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All right. Hey,

0:34

everybody. Welcome

0:37

to When Reality Hits with Jackson

0:39

Brittany. We have a special guest here

0:41

today. It is the beautiful LaLa

0:44

Kent. Hey, girl. Hey,

0:46

girl. Give them LaLa. Do

0:49

you introduce everybody with, I have a very

0:52

special guest or just me? I say something

0:54

different every time, I think. I'm going to listen back to all of your episodes. But

0:56

you are a special guest. Thank you. We are so excited

0:58

to have LaLa here. Jax

1:02

is ready to tear into our troll

1:05

of the week. Which,

1:07

I mean, do we do troll of the week at

1:09

the very beginning? Well, this week we are. It's

1:13

been the same troll ever since we started this podcast.

1:16

Okay. Yeah. And

1:18

yeah, you might have a little insight on that. So why not? Let's

1:20

do it. So let's get into it. First of all,

1:22

good morning. Good morning. Lisa's here

1:24

with us today, too. All right. Let's

1:26

get into it. All right. Well, obviously

1:29

the troll of the week is. I know. I got, yeah.

1:31

I mean, I'm still going. I'm

1:33

still going through it with Randall. every

1:36

week. I have my own personal names for him. LaLa has her own personal names

1:38

for him. this anyway, even we're doing the podcast.

1:40

What are you standing there for? I'm standing here for the troll of the week.

1:42

I'm standing here for the troll of the week. I'm standing here for the troll of the week.

1:45

I recall you say this, but you said it was

1:47

your first like only on CodEdge that you were ever

1:59

sworn in, Was that a streak?

1:59

He stays in his fraudulent

2:02

box and I stay in reality.

2:04

Right. That's where we don't

2:07

really communicate, obviously. I

2:09

just, I'm really happy. I'm sorry

2:11

that you haven't been paid, but I'm thrilled because I

2:13

no longer have to pay him from my podcast.

2:16

That is insane that you had to pay him for your podcast.

2:19

So many people talking about I'm securing

2:21

the bag. Hey, I'm so glad that you did

2:23

the name give them blah, blah, dot, dot, dot with

2:25

Randall. Because it was really easy to change, I'm

2:27

sure. Yeah,

2:29

I don't think many people know that I was

2:32

paying him. He would not let go of the money

2:34

with the podcast. Like when I kicked him off

2:36

of it and said there's no version of me doing

2:38

this with you, he would not let go of the freaking

2:41

money. I'm so freaking

2:43

thrilled that I don't have to pay this. Was it like

2:45

a year contract or something? Is that why you had to pay

2:47

him? Yeah. And the fact that you had

2:50

to pay him at all after everything he did is

2:52

just insane. Well, it was crazy because

2:54

most months I paid him more than

2:56

he paid Ocean and Child support. So it

2:58

was like, oh

2:59

my God, you were paying him more than Child

3:02

support. Yeah. But I was trying to check

3:04

for more with the podcast. Yeah. So

3:06

I was actually his sugar mama. Oh my God.

3:09

I love it. He was actually the gold digger in there. The world's

3:11

need to know this. I'm so glad

3:13

you told this because that is hilarious.

3:15

He should have been taking that money from your podcast and

3:17

paying it to Jax. Well, I'm sure

3:20

he was somewhere. Well, I don't think

3:22

Jax is the only one that's looking for each show. No,

3:24

it's gotta be for all of them.

3:26

Listen, I realize I'm very low on the

3:28

totem pole when it comes to paying people back. I understand

3:30

that I get it. I'm not like from

3:32

what I hear. And I got

3:33

people. You're all even Jax. Well,

3:35

like I said, the only difference is totem pole here.

3:37

I'm not, I'm not a studio. I've said this many

3:40

times. I am not a billionaire, a millionaire,

3:42

a huge poker player. I can't afford

3:44

just to lose 75 grand. See

3:46

you later. You know, I can't just wash it out like a lot of these guys

3:48

can. And I've been getting a lot of messages

3:51

from people. And actually I just talked to somebody

3:53

recently again that's saying he's asking me for

3:55

money so it's like I just, I don't understand.

3:58

I'm almost like, Hey, does someone. Somebody want to

4:00

help me get my money? I'll give them a

4:02

portion of what he owes me. I'm like, I

4:04

don't know what to do. I'm lost here. He's

4:06

not returning any of my

4:09

lawyer's messages. It's just

4:11

been back and forth. I'm really

4:13

sorry that I brought him into your life, Josh. No,

4:15

no, it's my fault. I should have done my due diligence.

4:17

Well, at least we have Ocean. She's worth all this, miss.

4:19

Absolutely. Right, but Ocean's

4:22

like, yes. But it's still

4:24

like, I feel really guilty about

4:26

the lives that I brought this

4:29

degenerate into. You shouldn't feel bad. You

4:31

had no idea all this crap was gonna come

4:33

from this. Let me ask you this. We all thought Randall was

4:36

really cool. He was fun to be

4:38

around. He had a good personality.

4:40

We actually thought that he was fun and

4:43

stuff. So I get

4:45

the appeal you saw in the beginning, but you

4:47

had no idea all this was gonna happen from that.

4:49

So you can't blame yourself whatsoever.

4:51

Let me ask you, so what did you think of

4:54

the Randall Scandal Hulu special?

4:56

What did you think? What were your thoughts on that when you watched

4:58

it?

4:58

I thought it was very well done. It was

5:00

like, it broke my heart to see these

5:03

kids who

5:05

moved to Hollywood and had these incredible

5:08

dreams. And not only did he break their dreams, he

5:10

broke them as people. And I gotta be

5:12

honest, watching that, knowing you, knowing

5:15

Randall, that was just the tip of the iceberg. That

5:17

is like literally, I mean, I watched it and

5:19

that was horrific, but I know so much

5:21

more. You know so much more. There's

5:23

a lot more in depth. I mean, it could

5:26

have gotten a lot worse for him. It could

5:28

have been a lot worse for

5:28

him. Well, that's why when I see him do

5:31

interviews about things

5:33

that have come out, I'm like, you should actually be

5:35

thanking God that this is all

5:38

that's in this documentary. And even

5:40

after this documentary, how is he still working?

5:42

I don't understand. Who

5:43

would give this person money? I just, I

5:45

don't. I mean, look, I did, I did. And

5:48

look what happened. So I guess. Go easy

5:50

on yourself. Yeah, seriously.

5:53

Like I pro-created with you. What?

5:56

What? What? What?

5:58

What?

