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guest . What's
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up everyone ? Welcome to the final
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day of 2023
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. I'm wishing that you all
1:07
have been able to enjoy
1:09
somewhat of a break and been
1:12
able to spend time with important
1:14
people in your life and start
1:17
thinking about what this next year
1:19
, 2024 , is going
1:22
to look like for you . I believe that
1:24
2023 was similar to
1:26
2022 in that it
1:28
felt like it was multiple
1:30
years packed into one , and
1:32
I say that because of the amount
1:35
of growth and experiences
1:37
that this year in itself
1:39
delivered . I was having lunch
1:42
with one of my friends earlier and
1:44
he reminded me of
1:46
the August challenge of running
1:49
a half marathon every day with my girlfriend
1:51
, and it's something that I
1:53
had completely forgotten about , and
1:55
I actually heard about a pretty
1:58
neat exercise recently
2:00
to reflect on the year is
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to go through your phone , go
2:05
to the beginning of the year and then
2:07
scroll through all of the different
2:09
photos and videos
2:12
that you have through the course of the year and
2:14
that will remind you of
2:16
a lot of the experiences that
2:19
you've had just in this year itself
2:21
, because for those things that are
2:24
often really important to us , there's generally
2:26
some sort of photo or video
2:29
to capture the experience , and sometimes
2:32
, myself included , we can forget to
2:34
go back into the camera roll and
2:36
really find that evidence of everything
2:39
that this year brought . So that
2:41
is something I'm also doing today
2:43
, but the purpose of this episode
2:46
is to provide a
2:49
bonus opportunity
2:51
to help you all in
2:53
setting up your 2024 and
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ensuring that it's
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another amazing year and
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that it's one of the best years
3:03
of your life . Last week , I released
3:05
an episode that highlighted
3:07
the year end process
3:09
that I go through and the questions
3:12
that are important to ask yourself
3:14
on an annual basis
3:16
at minimum , so that you can
3:18
really understand what's
3:21
going well and why , where you have
3:23
opportunities to grow and why and
3:26
what type of person must
3:28
you become in order to achieve
3:30
the things that you want to in the coming
3:33
year . Asking these types of introspective
3:35
questions , at minimum
3:37
on an annual basis , really
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helps you understand why you're able to
3:42
do the things that you're doing , where
3:45
you need to make some adjustments
3:47
, and gives
3:49
you a plan , or rather , gives you
3:51
the clues , gives you the
3:54
tips on what
3:56
to focus on for the coming year . And
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I do this by asking , or rather
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, I do this by writing myself
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a letter every year , and if you go back
4:06
to episode number 81 , that
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is where I released my 2023
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letter to myself , and
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it's fun to go back to these letters at
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the end of the year and then
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see all the things that
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did or did not come to fruition
4:23
, and it's surprisingly enough
4:25
. What I've found is that by
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doing these , by writing these letters to yourself
4:29
, you actually accomplish
4:31
a whole lot more than
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you would have ever envisioned
4:36
, and it's . It's
4:38
this fun process
4:41
. It's a blast , and
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I'm putting it out here because
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I want this to serve as a
4:48
tool for you all . So go
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back to last week's episode , go back to
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episode number 81 , and
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that will just give you some more context as
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to what this letter is and
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why and how I use it
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. So , starting
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with my letter to myself evaluating
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2023 and setting
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the course for 2024
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. And I write this as if I'm
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in third person , so , in case you're
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wondering why the heck is everything in third
5:19
person , it's a letter to
5:21
myself and not just talking
