extended
12:13
the law to local and state governments.
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In practice, that meant women could no
12:18
longer be excluded from important jobs
12:20
like policing and firefighting. Still,
12:24
local police departments continued to
12:26
deny women jobs by issuing height
12:28
and weight requirements that many couldn't meet.
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In nineteen seventy seven, the Supreme
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Court ruled that the use of heightened weight as
12:35
a screening mechanism was unlawful
12:37
discrimination. And so we
12:39
were still as two babies, if
12:41
you will, we were still being looked at as
12:43
pilot projects, um to
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see whether or not we were going to be able to
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be successful and hold our own
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While removing these barriers made it easier
12:53
for women to become police officers, they
12:55
still had to face workplace environments
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that were indifferent to their ambitions
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or even outright hostile. A
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detective and I were writing
13:05
the elevator back up to the detective
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Bureau, which was on the second floor, and
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he pinned me against the elevator wall
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and tried to kiss me, and
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I shoved him off of me and started
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yelling at him. And then I
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went into the detective bureau, went
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to the captain and said, I'm not
13:25
riding with him anymore. He just pinned me against
13:27
the elevator tried to kiss me, and
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I'm not putting up with that. And
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what happened? He got
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nothing other than told leave
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her alone. Some of the behaviors
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Dotty described for obviously predatory,
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others seemed designed to simply undermine
13:45
women and keep them from getting too comfortable
13:47
in their positions. So
13:50
as much as I love to shoot, I
13:52
had a firearms instructor that
13:55
would stand over my shoulder. I
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mean I could like next to my body
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and he would tell me to squeeze
14:03
the trigger like you were squeezing
14:06
a nipple. And
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I know I'm looking at your face. I
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wanted to bark because
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it was just so ridiculous
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that he would even say that, and
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of course it threw me off my game horribly,
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which I don't know if that's what he wanted because he didn't
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want a female to be the top gun.
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Dottie emphasized how isolating
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it was to be one of the two, a
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woman in a sea of male cops. And
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honestly, it's not that much different today
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currently around of
14:41
sworn law enforcement officers or women.
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That means, in many precincts across the country,
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it's not uncommon to be the only
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woman on a shift, the only
14:50
woman in a division. That
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isolation can have a corrosive effect.
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It is very easy for you to lose
14:59
your identity and i'd have fit in and
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become one of the boys. And I
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learned that no matter how much rank
15:06
you have or time and grade, you
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are never going to be one of the boys. And
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you have to continue to maintain your
15:12
identity and be sure of who
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you are because they will eat you out.
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When Sandy's body was found, there were
15:27
two small books in her possession, address
15:30
books that she used to keep track of the people
15:33
she met. I have them now,
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and I've spent the last year pouring over them,
15:37
trying to see what they can teach me. I've
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cataloged each of the names and researched
15:42
their identities. Alongside
15:45
her classmates at Bladensburg High,
15:47
her neighbors and seat Pleasant, and her
15:50
colleagues from the department store
15:52
are another category of acquaintances,
15:55
police officers. Every
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few pages, the name of a cop appears,
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either a PG County Police officer or
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a Maryland State trooper, along
16:04
with their phone number. Examining
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her handwriting, it's hard to tell if
16:09
these cops were her friends or professional
16:11
contacts. Some entries include
16:13
official titles and others are written
16:16
more casually. The number
16:18
for the fo P Lodge is also in there.
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And then there's the list in the back of the book,
16:25
thirteen names long. In
16:27
black ink, Sandy wrote down a
16:29
series of three digit numbers,
16:31
each one adjacent to a last name.
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As far as I can tell, they're all PG
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County Police officers, and the
16:39
numbers identify their police cars.
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When I first flipped through Sandy's address
16:44
books, it wasn't clear to me how
16:47
a high school student would know so many
16:49
police officers. That change
16:51
once I connected with one of the PG County
16:54
cops from Sandy's books. Ray.