7:59

anyone who's expecting my labor experience

8:02

because every single person that I've preached

8:04

to about how incredible it is and what to

8:07

do, they're like, it was a nightmare.

8:10

Weren't you wearing like a half-shirt

8:11

the next week? Yay! Like 10, 10, like.

8:14

I remember, I know you were, because I know Bernie

8:16

came in. I know Bernie came home, I

8:18

guess you guys went to, I think it was like a Sports Illustrated partner,

8:21

whatever. You came home, you're like, that bitch

8:23

was wearing a

8:23

half-shirt. I'm like, I'm not

8:25

a shirt. She really had a baby yesterday.

8:28

No, that was so funny. I think that's genetic

8:31

though. Oh yeah, you were so, so lucky. I

8:33

know, like, that's why I feel like a lot of

8:35

people have related to my story as well, because a lot

8:37

of women struggle with weight

8:39

gain and stretch marks and things like that whenever

8:41

they have a baby. And a lot

8:44

of people are like you and just snap right back. I wish

8:46

that was me, but. I know.

8:48

It's not worth it in the end. No, I know, and it's really

8:51

difficult because even though I

8:53

feel like I snapped back very

8:55

quickly and I'm grateful, it doesn't matter what

8:58

your bounce back looks like because you're

9:00

always going to see something that just doesn't

9:02

sit the same after you give birth. That's very

9:05

true. Like even now, because

9:07

I'm just a thin person, you know? Like

9:09

I take after my dad, no offense, mom, your

9:12

body be banging, but like my dad was like a little stick

9:14

figure. And I'll do like

9:16

ab workouts in the gym and it's like crepey

9:19

skin. So no matter what, you're gonna

9:22

see that your body is just different. The

9:24

skin is different. Maybe the bounce

9:26

back was like not so slurped

9:28

up,

9:29

but we all have our little things that we

9:31

fixate on. I mean, my belly was humongous

9:34

whenever I was pregnant. Do you remember at the end, I

9:36

forget where we were, but

9:38

I was like me and you were like at the office, if you

9:40

guys watch the office, it's like Pam and Angela.

9:43

And they're like sitting there together and Angela's

9:46

like big prag and small

9:48

prags or whatever she says. Remember, I was like,

9:50

that's me and Lala right there. You

9:52

were all babies. It was huge

9:54

baby. But you

9:56

think Sheena was all baby. Yeah, Sheena was, yeah,

9:59

me and Sheena. I feel like I definitely

10:01

gained the most out of you guys.

10:03

Out of all of that. Can I tell you, when a woman

10:06

just becomes all baby when she's pregnant, like

10:08

Kim Kardashian, when she's splurging

10:10

out of her shoes. Oh yeah, I was like a Kim K and

10:12

a Jessica Simpson wrapped all in one. It

10:15

is the cutest thing ever. Remember

10:18

at the end, Jax, I was walking around and you, it

10:20

was like towards the very, very end, and I'm walking and you're

10:22

like, whoa, Brittany, like you just like noticed

10:24

how big my stomach was. Yeah, I think we were actually

10:26

in Santa Barbara when you- Well, that's what I was

10:29

talking about

10:29

with Lala. We were in Santa Barbara and you like

10:31

turned profile. I was like, whoa. I

10:34

hope that my next pregnancy I'm freaking

10:37

giant. And then I want to

10:39

be pregnant during Halloween and

10:41

be a semi truck and have the person I'm with,

10:43

so probably my mom, wear the sign

10:46

that says, oversized

10:48

load. Wide load, oversized

10:50

load. Wide load, whatever. That's actually a good idea.

10:52

So cute. I love it. I mean,

10:55

yeah, every pregnancy can be different

10:57

and it's all just amazing, I

10:59

think. Like a women's body is absolutely

11:01

incredible. I know, all the dude does is like

11:04

shoot some like little substance, like creamy

11:06

substance. Yeah, all you have to do, that's so

11:09

true. It's like pleasure and fun. And

11:11

then we have

11:11

to deal with everything else. I

11:13

had to sleep on a really uncomfortable bed in

11:16

that hospital. What'd

11:18

you say, Jax? I had to

11:18

sleep on a really uncomfortable bed in that hospital.

11:21

Oh my gosh, you were able to, Jax can fall

11:23

asleep no matter what he's doing and it was robbed.

11:25

But in real life, you can fall asleep anywhere.

11:27

I know, that's the joke. My mom

11:29

knows, was it uncomfortable? The bed or

11:31

the couch or whatever it was? It was, right? But

11:34

it's kind of like on friends, remember? When she's pushing

11:36

the baby and she headbutts Ross and she's like, you know, Ross

11:38

goes, you have no idea how bad my

11:40

head hurts right now, remember?

11:41

Oh yeah. When Ross headbutts her, she's

11:43

like, are you kidding me, I'm pregnant. Yeah,

11:46

right? That's exactly how Jax would be. Like,

11:48

yeah, Jax is not good at being

11:50

sick or anything like that. No, I mean. But

11:53

you were asleep within the first like 10 minutes of the hospital,

11:55

I feel like.

11:55

Yeah, I was asleep. Great, great. Yeah,

11:58

I fall asleep. Well, men I always say are like a. hair

12:00

of balls, like very sensitive. Very

12:08

sensitive and weak. Someone's

12:11

being like such a weak human. I'm

12:13

like ovary the. Yes. I

12:18

love that. I like that. We have to start

12:20

using that. That's a Merck shirt over. That's

12:23

a

12:23

Merck shirt. I always think of Merck shirts now

12:25

when I'm on podcast. One of the questions

12:27

that somebody said online. I forgot

12:30

to write down their handle, but it just made me think of that. They

12:32

were like, tell all, tell Lala to make

12:34

a shirt that says I wasn't your best

12:36

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12:38

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When did I... start

16:00

calling people hoes? I don't know.

16:03

You guys were saying the C word so much too.

16:06

A lot. Well

16:06

this gets into my next question. So did

16:09

you watch back the reunion?

16:14

Did you watch it yourself? I watched it like a hundred

16:16

times. And what did you think about it? Like now that

16:19

it was edited and everything and put together and cut, obviously

16:21

you were there but it's a different story when you're watching it.

16:23

What were your thoughts on it? Were you happy

16:25

with it? Were you happy the way you looked? Were you happy the way

16:27

everybody else looked? Thrilled.

16:28

I mean part three was a little intense.

16:31

I was like alright let's kind of reel it in. It was really

16:33

good TV though. It was great. Just

16:36

because I'm a huge fan you guys know of reality

16:38

TV. So watching myself as

16:40

from like a viewer I was like oh this is like really

16:42

good. Watching everybody I mean James was great.