5:23
about I this , I that , but
5:25
, hey , looking at it , removing myself
5:28
from the equation . Ryan
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, another year of laying bricks on
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top of a steady foundation and plenty
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more of touching your dreams . Like
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last year , 2023 also
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felt like several years packed into one year
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, due to all of the growth , abundance
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of experiences , entering new
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territory in many areas of life and
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continuing to optimize your way of being
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. Lessons learned from 2022
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served you very well in 2023
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, and lessons learned this year will
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serve you very well in 2024 . It's
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amazing to see what came to fruition , as you
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wrote to yourself in 2022 that
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2023 would deliver
6:08
, deliver being my keyword
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for the year , or deliver being your keyword
6:13
for the year . Feeling like a completely
6:15
different , upgraded being for
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one , interacting with some
6:19
of the most renowned thought leaders in the world
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in the domain of personal development , in
6:24
addition to being introduced to a few
6:26
new tribes at home , filled with amazing
6:28
people , continuing to be
6:30
a strong influence for your family and shifting
6:32
the narrative of the past , bringing everyone
6:35
closer and closer together , embracing
6:37
today to create a tomorrow that we can
6:39
cherish , perhaps
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under 2023 . Prediction of being introduced
6:44
to a new echelon of elite performers
6:46
that you wouldn't have guessed
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a girlfriend would be included in that mix . You
6:51
met the best of the best in the running world and
6:54
someone who possesses the mindset that you appreciate
6:56
the most in this world . You're fortunate
6:58
to have met this incredible woman who pushes you
7:00
and truly means it and backs it up
7:03
. For the last seven years , you've
7:05
had very high walls up and they've been knocked
7:07
down , and you wouldn't have it any other
7:09
way . You view this relationship
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as a privilege and responsibility
7:14
and will continue giving it and
7:16
Christina your absolute best
7:18
effort , all across the board . The
7:21
path that you're on in this life is not to be questioned
7:23
any longer . You're doing exactly
7:26
what you're meant to be doing . More
7:28
people than ever before are reaching out
7:30
to
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let you know of the positive impact
7:35
that you've made and or are making in their
7:37
lives . It's remarkable and
7:39
will be amplified 10 fold in
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2024 as the podcast
7:43
, speaking , coaching and
7:46
something else that you may not have expected to absolutely
7:48
blow up . The seeds that
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you've planted over the last few years are starting
7:52
to sprout and all of the deposits made
7:55
over time are going to compound to
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a whole new level in 2024 . As
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always , it's time to take inventory of
8:02
opportunities for growth and then recognize
8:04
the highlights and chart the future
8:06
course opportunities that you've noted
8:09
, opportunities being defined
8:11
as areas of growth
8:13
, not weaknesses , but
8:15
opportunities to get better . Continue
8:18
to dial back on your goals list . Less
8:21
still equals more and as you've scaled
8:23
back , the goals have become bigger and more
8:25
challenging . The
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goals list is staying too big
8:30
as challenges and
8:33
responsibilities have increased . Dial
8:35
the list back , as there was too
8:38
much on your plate in 2023
8:40
. Sharpen systems
8:42
after work . After many days
8:45
coming home from your corporate job this year , it
8:47
was a struggle to get in the zone to focus on
8:49
champion tribe in one day . Part of
8:52
this due to being over committed , the
8:54
other part due to being distracted by admin
8:56
work and or being lower
8:59
on energy . Recognize
9:01
the fact that your corporate role itself is
9:03
demanding . Therefore , it's crucial
9:05
to be even more specific about
9:08
post-work activity . Avoid
9:10
doing long runs after work , as
9:12
this kills your productivity . Set
9:14
aside certain days and times for admin
9:16
and continue passing it off to
9:18
others via hiring and outsourcing