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That's Ray from the drug Store Ray,
16:59
the John her look alike from Sandy's
17:01
note My Life as a Cop Freak. Ray's
17:04
name appears in her books a few times,
17:07
along with a phone number, an address,
17:09
and what appears to be his police car number.
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Ray told me that he doesn't remember Sandy,
17:15
but he did have an idea why she was able
17:18
to go on so many ride alongs as a
17:20
teen. As he explained,
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Sandy was likely part of the Police Explorer
17:25
program in Prince George's County, which
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launched in nineteen seventy six. The
17:30
program allowed teens to shadow police
17:32
officers at work and try out
17:35
or explore the job to see
17:37
if they might want to pursue a career in law
17:39
enforcement. I
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hadn't heard of Police Explorer programs,
17:44
so I did some research. Turns
17:46
out they now exist all over the country.
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They began in the nineteen fifties as part
17:51
of the Boy Scouts of America. Although
17:54
side note they're now run by a subsidiary
17:56
called Learning for Life. Girls
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weren't allowed to join in until nineteen. In
18:02
nineteen seventy six, the Boy Scouts received
18:04
a grant from the federal government to promote
18:07
the program, and it worked. A
18:09
lot Of new posts, as they're called, cropped
18:11
up all around the country, including
18:14
one in Prince George's County.
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Based on my reporting, I believe that Sandy
18:31
joined the Prince George's County Explorer program
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in its very first year, when
18:35
she was a senior in high school. Sandy
18:38
would have been one of the first generation of trainees,
18:41
though I wasn't able to confirm this, as
18:43
a spokesperson for PG County Police
18:45
said they were unable to locate a record
18:48
of participants from that year. The
18:51
program is still active today, open
18:53
to those aged fourteen to twenty.
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When I checked recently, there were about
18:58
ninety current members. There's
19:00
an established set of rules around who can
19:02
join and what requirements you need to meet,
19:05
but back in its early days, it wasn't
19:07
such an official program.
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Ray didn't want to be recorded for the podcast,
19:12
but he did offer some helpful context.
19:15
He told me that he was part of the p G County
19:17
Explorer program when it first began,
19:20
and as he described it, the program
19:22
was pretty loose and disorganized. Officers
19:25
didn't receive any specialized training before
19:28
being placed with teens, and there were
19:30
very few rules. You
19:32
recalled chaperoning a ski trip to Pennsylvania
19:35
with a bunch of teenagers in the Explorer
19:37
program. When he went to check
19:40
on a group of girls in a hotel room,
19:42
knocking on their door, he discovered
19:44
they were smoking pot. That was
19:46
his queue to quit the program.
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I understood from Ray that the point
19:52
of his story was to illustrate that he
19:54
saw the Explorer program as a risk
19:56
to his career. The potential
19:58
for things to go wrong was is too high,
20:01
and so he left. He was
20:03
looking out for himself. But
20:05
it made me wonder who
20:07
was looking out for Explorers like Sandy.
20:14
Over the past year, I've tried to connect
20:16
with every cop in Sandy's address books
20:18
that I could track down. I've
20:20
sent emails, letters, and messages
20:23
on social media. Few
20:25
responded to me, but I did manage
20:27
to talk to a couple of police officers whose
20:30
names corresponded with Sandy's records.
20:33
There was one PG County police officer
20:35
in particular, though, who I really wanted
20:37
to speak with, Bob. Sandy
20:40
listed him as her emergency contact.
20:43
She also noted his birthday and his
20:45
name pops up on occasion in her calendar
20:47
too. I thought
20:50
if any of these cops were Sandy's friend,
20:52
if anyone could provide some insight into her
20:55
life, it would be Bob. Bob
20:57
didn't want to be recorded for the podcast,
21:00
but he confirmed that he worked in the Explorer
21:02
program at the time that Sandy would have been
21:04
in it. He recalled taking students
21:07
on ride alongs, but he couldn't
21:09
explain why his birthday and phone number
21:11
were written in Sandy's books, or
21:13
why she would deem him important enough
21:16
to list him as her emergency contact.