16:45

I think people loved part

16:47

one and part two. I think part

16:50

three it started getting intense

16:53

because

16:54

Raquel was like clearly not

16:56

right. Yes. And people and I don't

16:58

want to say that I sympathize with her because

17:00

I didn't. But at the end of the day and Jax

17:02

you can relate to this so can you Brit but you're so sweet.

17:05

Jax is a little unhinged. But

17:08

when you're filming a reality TV

17:10

show you you just assume that

17:12

everyone who's filming is mentally

17:14

equipped to handle things that come out of

17:16

your mouth situations they're thrown into. So

17:19

the moment that I watched Raquel in

17:21

her five-minute little confessional where

17:24

she definitely told the entire truth I

17:27

sat there and was like oh we're we're maybe dealing

17:29

with someone who's not okay to be in this

17:31

environment. Yeah. Now I don't know I'm not

17:33

the one to make that call. Raquel has to make that call.

17:36

I definitely didn't regret how I approached

17:38

her. Like she really came for me this

17:40

season. Yeah. Pretty hard

17:43

but because I'm tougher people are like no you

17:45

came for her heart. No I retaliated

17:47

harder. That's so true. She

17:49

was calling she was calling me names all season. Yeah. Yeah.

17:51

Right. That is true. Mistress chicken

17:54

shit. Oh my gosh that is so crazy that she

17:56

was calling you mistress and stuff because the whole

17:58

time she knew that she

17:59

this affair and she was sitting there calling you.

18:02

So watching that stuff back was like really

18:04

crazy. I think had Sandoval

18:07

not said everything he had said to me, you

18:09

know, like so preachy while he was doing that

18:11

and then Raquel calling me all those names

18:13

while she was doing that. I don't think I would

18:15

have been as angry at the reunion. I think

18:17

I would have been like,

18:19

you know, shit happens. That's

18:21

Ariana's deal, right? Yeah. Like

18:23

she can take on her own fight. She's the one that was cheated

18:25

on. Yes. I was pissed off that y'all called me

18:27

all these names when you were doing that. Yeah.

18:29

And they were doing worse than anything that

18:32

you have been doing. Like what the heck? Yeah.

18:34

It's like being the biggest hypocrites and

18:37

the whole time, like throughout the

18:39

entire reunion, Sandoval was just lying,

18:41

lying, lying, lying.

18:42

So let me chime here. That's what

18:44

I was trying to get out here and I was waiting for you to get to that.

18:47

So obviously the secret, whatever really to me,

18:49

it wasn't really a secret. Kind of knew this whole thing was going

18:51

on anyway. But the fact that you wasted

18:54

that reunion was a wash. It's

18:56

a wash because he lied the whole time. So basically

18:58

everything that was said was like, this is a pointless reunion now

19:00

because it's, it's everything that you said

19:02

and you just prayed it was a lie. So instead of

19:04

that coming out first, then you guys could have called them on

19:07

that. They waited till the end to do that, which

19:09

I personally like, this is, this is

19:11

garbage now. You can't, you're not

19:13

explaining it, right? You're, you're meaning that, that

19:15

Tom was lying the whole time saying like it

19:18

was one time, one time.

19:20

Basically what she

19:21

said is this

19:23

whole thing was, was a scam, like a sham.

19:25

I was doing this the whole time. No, he was,

19:28

but all of us were calling him out on it the whole

19:30

time. It was all saying he's lying. Yes.

19:32

This wasn't a one-time thing. Like we all called

19:34

him out. I like that they saved that for

19:36

the end because it just goes to

19:38

show

19:39

how again he's a dangerous

19:41

person that can look you in your eyes and he believes

19:44

that it was one time. Right. Well, that's what I'm

19:46

saying. I'm saying everything he said is what I'm saying is

19:48

a waste of time. Everything he said, he

19:50

wasted everybody's time preaching and this and that

19:54

was always not what we got. But it made the reunion that much

19:56

better though. Because it just showed, it

19:58

just showed like how.

19:59

much of a liar he really was. And

20:02

how much he was training Raquel

20:05

on what to say. Like it became

20:07

so obvious. The narcissist loves the good training process. They

20:10

like thrive off of it. Oh

20:12

my gosh. Jax always

20:14

loves this question and I wanna ask you, if Jax

20:17

and Kristen Doherty were on the show,

20:20

do you think that it would've

20:22

came out sooner? Because I have a feeling that

20:24

as soon as you started having your suspicions,

20:27

Kristen would have dug

20:28

so much. I've heard that after the show. Well

20:30

and I would've had someone to talk to

20:33

about this. I didn't have anyone. Katie

20:35

was in a difficult position because she's going

20:37

into business with Ariana. No

20:39

one wanted to hear me on this.

20:43

I remember you saying it to me even at, what

20:46

was it, Labor Day when we were all at that same party at

20:48

a line's house in Tom and Raquel.

20:50

You were saying something that day that it was weird that

20:52

they were hanging out all the time. Yes, it was just

20:54

the whole thing was just very strange. And

20:57

people love to live in the, well,

20:59

if this wouldn't have happened, you would've looked so

21:01

bad. And I'm like, well, if we live

21:03

in the if, then we have to also

21:06

live in the probably. Because if this

21:08

weren't happening, I probably wouldn't have

21:10

had that gut feeling. I

21:12

had the gut feeling because it

21:13

was happening. That's so true. You

21:16

were right. And I think Kristen would've went

21:18

right with you and like found, you

21:20

guys would've been hacked into their phone. Yeah,

21:23

yeah. And then you would've said. Every Uber ride to see

21:26

when they would pick each other up. And then send

21:28

me in to do all the dirty work. Yeah, and then Jax would've had

21:30

to go blow it all over. I would go in to blow it all up. I

21:32

think the first time ever you and I, Jax

21:34

would've been like Bonnie and Clyde. Yeah, 100%.

21:37

Oh yeah, I think so too. You know, and Brittany would've been telling

21:39

us to calm down and you would've been like, we ride

21:41

a fucking dog.