9:21
for help . Increase
9:24
velocity . This is your word
9:26
for 2024 velocity
9:28
. Velocity is defined as
9:30
closing the gap between a thought and
9:32
an action , or , in this case , the
9:34
time between a priority and an action
9:36
as well . If there's something that you
9:38
want to know in the moment , take
9:41
action on it . If there's a priority you
9:43
set , allow nothing else to
9:45
get in the way until it's done . Sometimes
9:48
you get into analysis paralysis
9:50
, which crushes taking action on
9:52
the important things . Stop doing that
9:54
. Opportunities excite
9:56
you the most because they provide the opportunity
9:58
to improve and create the space . To
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be brutally honest , while the highlights
10:03
are great , it's focusing on the opportunities
10:05
that creates the space to generate
10:08
the future . Highlights Never shy
10:10
away from what may be done
10:12
more , better or less . Life
10:14
isn't defined or the year isn't defined
10:16
by simply highs . It's
10:19
about recognizing both highs and opportunities
10:21
, not lows , that allow
10:23
you to continue reaching
10:26
new levels in life . Now for
10:28
the highlights . Another year to look back
10:30
on and smile about , just as 2024
10:33
soon will be as well . Some
10:36
of your highlights Strengthening
10:38
the bond with your sister and being
10:40
more intentional about time and connection with her
10:42
. Building
10:44
off feedback a couple years ago
10:47
that she provided to you , which has
10:49
been invaluable . Continuing
10:52
to give back unconditionally , first
10:54
with time and connection and then monetarily
10:57
. Beating your goal of generating
10:59
over $20,000 to nonprofits
11:01
through your giving mastermind dinner
11:03
donations be the first one . Scholarship
11:06
and break in Ribbon's 100-mile
11:08
fundraiser . So many people
11:10
have been served and it's going to be even
11:12
bigger in 2024 as
11:14
the word gets out . Completing
11:17
a 100-mile fundraiser run on the Ravenel
11:19
Bridge and delivering to three families in need
11:21
, fighting various forms
11:24
of cancer . Having an amazing support
11:26
crew out with you for an entire day making
11:28
sure it got done . Putting
11:31
the cap on a six-year journey to qualify
11:34
for and finally compete in
11:36
the Boston Marathon and breaking your marathon
11:38
PR by over four minutes later in the year
11:40
. Running more miles than
11:42
you ever have in a year and becoming
11:44
extremely strong at cardio
11:46
. Entering a committed
11:49
relationship and letting your guard down for an incredible
11:51
woman who is extremely caring , sweet
11:53
and sees eye to eye to you in
11:56
terms of seeking challenges and
11:59
juggling multiple hats . Someone
12:01
who truly pushes you to level
12:03
up , not missing
12:05
a single Monday podcast released Doubling
12:08
and More
12:12
than doubling downloads
12:15
from 2022 and
12:17
interviewing over 28
12:19
major guests . Balancing
12:22
everything here on top of growing a brand
12:24
new organization in your corporate role by
12:27
seven times in one year , earning
12:30
multiple paid speaking opportunities and continuing
12:33
to sharpen the craft on skills that align
12:35
closest to your dreams in life . Tons
12:38
of people reaching out , some of who you know
12:40
and plenty out of the blue and who you don't
12:42
know . Letting you know the positive
12:44
impact that has been made in their life
12:47
because of your efforts . Never
12:49
lose sight of that . No
12:51
more talk about quote barely
12:54
scratching the surface . That phrase
12:56
has been allowed for too long . Level
12:58
up a notch in 2024 . Take
13:01
note of your opportunities . You've
13:03
been slowing yourself up in some areas . You
13:05
and nothing else . Double
13:08
down on this dream of yours and get out of the
13:10
way . Don't be scared . Not
13:12
everything that you put out is going to be a best hit
13:14
. Remember that consistency
13:17
is key and that's one thing
13:19
that people are always watching for . Continue
13:22
being the captain of the ship for your family and
13:24
setting a strong example . Keep
13:27
focused on the important things and don't
13:29
allow the little things to become big things
13:31
. If the worst thing that
13:33
usually happens in a day is that your
13:35
dog tips something over , you're doing
13:37
pretty damn well . Continue
13:39
giving your time and heart to people and
13:42
causes that light up your soul
13:44
. Never stop doing this . This
13:46
is inscribed in your DNA . Now Continue
13:50
learning what it means to be in a relationship and becoming
13:52
the best man possible to serve your girlfriend
13:54
in the best way . Stay patient . When
13:57
you look back on this as 2025
13:59
is nearing , it'll again feel like
14:02
a completely different person is sitting down to write the letter . You're
14:05
going to excel and staying even
14:07
more laser , focused on less but the
14:09
right things . You're again going
14:11
to be introduced to an entire new level
14:13
of elite performers and earn your
14:15
way into some exclusive networks filled
14:17
with people who help you grow more
14:19
than ever . The podcast is
14:21
going to be booming , with more focus on in-person
14:24
experiences , and the consistency
14:26
won't stop . Your email
14:28
list and growth is going to be key
14:30