21:19
He, like Ray, said
21:21
he didn't remember her. This
21:25
became a recurring theme in my reporting.
21:28
To my surprise, none of the cops
21:30
I spoke to remember Sandy,
21:33
at least they said they didn't. They
21:35
didn't even remember that a police trainee
21:38
had died by suicide, something
21:40
I thought would leave an impact. Sandy,
21:43
it seemed, had been invisible to
21:45
them. I wondered what that said
21:47
about how she was treated when she was alive.
21:52
I'm going to play the second part of my interview
21:54
with Detective Shosselsky, now the
21:57
PG County police officer who handled
21:59
Sandy's case, because I think it
22:01
speaks to this question of how police
22:03
interacted with Sandy, Shelski
22:06
told me about something unusual that
22:08
occurred right after her death. Let
22:11
me say this nice
22:14
found lying after him
22:16
with the police officers
22:20
if their names in the book,
22:23
Shelski is referring to Sandy's address
22:26
books which were discovered in the car with
22:28
her. Were these just Prince George's
22:30
County police or with these state troopers
22:33
County Okay?
22:35
Why were they calling she
22:40
listed them as one of her friends.
22:45
What was their motivation though for calling? Like?
22:47
Were they trying not to get in trouble
22:49
professionally, personally
22:52
or like? And
22:55
you estimated about ten
22:57
people called you. Did they
23:00
it to having relationships with her?
23:02
Pretty much? It was pretty
23:04
clear who wasn't really a part of
23:08
my investigation. But
23:10
when they heard that she had
23:13
killed herself, being
23:15
will what
23:17
was their end goal to calling you? They
23:19
wanted to see if she had made
23:22
any mention of them
23:24
in case it came out in some way they
23:27
wanted to head to like not
23:29
necessarily well, I don't
23:31
know, well now what I had to be?
23:34
You know, they were sexually involved
23:37
with her. Did
23:41
any of the police that called you express
23:44
sadness about her death? No?
23:47
Very nurse a
23:50
personal stress
23:52
were stressed, and that there
23:55
was perhaps there's something written with their
23:57
name for the obvious
23:59
reason. What
24:02
did you make of her spending all this
24:04
time and having sexual relationships with police
24:07
officers? I knew it was going to
24:09
be a stink. I didn't imagine
24:13
years later stink
24:16
is going to come. I
24:20
want to slow down here because this is really
24:23
important and the audio is not great. Detective
24:26
Selski is a little blase and his
24:28
delivery. But what he told me
24:30
is that while he was investigating Sandy's
24:32
death, ten PG County
24:34
police officers called him to find
24:36
out if their names had been linked to Sandy.
24:40
And this wasn't an off handed comment either.
24:42
Selski told me this detail in two
24:44
different phone interviews. He wouldn't
24:47
tell me the names of the men who called, which
24:49
made this claim hard to fact check, but
24:52
I believed him
24:54
the way he divulged this information though
24:57
it was like a gossipy aside, not
24:59
something that he thought should warrant any further
25:01
investigation. But it
25:03
sounded like a big fucking deal to me. In
25:06
my line of work reporting on domestic
25:08
violence and sexual assault, this
25:10
scenario of a teenager having
25:12
intimate relationships with upwards
25:14
of ten adult men, let alone
25:17
police officers who were supposed to be
25:19
training her. It rang every
25:21
alarm bell in my body.
25:24
I started this project wanting to find
25:26
out what happened the night Sandy died, but
25:29
as I got deeper into the reporting, I
25:31
had more and more questions about exactly
25:33
what happened when she was alive, specifically
25:37
when she was hanging out with cops
25:39
on these unsupervised ride alongs.