21:42

Yes, that would've been me. Somebody asked us

21:44

this question yesterday out of the chat

21:46

room. And they were like, and I thought that

21:48

was just a great question about what

21:51

they found out sooner if Kristen and I were

21:53

involved. And I thought that was such a

21:55

great

21:55

question. I gotta talk about

21:57

this on my podcast. You

22:00

and Kristen, you stir. And

22:04

that's what was so difficult when

22:06

you guys weren't a part of the show

22:08

anymore, was that a lot

22:10

of people, I'm not gonna name names, but

22:13

the camera goes up and they worry about what the

22:15

comments section is going to look like. Where

22:18

that makes your job difficult,

22:20

my job difficult, because I need everyone

22:23

to be living normal life, but on

22:25

a hundred, actually. Everything you

22:27

think now needs to be talked about

22:30

and I said this yesterday, and I said, you

22:33

know, we sign up for the show, knowing they're gonna

22:35

talk about our lives. You can't pick and choose what you

22:37

wanna talk about. This is about our lives. You

22:39

can't have your cake and eat it too. You can't say, well, I'll

22:41

talk about this, but I won't get into this, but I'm

22:44

gonna do this, and I'm not gonna go to this. And that's what Sandoval did.

22:46

That's exactly what he did and that was so frustrating, because

22:48

I called this out for many, many years. They're

22:50

not talking about their relationship. They're not.

22:53

And I've called it, they've gone back and done flashbacks from

22:55

season one, season two. This

22:57

is this relationship's not right. Tom is not

22:59

right. I've called

23:00

it out so many times and nobody

23:02

wanted to see it. So it was frustrating

23:04

because I'm bleeding out here. You're bleeding

23:06

out here. We're talking

23:08

about things that are super personal. I did hide

23:10

my life. I feel like that's why I can talk

23:12

this way, because I'm coming from a place where it's

23:14

like, I understand you wanting to protect,

23:17

right? You're talking about the very beginning?

23:19

The very beginning, season five. But you've

23:21

changed since then. Of course. Of

23:24

course I've changed since then. I had a very humbling experience.

23:26

I realized where there's smoke, there's fire.

23:29

And I also love to out people. Yeah.

23:33

And drag them to find the truth. I'm

23:35

a truth seeker. Yes. So

23:37

I understand

23:38

when someone's in a relationship and

23:40

they want to protect it. But I feel like...

23:42

But then you shouldn't be on reality TV. Exactly. I'm

23:45

sorry, you can't have both. That's not how it

23:47

works. And I agree with you. Yeah. It

23:49

can be hard. I mean, reality TV can really ruin

23:51

relationships. Absolutely. It

23:53

can. How is dating going for you right now? It's

23:56

non-existent. It's not existing. Your mom is

23:59

your husband right now.

23:59

No, I'm the husband, she's the wife. Yeah,

24:02

there you go. I go to the office and

24:04

work and then there are times where

24:06

I look in my wallet and the Amex is gone

24:09

and I'm like, no, it's literally

24:11

like we are. That is so funny.

24:14

But you know what, I think last year

24:16

I was very in my trauma

24:19

and I think I'm now aware of that. Now that time

24:21

has passed, I can kind of look at my life

24:24

and how I talk and

24:26

realize, oh, you've got some

24:28

stuff to work through. Like you're

24:29

traumatized. Yeah, you went through a lot, la

24:32

la. Yeah, and I don't wanna project that. And you're still

24:34

going through it, right? I mean, it's not over with.

24:38

So until I can work

24:40

through some of my trauma because last year, even

24:42

though it seemed like my, I was just like,

24:45

I was like Miss Cleo, right? I

24:47

was like seeing the future. Oh. But

24:50

it was really me in

24:52

my trauma being like, this is not right, this

24:54

is not right. I was hypersensitive to everything. I'd

24:57

like to kind of remove myself from

24:59

like

24:59

talking about everyone else's

25:01

relationships because I'm so triggered by them. Like you

25:03

go figure it out. Not my issue and

25:06

work on my own trauma so that hopefully

25:08

one day I can be around a straight man

25:11

and not be triggered by them. Yeah,

25:13

yeah. Not the time to date for me. Yeah,

25:15

so you're not ready at all today right now. So the quote unquote

25:17

the dawn is not existing anymore. Well, that's what I was gonna

25:20

ask. This was a question from at mom

25:22

since O2. Is la la still staying

25:24

hooking up with the dawn? No, I'm

25:27

not seeing or hooking up with the dawn. That

25:29

ended a while ago. I had

25:31

enough of my own drama going on that I

25:34

couldn't take on someone else's drama

25:37

with whatever they were dealing with in their personal

25:39

life. It just cracks me up that you call him the dawn. Like

25:41

his name is Dawn, right?

25:43

His name's Dion. Oh. I

25:45

like the dawn better. And you just started calling him the dawn.

25:47

Did you make it up? Yeah, well I was

25:50

like Dawn. Dawn

25:52

is my dad's name so every time you say the dawn

25:54

it's like a white man in his 16s. No,

25:58

you're the dawn.

25:59

Love it. That is so

26:02

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26:04

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26:06

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29:41

or mechanic? I don't know why this question

29:44

makes me laugh. My mom's nodding like yeah,

29:47

certainly. Because

29:50

I don't know. I think you would get bored. I

29:52

think it's not about what they do

29:54

or what's in their bank account or any of that.

29:57

You can handle yourself when it comes to that.

29:59

It's more about the life is weird. Yeah.

30:03

Like meaning your life, the reality. Our

30:06

lives are weird. It's not like we're actors

30:08

where it's like we do a movie and then we get to fade

30:11

into the background if we want.

30:13

It's like we literally pay our bills

30:15

because we're willing to share our entire

30:18

lives. So if

30:20

I were to meet an accountant or a plumber who

30:22

was like

30:23

down that everything is going to

30:25

be out there, obviously they'd have to pass a background

30:27

check, but everyone does. I don't care what job title you

30:30

have. Yes. I love that you do that.

30:32

Yes. I mean for him...

30:33

I mean you learn from your mistakes, right? You learn from your mistakes

30:36

and gosh, if you would have done a background check on

30:38

Randall, holy hell. Oh my gosh. Holy

30:40

hell. But

30:41

I mean, I don't blame you. Well I would have seen that he was in a lot

30:43

of trouble with certain things, but like

30:45

it... That's the other crazy

30:47

thing is like the background checks that I got back

30:49

with what he was also being

30:51

accused of were not found on

30:53

a background check.

30:55

So you can only find so much, but I

30:57

do like a worldwide background check. It's

30:59

like you may be clean in the US, but have you ever

31:01

done anything in Germany? Because

31:04

I'm going to have to know that. I

31:06

love it. This is called Wounded. Oh

31:09

my gosh.

31:10

I'm trying to think of what kind of guy I could see

31:12

you with. I feel like you're right. I mean it definitely

31:14

has to be somebody who would be willing to film

31:16

too, because then it's like

31:18

if you're dating somebody who won't film, like that

31:21

sucks too. You know? It's

31:23

part of your whole life that you can't show. Well

31:26

that's a deal breaker. Yeah. It has to

31:28

be somebody that would be willing to film. I mean

31:30

they don't have to film their whole lives, but they have to tap in and

31:32

tap out once in a while. They have to show their

31:34

faith. They have to show their past. They're not looking

31:36

for the person to come on and have a storyline.