to the long-awaited courses and
14:32
masterminds that you've been slowly putting
14:35
together , and your reach and impact
14:37
is going to expand well over two-fold
14:39
this year . You'll be at a difficult
14:41
crossroads , as these hustles will
14:43
ultimately bear a ton of weight that's
14:45
going to make corporate tempt
14:47
you even more . Keep
14:50
touching your dreams . You're
14:52
going to continue running even more , hitting new
14:54
PRs and putting your body and mind through
14:56
more grueling tests . This is
14:58
the life that you've dreamed of , and you'll
15:00
have what you desire and
15:03
abundance . Stay true and
15:05
never forget where you came from . Continue
15:07
being a light for one person
15:09
and kick ass . Love
15:12
you . So
15:15
that's my letter to myself
15:17
, reflecting on 2023
15:20
and looking at
15:22
what I intend to create
15:25
for 2024
15:27
. And that was
15:29
done by sitting down with my 2023
15:32
goals list and looking at
15:34
what was able to accomplish , why
15:37
, what didn't go well or
15:39
what are my opportunities and why
15:41
, and then setting
15:44
the tone for the new year , and
15:46
I'm going to focus more on the opportunities
15:49
again . What you saw
15:51
there is that I've still
15:54
put a little bit too
15:56
much on my plate , not recognizing
15:58
that my corporate
16:00
role in itself is demanding
16:03
and takes a lot of
16:06
my mental and emotional
16:08
capacity , and
16:10
then expecting to always
16:13
have the on switch when I
16:15
get home . That's been a
16:18
little more difficult than I thought , and
16:20
that's that . That's
16:23
the opportunity that I get to focus on . I
16:25
get to dial in my systems a little bit more post
16:27
work , look at how to
16:29
stay in elevated states
16:32
for longer periods of time to
16:34
ensure that my
16:36
productivity levels once I get
16:38
here after a
16:41
long day at work are still
16:43
high , so that there's
16:45
more focus on the things that I'm
16:47
dreaming of , which is putting out
16:49
those courses , creating the masterminds
16:51
and and having more products
16:53
available that are intended
16:56
to help people reach the next
16:58
level , and being that resource
17:00
becoming one of the top resources
17:03
in the personal development space for
17:05
people to utilize
17:07
. So that's going
17:10
to happen . That's my window
17:12
, that's my window of opportunity , it's
17:14
my window of growth , and I also decided
17:16
to only
17:18
know three of the biggest opportunities
17:20
. Obviously , there are some some
17:23
more , some little ones here and there , but
17:26
when I really think about it , on
17:28
the things that did not get accomplished
17:30
and why , those are the three biggest
17:33
things that that pop out . So
17:36
I'm very excited to detail
17:38
more of the progress that will be made
17:40
on that in 2024
17:43
. And the next thing
17:45
that I told you
17:47
all I would share is
17:49
really this whole journey with goal
17:52
setting going back to last week's
17:54
episode is a
17:56
process of becoming Accomplishing
17:59
. Your goal is great , but
18:01
the goal is just the pie in the sky
18:03
. In order to achieve what
18:05
you want in this life , it's
18:08
really a question of who must you become
18:10
in order to achieve X
18:12
, y , z . If you want to become
18:14
a strong marathon
18:16
runner , who must you
18:19
actually become ? You
18:21
must become someone who is extremely
18:23
diligent and
18:26
someone who carves out multiple
18:29
hours a week to train
18:31
and put your body through rigorous
18:34
tests . You must be someone
18:37
who is committed to
18:39
rest and recovery . You
18:41
must be somebody who is
18:44
committed to or rather
18:46
, you must be someone who is
18:49
accepting of progress
18:51
coming in minuscule
18:54
bits and pieces , meaning that
18:56
you'll be improving your time
19:01
by seconds at a time , versus
19:03
you don't run once and
19:05
then your next . Run your minutes better
19:08
. You get seconds better in seconds and seconds
19:10
. You're somebody who is accepting
19:13
of the process . So
19:15
, when I look at my 2024
19:18
goals and who must I become , what
19:20
I've written down here are
19:22
four things Someone who is
19:24
extremely diligent about looking ahead and
19:26
staying ahead . The reason why I wrote
19:29
this down is because recognizing
19:32
that in
19:34
my corporate rule itself is
19:36
a lot plus what I've written
19:39
down to accomplish in 2024 . I'm
19:42
going to become somebody who
19:44
is even
19:46
better now at
19:49
looking ahead at everything and
19:51
staying ahead . Staying ahead multiple episodes on
19:54
the podcast , staying ahead on
19:57
the administrative things at
19:59
home . So it's never a matter of oh
20:01
crap . I got to catch up on this and therefore
20:03
I delay what I really
20:05
want to happen . So , although
20:09
I'd say systems are my strong suit
20:11
, I'm being brutally honest
20:13
with myself and recognizing
20:17
that they can be a
20:19
lot better and they must become a lot
20:22
better . Next level type systems
20:24
here . Someone
20:26
who consumes the right content , nutrition
20:28
and support to stay in elevated
20:31
energy states for longer periods of time
20:33
. Again , this goes back to
20:35
where there are days that
20:37
I recognize that I'll
20:39
allow myself to get distracted , or
20:41
the run got
20:43