25:42
I knew I had to tell the Bills what Schelski
25:45
said because it confirmed their
25:47
gut instinct that the cops were hiding
25:49
something. It just wasn't what they
25:51
had thought. The
25:57
family was heartbroken to learn about
25:59
these pg con the police officers, who
26:01
Shallski said spoke so callously
26:03
after her death. Here's
26:06
Kim, her cousin. Well,
26:08
until you guys uncovered all of that,
26:11
I think that I had a
26:13
sense in naivete where I
26:16
just really believed that all
26:18
of these people that she had the names of were just
26:20
nice people and we're her friends. And
26:23
that snapped me out of my believing
26:26
in the kindness of
26:28
these people, that they're really just trying to
26:30
cover their butts. Like me, Kim
26:33
hadn't known exactly what to think about
26:35
Sandy's address books and the list
26:37
of cops she was collecting. She
26:39
had settled on a generous interpretation
26:42
that the officers in the books were Sandy's
26:44
mentors who helped her as she tried
26:46
to pursue a career in law enforcement.
26:49
Now she had to contemplate something more nefarious.
26:53
Now. I don't know what her thinking might have been.
26:55
Then, I do know that she was
26:57
very um, happy,
27:00
lucky, and maybe she thought that,
27:03
you know, with sex, pame power. So
27:05
she was probably pretty enamored that any
27:07
of them would be interested in her. And she
27:09
probably saw it as Wow, these people that
27:12
have some authority and power are interested in
27:15
me. And she probably hoped
27:17
that there was more to it than it was.
27:19
But she was a kid, and she was naive, even
27:22
though she thought she knew
27:24
more than she did. But when ten
27:26
of them are are asking
27:29
is my name in there? There are some fishy
27:31
stuff going on. I don't
27:33
know. It feels disgusting to me. Really,
27:36
I don't know how they live with themselves. Kim
27:39
had believed the police swept Sandy's
27:41
case under the rug because of her involvement
27:43
with Doug, the state trooper. She
27:46
suspected that Doug was in the ployard that
27:48
night. That Doug held all the answers
27:50
the family desperately yearned to hear. But
27:53
now there were other possibilities, And
27:56
then you know, it could have been any of those other
27:58
guys too. But man
28:01
with that kind of power and that kind of
28:03
ability to manipulate and
28:06
be charming and grooming her, how
28:10
overwhelming for an eighteen year
28:12
old girl to try to sort all that out, The
28:16
immense pressure and shame
28:18
she must have been under at the time. It's
28:22
really sad. It's
28:27
sad. It's just sad. So
28:30
I do believe they have equal responsibility
28:34
and hurting her. There
28:47
have been few times in my career or
28:50
my perspective on a story has changed
28:52
so quickly. Kim initially
28:54
asked me to investigate Sandy's case because
28:57
of my experience reporting on domestic
28:59
violence, specifically domestic
29:01
violence homicides. Sandy's
29:04
family was worried that she had been killed by
29:06
her boyfriend, but
29:08
my conversation with Shashelski opened
29:11
up a whole new line of reporting as
29:13
I tried to make sense of the calls that flooded
29:16
in after her death. On
29:18
the one hand, it provided some evidence
29:20
that Sandy might have been struggling emotionally
29:23
keeping secrets that would have been profoundly
29:26
isolating for the team, And
29:28
on the other it hinted at a larger
29:31
conspiracy involving many
29:33
cops with a lot to lose. It
29:36
all reminded me of a story Joanne
29:38
told me the first time I met her in
29:41
the summer of one. It's
29:44
about one of Sandy's friends. Her
29:46
name is also Sandy, Sandy
29:48
Sheridan. According
29:54
to Joanne, Sandy Beale and Sandy
29:56
Sheridan spent a lot of time together in
29:59
the months before Andy died. Despite
30:01
my best efforts, I've never been able to
30:03
find her, but Joanne told me
30:06
she called shortly after Sandy died.