31:39

It's just like we need to understand that you exist. I

31:42

can see Lala with a sexy plumber. And

31:44

they're draining the earth. What

31:46

is it called? Draining

31:49

plums. Plumbing pipes. Plumbing pipes. Cleaning

31:52

pipes. Dike

31:54

in. They're making... Oh, Shana,

31:56

thank you for that sexual. Flushing

31:59

the lawns.

31:59

Lisa says That

32:06

would be hilarious

32:07

I have a really quick question for me Where are you with

32:09

Tom Schwartz right now? Are you talking to him or are

32:11

you yeah? Do you talk to him at all or are you kind

32:14

of just kind of whatever? He's there whatever

32:16

I'll say hi But like cuz I just couldn't figure

32:18

out what the show and everything how it was going in it Obviously you

32:20

guys went into it a few times, but where are

32:22

you as of today? Are you guys talking? Do you feel

32:24

things off very quickly? Right like

32:27

you could literally say anything to me, and I'm

32:29

like that's how I am yeah I know I'm same

32:31

way,

32:32

but with Tom Schwartz He's

32:34

got his own I I've read that

32:36

he like cut ties with Sandoval is this

32:39

so he was on our podcast And he straight-up

32:41

told us multiple times like I'm

32:43

done taking a break from Sandoval that

32:46

he feels like he was used by Sandoval

32:48

that Sandoval has a huge ego

32:50

that he needs I mean I mean he went in

32:52

now now I'm real quick I don't know if you notice

32:55

to Tom Sandoval is still doing

32:57

his touring and he's changed the words in his songs

33:00

Talking about how Tom lost his house. Yes,

33:02

it's like this is his best friend mind you his

33:04

best friend his business partner Talking about

33:07

you know Tom Schwartz his mom talking

33:09

about how he lost his house talking about

33:11

And

33:14

like in Schwartz is just kind of you know Schwartz

33:16

doesn't really have I love Schwartz I do but

33:18

sometimes he doesn't have a backbone you know I know

33:20

and I think that that's my biggest my biggest

33:22

thing with him was When

33:24

he was saying all those things to me about like

33:26

my face or whatever I knew that it had nothing

33:29

to do with me He was dealing with an internal battle.

33:31

That was yeah, so far

33:33

removed from me, but it was being projected onto

33:35

me, right? Yeah,

33:37

I would love for him to choose himself.

33:39

What is best for you? I want you to get off

33:41

of all of the sinking ships mm-hmm because

33:44

Tom has been nothing like for him to

33:46

think of my daughter when it's her birthday For

33:49

him to acknowledge the death of my dad

33:52

like his five-year anniversary of his passing

33:54

my dad I know he has like the

33:56

sweetest heart, but it's like I want you to pick yourself,

33:59

right? Yeah

33:59

I agree. I want you to be selfish.

34:02

And I and I'm telling you and he deserves it with

34:04

everything He's going through with his family to like

34:06

so much going on with his dad brothers

34:09

I mean I you know that's his personal but there's

34:11

a lot going on behind the scenes that he's

34:13

also with the show is going Oh stressful enough then

34:16

on and then when you check out and go home

34:18

when I say check out I mean you punch out from the show he

34:20

has to deal with his mom his father his three

34:22

brothers It's a lot, you know that he financially takes

34:25

supports by the way, you know, that's a lot

34:28

All this on the podcast it's not like we're yeah But

34:30

I mean he's you know, he's putting his own money into the

34:32

bar He's putting his own money into his brothers

34:34

his father's mother like he doesn't put anything to himself

34:36

But I'm glad you guys you're saying that you're

34:38

like over stuff like you're not as like mad

34:40

that you just want him to Step

34:43

up a little bit with what I deal

34:45

with in my personal life Yeah, it takes

34:47

a really fucking shitty human

34:49

to make me like

34:51

not want to forgive Yeah, forget

34:53

and move on like you making fun of my lips

34:56

all good, man And you know, he thinks you're yeah, but

34:58

that just You

35:01

said it perfectly I think I'm cute as a

35:03

but you are and

35:04

I think you said it perfectly I think he was just

35:07

like spiraling and he was just looking to something to grab

35:09

on and like hey I'll just make fun of that like I'm

35:11

the way I'm the perfect person to do that too I've

35:13

told he knows you're not gonna take it to heart.

35:15

Yeah, we'll shake it off pretty quick.

35:17

Yeah. Okay good I just wanted to see where you guys were

35:19

but I like I said, I always want the best

35:21

We're gonna switch it up to something on a positive

35:23

note because I want to know this answer, too This is a

35:25

question from Amanda Sakhavito

35:29

Oh sack of the sack of the

35:31

dough or something. Sorry if I'm messing that up big

35:34

time But I like this question. What did Lala

35:36

dream she would be as a kid when she grew up

35:38

famous You always wanted to be famous always

35:41

that's okay always now. I thought

35:43

that I was gonna be famous for like acting

35:46

You had done a lot

35:48

of acting though. Well, yes,

35:51

I have acted but like I'm a reality

35:53

TV person. Oh, yeah I

35:55

definitely did not see that in my future, but I always

35:57

wanted to be like a known person. Yeah I want

35:59

her to be a

35:59

I never thought I would be doing

36:02

what I'm doing now. I wanted to work with children. I

36:04

wanted to be a pediatric nurse

36:06

or work with special needs kids. That was

36:08

like always what I wanted to do. I never saw

36:11

me living in LA and like doing

36:13

all this stuff. The universe had other plans

36:15

for you. But now I've got cruise, like everything

36:18

happened the way it was supposed to. You have ocean, even though

36:20

Randall sucks, like we have our beautiful

36:22

babies, we live in LA, like we're doing

36:24

great, you know, aside

36:26

from all this stuff. So I wouldn't change it for

36:28

the world. Yeah, I don't even think about

36:31

my baby daddy like that. Oh

36:33

yeah, well that's good. Like I don't, when

36:35

I think about ocean, like I don't even

36:38

think about him in

36:39

the equation. I mean ocean is you guys,

36:41

like she is you and Lisa

36:44

and Easton made over. Yeah. Well,

36:47

let me tell you how I just think that you are

36:49

so strong and everything that you've been

36:51

through and that you had the strength

36:54

to just like pack up your stuff whenever ocean

36:56

was only seven month old, you and your mom just

36:58

like were able to just sneak out.