moved to the afternoon and even though
20:46
it still gets done , that then
20:48
crushes my energy to
20:50
focus on the bigger
20:53
things , or maybe
20:55
I only get the podcast that day and
20:57
then the other items are
21:00
put to the side . So really
21:02
, my focus is going to be more on
21:05
how do we keep that elevated
21:07
energy state for longer
21:09
periods of time during the day and
21:12
make sure that I'm well set
21:14
up to not get distracted and
21:17
keep pushing forward on the
21:19
things that I believe are really important
21:21
. Someone who is truly
21:23
committed to creating independence
21:25
from corporate . Now , as
21:29
I've started to share here more and
21:31
more , my dream is
21:33
doing this
21:35
, this podcast , speaking , coaching
21:38
, personal development type activities
21:40
on a more
21:42
frequent basis , because I do
21:44
believe that this is
21:47
going somewhere , there
21:50
is something here and
21:52
with that it is very
21:55
tempting . In the
21:57
corporate role , with the
22:00
level of comfort there that I've
22:03
got to be , I get to become
22:05
somebody who is more
22:10
and more willing to step away from that comfort
22:12
. It's scary
22:14
. There
22:17
was a lot that was done to earn
22:19
the corporate position and
22:22
all the success that's been
22:24
experienced there , and I feel
22:26
on my heart that in
22:28
order to really make this dream
22:30
a reality , then I
22:34
get to become somebody who's truly
22:37
okay and desiring
22:40
to step away from that comfort . I've been
22:42
dabbling little by little , and
22:45
this year is really the year two to
22:48
double down , and the last
22:50
one is someone who remains very grounded and
22:53
embraces every little step . I understand
22:55
that this
22:58
may not be an overnight success and
23:01
I also understand that
23:03
progress
23:06
comes in the tiniest little
23:08
bits and pieces . It's almost a reminder of
23:11
what I just mentioned earlier , that decreasing
23:14
your or improving your marathon
23:16
time . That will come in the
23:18
tiniest increments , in
23:21
seconds sometimes , sometimes even fractions
23:23
of seconds , and it's the same
23:25
thing with this journey that's being embarked
23:27
on . The progress
23:31
a rather yeah
23:33
, the progress is being
23:36
experienced in the tiniest
23:39
bits and pieces , and that's
23:42
okay , and it's
23:45
another thing that I'll get to look back on
23:47
as we're at the end of 2024
23:49
. Like , wow , all
23:51
those little tiny bits really led to
23:53
something amazing and
23:55
I'm just super
23:58
pumped . I'm super pumped about 2024
24:00
and all of the great things that it's
24:03
going to deliver , and
24:05
I wish that you
24:07
guys , as you're listening to this , are
24:10
one thinking about
24:12
what went well
24:14
for you and why , and really the going
24:17
through the introspective process
24:20
that I just walked you guys through , because
24:22
that is ultimately what is going
24:24
to help you create your path for
24:27
24 . And for
24:29
all of the future years to come , it is
24:32
a necessity to really
24:35
look at yourself and understand
24:39
what has been done , what
24:41
hasn't been done , and have
24:43
those tough conversations with yourself first , because
24:45
nobody else is going to do it for you . And
24:48
, to make it fun , go ahead and write
24:50
yourself a letter and something that you're not going to look
24:52
at for an
24:55
extended period of time , and then
24:57
open that letter and
24:59
see all the progress that's been made . It's
25:02
a pretty awesome thing
25:04
. This is one of my favorite days of the year and
25:06
favorite weeks of the year , not just because
25:08
it's a little bit slower , but because
25:10
I get to go and really
25:12
reflect and appreciate
25:15
the journey and see
25:18
a lot of things that maybe I wouldn't have seen
25:20
right there in the moment or appreciated right there in
25:22
the moment . So , guys
25:25
, I appreciate you all so
25:27
much and thank
25:29
you for 2023 . As I mentioned
25:32
, the podcast has doubled
25:34
in the amount of downloads
25:37
and it's going to continue
25:39
. We're going to keep bringing
25:42
amazing guests forward , and
25:44
every time that I hear from you guys
25:46
on an episode and
25:48
whether it made an impact
25:51
on you , or even sometimes I
25:53
do hear from you all and hey
25:56
, this could have been done better , even sounds like
25:58
this edit was messed up that means the
26:00
absolute world to me . So I'm fully
26:02
committed to creating
26:05
the best experience for you
26:07
guys each week that this
26:09
will ultimately serve
26:12
as a tool that is going to
26:14
help you win , and
26:17
winning , being
26:19
defined however you view it , I
26:21
mean it's not always becoming first place in something , but
26:25
ultimately helping you attain whatever
26:27
it is that you want in this life , and
26:29
I can't express
26:31
my appreciation enough . I'm starting
26:34
another resource in 2024
26:36
, the weekly win email club
26:38
. Still haven't settled on the cooler name yet , but
26:41
that is going to start on Tuesdays , january
26:43
2nd , so go ahead
26:46
and sign up for that that's in the
26:48
show notes and
26:50
make 2024 the
26:52
best year of your life and
26:54
win today . Thanks for tuning in . I'll
27:01
see you guys next week .
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