30:08
She called me right up. She said,
30:10
what happened all those cards that we collected
30:13
of different cops. Sandy
30:15
Sheridan explained that she and Sandy
30:18
Beale had been collecting business cards
30:20
of all the cops they met, But
30:22
when Joanne looked through her daughter's belongings,
30:25
there was only two cats in
30:27
her belongings that then laid out on
30:29
the table for us to say. Sandy
30:32
Sheridan told Joanne one more thing that
30:35
local police had been told to stay away
30:37
from the funeral, and as far
30:40
as Joanne could tell, they did. I
30:43
wasn't sure what to make of these claims. At first
30:46
they felt a little conspiratorial, but
30:48
after learning about those calls to Shahlski,
30:52
it seemed a lot more likely that the stories
30:54
were true. I ain't got no reason
30:56
to really not trust the cops. But there's
30:59
you know, ship ain't add enough. You know I've always
31:01
had that was ship just ain't adding
31:03
up. That's one thing
31:05
I did tell the detective
31:07
and that other guy. I told him,
31:09
I said, you know what really burns my
31:12
ask is she wanted to be just
31:14
like one of you. She
31:17
wanted to be liked by them, and she wanted
31:19
to be like them. And
31:21
at some point between her innocent flirtations
31:24
with cops at the drug store and
31:26
her body being discovered on a cold February
31:29
morning, something went horribly
31:31
wrong. Whatever
31:34
happened to her while she was in the Explorer
31:36
program, I think it's
31:38
unlikely she was the only one. I
31:42
asked p G County for any records
31:44
related to complaints of inappropriate
31:46
sexual behavior within the Explorer
31:48
program from s to
31:50
now. They told
31:52
me that a search of the current internal affair
31:55
system uncovered no complaints, and
31:57
that to search an older system, I
31:59
would need to give them the officer's name in question.
32:03
I've passed along a list of names in Sandy's
32:05
books, and I'll let you know what we hear. But
32:08
here's what I found when I searched for old news
32:11
articles about the Pig County Explorer
32:13
program. In just
32:16
five years after Sandy died, a
32:19
veteran Prince George's County police officer
32:21
took a sixteen year old on a ride along. The
32:24
girl ended up attending the police academy
32:26
and becoming a police officer, fulfilling
32:29
the dream that Sandy had. But
32:32
thirteen years later, after she joined
32:34
the sex crimes unit, she reported
32:36
that she had been raped by her mentor on one
32:39
of the many ride along she attended. The
32:41
officer was later convicted of child abuse.
32:46
I think Sandy was a victim too. I
32:49
think her desire to be a cop, her
32:51
teenage infatuations, and
32:54
her inexperience they all
32:56
coincided to leave her open to exploitation.
33:00
That's next week. Well,
33:06
this is the whole thing about predation.
33:09
It works better for the predator
33:11
if your victim is vulnerable. And
33:14
what more vulnerable plays than you know, a
33:16
desperate young person trying
33:19
to start a Korean law enforcement I'm
33:25
not done digging into this story, and
33:27
i have more questions about what happens in
33:29
police Explorer programs. If
33:32
you have ever been part of a police youth program
33:34
or participated in a ride along, or
33:36
you witnessed or experienced some sort
33:39
of inappropriate sexual conduct, please
33:41
email me at what Happened to Sandy
33:43
Beale at gmail dot com.
33:47
What Happened to Sandy Beale is hosted
33:49
by me Melissa Jolson. It's
33:51
written and produced by me and Katrina Norvell.
33:54
It's edited by a Bussafar, Josh
33:57
Fisher, and Mary Do. Sound
33:59
design by Aaron Kaufman. Jason
34:02
English is our executive producer and
34:04
Merissa Brown is our associate producer.
34:07
To find out more about the investigation, follow
34:10
me on Twitter at q U A
34:13
S I am A d O. Thanks
34:16
so much for listening
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