37:00

It reminds me of this movie. I'm sorry, I don't mean

37:02

to cut you off, but there's this old movie. And you guys may have

37:04

not seen, it's called Not Without My Daughter. And now

37:07

it's such a good movie. Jacks, you're like 10 years

37:09

older than us. I know, it's with Sally, it's with Sally

37:11

Field. It's such a good movie. Wait,

37:13

I'm gonna watch it too. Watch it, it's called Not Without My Daughter.

37:16

And it's the exact situation that you're going through

37:18

right now. Watch it, it's a movie, it's an early

37:20

90s, late 80s movie, but Sally Field

37:22

is amazing. But still, I just wanted to. And

37:24

you gotta watch it. I bet your mom's seen it. I

37:27

bet she has. It's called Not Without My Daughter. Check it out,

37:29

it's really, really good. I just wanted to give you some props

37:31

because that takes a really strong person to just be able

37:33

to do that. And especially whenever your

37:35

baby is so new, you know,

37:38

like seven months old and you just like

37:40

packed up and left and like the middle, I

37:42

don't know if it was the middle of, like he was just gone or

37:44

whatever. Gone, yeah. No, it was like

37:46

turned into a robot. I remember when you were

37:48

going through it all. I mean,

37:50

I just hate that that had to happen to you,

37:52

but I feel like it's made you so much

37:54

stronger. Absolutely. Anyone

37:57

who says that I need to get over it and move on. Oh,

38:00

shut up. Who's that cat? There's

38:02

like randoms, like very randoms

38:04

who think that like, oh, she got cheated

38:06

on and she's mad. It's like, if it were just

38:09

about that, we'd be in a very different

38:11

position. Yeah. When accountability happens

38:13

and justice happens,

38:15

then I'll move on. Yes. Until then, I will

38:18

continue talking about it. Well, you have a daughter

38:20

that's in the mix, you know what I mean? You

38:22

can't just get over it. Like, that's, that really

38:24

annoys me that people would even say that to you. Well,

38:26

she's gonna

38:27

be, get older one day and she's gonna read all

38:29

this stuff. And she's gonna see what's going on and she's gonna

38:31

know the truth. Like, whether, you

38:33

know, the internet's a crazy thing, it's never going away.

38:35

So, she can look him up at any

38:37

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38:40

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LA is my plan. What about,

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40:05

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want you guys to have me back on when I can

40:09

like, I'm very excited for the future

40:12

of the brand. Right, to give

40:14

them a lot of brand, correct? We'll definitely have you back on

40:16

any time. We love you. We love you. By

40:19

the way, you can still shop all the goods. Yes, yes.

40:21

I'm excited for this summer.

40:23

Final thoughts, obviously, on the submarine

40:25

situation. Oh, God. It's so sad, right?

40:28

It's so sad. The one

40:30

question I have is we're in 2023, right? Why

40:33

wasn't that thing tethered to something on the

40:35

surface? I think it's so far down. I

40:37

get it, but there's like 30, some. There's like 36

40:39

football fields down, right?

40:41

I mean, there's just like, and you're like,

40:43

hey, I'm going to go down in a tin

40:45

can to the bottom of the ocean

40:48

and with five other guys crammed

40:50

in like this, and I'm not only that, I'm going to pay $250,000

40:52

to do it.

40:55

I mean, some people live for it. And

40:57

the window was tiny. You couldn't

40:59

pay me. It was a window that was around like this bay. That they

41:01

had to like share to look out or something if they got

41:03

down? And the toilet, I mean, it was

41:06

nine hours. I think pooping, you'd

41:08

maybe be fine, but there's no way I could go nine

41:10

hours without peeing. Yeah. And it was basically

41:13

like what our kids are potty trained on. And he's

41:16

controlling it with a game. He's like an expo. Oh,

41:19

my gosh. And

41:20

the son I read yesterday, the son

41:22

that went with his father didn't want to go because

41:24

of the situation, but went, and he finally went

41:26

because he's like, I want to do this for my dad.

41:29

That breaks my heart. Like, this

41:32

is terrible, but like at least if it exploded,

41:34

maybe it was a quick and like painless type

41:37

of way. They were saying today that they probably

41:39

got warning, like, hey, just so you guys

41:41

know, we're going to be like exploding.

41:43

Oh, no. Right? Didn't

41:46

you read that today, mom? Well, James Cameron. Yeah, I read

41:48

James Cameron's thing too. I saw it actually this morning when

41:50

I was on the toilet. I was reading that. There wasn't like some

41:52

science that we've been saying. And it happened on Sunday. So

41:55

it happened, actually happened.

41:55

Well, I was just meaning the- I

41:57

mean, the pressure, you're the- I was just-

42:00

Like it would be so terrifying like everybody was thinking

42:02

that they were just running out of oxygen like that would

42:04

be so Terrifying imagine the first

42:07

person who dies from running. Yeah, yeah

42:10

Conversations

42:12

like it's just such a sad like traumatic

42:15

thing and I think the whole world was invested because it

42:17

was going to see That Titanic which is already

42:19

such a traumatic horrible thing in

42:21

our history And

42:22

do you think they have a black box like airplanes

42:24

have a black box? It's its own its

42:26

own compartment It can't be touched. So if a

42:28

plane does go down they have the black box Do

42:31

you think the submarine no way its own black

42:33

box?

42:33

Absolutely not I mean you she

42:35

just said that they had a potty training toilet. No

42:41

Who who was it that said it was basically

42:44

like shrapnel that like

42:46

so the top fell off the Like

42:49

the front fell off the back fell off and then

42:51

it was just shrapnel the you know But

42:54

you said that the there was a guy who said

42:56

it was like made from

42:58

parts that you don't make a submarine It's it's

43:01

off the shelf parts.

43:02

Yeah. Oh, yeah I think I don't want

43:04

to pull this but someone says like it's stuff you could buy off Amazon

43:07

stuff like that. Oh

43:10

That is so insane Oh

43:13

my gosh, either way, it's just super

43:15

sad story and you feel really really bad

43:18

for all these folks Yeah, prior to the family.

43:20

Can I tell you why the ocean?

43:22

Terrifies. Yes, like for

43:25

me, which is a huge reason why I love

43:27

the ocean It's a huge reason reason why I named my

43:29

daughter that is because the ocean is

43:31

so powerful that you do not know Right.

43:35

I know in there. No Okay,

43:37

so this is another sad story But did you see that video

43:39

of the guy in Egypt getting eaten by

43:41

the shark? I appreciate that you never say

43:43

the effort on this podcast and I'm taking note by the

43:46

way

43:46

your what? I have to

43:48

stop saying the effort I don't know Somebody

43:52

was in by shark and people recorded it on

43:54

video. It went viral. You haven't

43:57

seen it He yelled for his papa

43:59

because his dad

43:59

was there watching and you see the

44:02

shark like it flips him upside down and

44:04

everything it was a tiger shark and

44:06

then it came and jumped up and ate

44:09

his like neck right there and you see it

44:11

and he's like trying to swim. His

44:12

girlfriend escapes and he was yelling

44:14

for his dad. It is heartbreaking.

44:17

I mean there's nothing they could do that he was

44:19

so far away from them he was just swimming but like

44:21

even if like the the boat tried to

44:23

get to him and he was already underwater by then. It's

44:25

just so graphic you saw

44:27

him. The last thing I would do is like I gotta record. No

44:30

I mean for the family for the family

44:32

having to like now this video

44:34

is out for everybody in the whole wide world of

44:36

this man getting eaten alive like it

44:39

people just have no

44:40

good-looking guy who's like 22 23 years old. It's so

44:44

sad. Oh my gosh. Sorry I know

44:46

we went to just such a terrible ocean. We haven't

44:48

talked about this. Yeah it is but yeah that's that whole submarine

44:53

thing and then that happened in Egypt like it's

44:55

that's terrifying. Absolutely terrifying. You

45:00

don't

45:00

want to vomit. Okay let

45:02

me ask you one

45:04

last question from the fans because

45:07

I think this is a good one that a lot of people will

45:09

relate to. This is from at sunny 000. How

45:13

do you deal with stress and anxiety? Oh

45:15

my gosh. I

45:17

obsess and I

45:19

harp and I tell my mom I need to obsess over

45:22

this and I talk about it in circles

45:24

over and over and over until I'm like okay

45:26

I've exhausted myself.

45:28

I also love a good bath. I

45:31

love a good like rerun of housewives.

45:35

I think I could I bought a Nintendo

45:37

switch. I don't know

45:39

if any of these are healthy ways to cope with

45:41

anxiety or stress. Whatever works for you.

45:43

Get my mind off of those. Yeah whatever works. Anything

45:46

that's like light-hearted as well. Yeah like light-hearted

45:48

TV shows. Episode of Friends. Yeah. Or

45:51

some Seinfeld. I like I have

45:53

to do that too. I have to watch something that like will

45:55

take my mind off of things. Do you have any pointers? I'm

45:57

such an over thinker.

45:58

Do you have any pointers? Yes. for her

46:00

not to get into her head about things. She literally

46:03

gets in her head about everything. And it's,

46:05

it's, it's, I

46:08

think you have to allow her

46:10

to vent to you. And she has to

46:12

say, I'm going to obsess over

46:14

this for the next 20 minutes. I'm

46:17

going to say everything that I want to say,

46:19

obsess, you have to feed into it. And then

46:21

when the 20 minutes is over,

46:23

you have to then have, you

46:25

have a relationship with God, Brit. At that point

46:27

in time, when it's over, you punt it off to him. He'll

46:30

take it on. Yeah, I'm just such an overthinker. You have

46:32

to allow her to obsess though. She has to be able to vocalize

46:34

that. That's true.

46:35

That's true. That's true. And

46:37

I, I, I'm, and I'm such the opposite of this. I

46:40

don't, I don't care what other, I have too much going over. This

46:42

life is very short. This is a very short life.

46:44

I can't, we don't have the time to obsess

46:47

about what somebody in Ohio cares

46:49

and says to you.

46:49

But that's, but that's you. And the day

46:52

that you chose to get married

46:54

to someone, you no longer have the, the

46:56

luxury of just dealing with things

46:58

the way you want to deal with them. So true. I agree. I

47:01

agree. That's why, that's why I'm asking you.

47:03

Which is why I'll never get married. That's

47:06

why I'm asking,

47:07

cause we are so different in that. And it's just so like,

47:09

I can't, I have a hard time seeing like, why

47:11

are you letting this bother you? I'm just using that as

47:13

an example as somebody from Ohio leaving a comment in your

47:15

thing. Yeah. But there's many things that you

47:17

get in your head about, which in my head, I'm always

47:19

like, just, you see these incidents, the submarine,

47:22

the guy getting hit by a shark. Like life is so precious

47:24

and so short. We are here for a

47:26

good time, not a long time. So.

47:28

I'm gonna just quote Drake. Is

47:30

that a Drake song? It is. Totally.

47:33

And I love it. You know, I don't even listen to it. I know. I'm

47:36

shocked right now. No, but also

47:38

you have to be better about, you

47:40

have to allow, cause sometimes you see things that you don't mean

47:42

to see. Oh yeah. Like me, I try to avoid the

47:44

comment section, but there's times where I'm just like a

47:46

robot and I go into that and I'm like, oh my gosh,

47:49

I just read the most horrific things about myself. You

47:51

have to try to be proactive

47:53

when it comes to like, I know that reading comments

47:55

affects me. I know that the explore page affects

47:58

me. So I'm gonna try to avoid it. Yeah.

47:59

in the off chance that I just go into

48:02

it out of just being robotic, then

48:05

you Jax have to allow her to vent because my

48:07

mom lets me vent. That's so true.

48:09

I just hate it that when sometimes you bring

48:11

it, like you bring your work home with you, you ever heard

48:13

of the next person and some people just bring their work home, they don't check

48:16

out. Sometimes you'll do that and you'll,

48:18

I just got into a therapy

48:19

session. No, and

48:22

I'm just, again, I'm just trying to help ask

48:24

other people how do we deal with this

48:26

because it can be a problem,

48:28

it's stress. It's stress and anxiety. Yeah, and stress

48:31

is the number one killer. It's the number one killer. So

48:33

I really don't want you to go anywhere anytime

48:36

soon. So I like, how do we fix these

48:38

issues because it can be a problem.

48:40

I think it's just hard with what we do that

48:43

we get judged 24 seven. And sometimes I

48:45

can't like, I'm such a people pleaser and

48:48

I like positive and like, I try to be

48:50

positive all the time. So when it doesn't go that way, it

48:52

like really affects me for some reason. I don't

48:54

know why.

48:55

We did put ourselves in this position.

48:57

No, I know. Nobody put a gun to our head to

48:59

do this. A normal person. Yeah, and I'm very

49:01

grateful for the life and everything that I

49:03

have. And I want you to see the way that you are because

49:05

you're soft and you're tender. Like I

49:08

think that it could go the other way where I

49:10

feel more hardened. Like I feel

49:12

like I have like armor up at all

49:14

times and like anyone who wants to come

49:17

for me, I'm ready to like slit. We're

49:19

like, I love the way you are. So you have to allow

49:21

her in order to keep her this way and not hardened

49:23

and going insane to talk to you about

49:26

things. Therapist Lala.

49:27

That's why I'm

49:29

asking. Look how beautiful my life is. No,

49:32

it's because I'm saying,

49:34

you know, there's things that are, there's

49:36

projects that we're working on again. And I just don't

49:38

want to see you go down into that rabbit

49:40

hole again, you know, because it

49:44

could be dangerous. And it's like, you need

49:45

to learn. I think avoid the comment section. Oh yeah.

49:47

I always try to tell her that, but it's hard to do sometimes.

49:50

Sometimes you're at, and all of a sudden you find yourself in a comment.

49:52

You're like, why am I reading this? Yeah. Oh,

49:54

I know. And I think something that I do, I

49:56

will think about it for a while. And then

49:59

all of a sudden something will. and me where I'm like, why

50:01

do I care about this? But it takes

50:03

me a minute to get there. But I think that's why it's important

50:05

that he allows you to obsess over it, because then

50:07

as the words start coming out, you're like,

50:09

why do I care about this? Yeah, exactly. And

50:11

then you're over it. Exactly. Okay, one last

50:13

question. I keep saying one last question, but for real, one last question this

50:15

time. This is from at16andqueen.

50:19

What's the biggest misconception people have about

50:21

you, Lala?

50:22

That's a good question. Oh my gosh. I

50:25

mean, what do you think? Because you watch me on TV

50:27

and you also know me. What do you think, people? That's

50:29

such a hard one to answer for yourself. It is. We

50:32

were talking about this with your mom earlier too, but

50:34

I think, because I always see, like in the, of

50:37

course we're going back to talking about the freaking comments, but

50:39

like if I post something with you or something, sometimes

50:41

I'll see people being like, she's mean

50:44

or she's a bully or something like

50:46

that. And I think it's just because you are so tough and you

50:48

have such a quick wit and like stuff like

50:50

that, so it's easy for you to like hit on where

50:52

it hurts. But I don't think people realize

50:55

like how big of a heart you have and how like much

50:57

love you have for everybody. And like how

50:59

good of a friend and how like devoted you are

51:01

to like your family and your friends. Yeah,

51:03

well thank you for saying that. I think that that's something

51:05

that people need to know because that makes me so bad. I'm always like,

51:08

she's not a bully. Like I feel like

51:10

I want to scream at them. I'm like, she's not a bully.

51:12

Like people just see what's on TV

51:15

and just automatically think that's how you are all the time.

51:17

And it's just so not how you are. I think I'm

51:19

tough and I think I'm vocal and

51:22

strong and people

51:23

want to use the wrong words. They

51:25

want to say that I'm angry or I'm bitter.

51:27

I'm a bully and it's like, okay, I think what you're

51:29

meaning to say is tough, strong, vocal, opinionated.

51:32

Exactly. Those words definitely.

51:34

And everyone wants to slam my

51:37

mouth and the way it works until

51:39

my mouth is what's defending you. Exactly.

51:41

And you really, really like it. That is so true.

51:44

And also Lala is hilarious. I don't

51:46

know. Like she makes me laugh

51:49

so, so, so much. I mean, she can just

51:51

look at me and make me laugh. I can't even look at her right

51:53

now. So I just think people need

51:55

to know that about you. You know what, if you weren't like how you are, you

51:57

know, people would give the ladder. They'd say, you're weak in this. You should

51:59

stick up. for yourself and this and that. So it's like you can't win. And

52:01

I wonder if it was a guy doing what you do if it would be

52:03

the same, you know? You can't win with people. No,

52:05

I can't. You're never gonna win. And that's why, as long

52:08

as I can go home and be like, you know what, I'm really proud of myself

52:10

today. We made some mistakes, but we'll try better

52:12

tomorrow, then I'm all good. There you go.

52:14

That's a perfect way to end this. Yes. As long

52:16

as you're happy with yourself and you're doing right

52:18

by you. Yes. Who the F cares?

52:20

Right, very much. Who has time to care

52:23

about all that? Like, we have so much going on.

52:25

We're raising a family. We're starting businesses,

52:27

doing this.

52:29

I'm saying a lot different than you guys, but you said

52:31

it right. Just as long as you're happy with yourself

52:33

and you can go to bed at night and say, you

52:35

know what, today was a good day. I'm happy with today.

52:38

That's all you can ask. Absolutely, I agree with that. All

52:40

right, well. This is a really good podcast, guys. Oh, thank

52:42

you. We're gonna have you on anytime that you

52:44

want. I love it. We love you

52:46

so much. Thanks for coming on today. We really appreciate it. Everybody

52:49

go buy your Send It to Daryl merch and give them

52:51

LaLa. Yes, get it from shoplalakent.com

52:54

and not Etsy. Yes, oh my gosh,

52:56

yeah. Okay, I gotta say

52:58

one more thing, because I saw your story where you were like, people

53:00

are doing the same font, the same everything. Like,

53:03

that drives me crazy. Like, can you believe that Peter

53:06

Madrigal came out with the number one guy in

53:08

the group? Peter Madrigal,

53:09

man. That's like me coming out with a Send It to

53:11

Daryl dot com. Yeah, it's not.

53:14

And you'd be like. Sometimes

53:16

I think Peter lives on planet Peter. Yes.

53:19

Peter's sweet, though. No, like

53:21

literally, you don't even, you

53:23

just let things slide, because you're like, but it's Peter.

53:26

I know, I know. It's like, I feel

53:28

bad. I know. But

53:30

still, it irks me a little bit. Let Peter

53:33

be the number one guy in the group, all right? He's like the

53:35

human version of the word fetch. Like,

53:37

he's so trying to make it happen, and it

53:39

still has not happened. Oh, poor Peter. Did

53:41

he get to bring you guys drinks or anything

53:43

this reunion? I don't remember. No, he didn't.

53:46

It was in a toasty mood. Yeah, that's very

53:48

true. It's not like you guys are gonna be like, cheers, Raquel. Yeah.

53:52

Oh my God, well, I love you, Lala. I love you. Thanks

53:55

so much for coming by. Thanks

53:55

for coming by, and Lisa, too. Yes, we

53:57

love you guys. You all mean the world to us.

54:00

and we love you so so much. Thanks for listening

54:02

to When Reality Hits with Jackson Brittany.

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