Silvia Saige is joined by her best friend Wesley Woods, the 2x Gay Porn Star of the Year, to answer e-mails about closets, murder and catfishing.

Dr Ramani is out this week due to an over-stuffed schedule, but Wesley is one of our favorite returning guests!

A gay listener reports narcissistic behavior in his female friend's closeted husband. But the listener has also lived with them for ten years, which raises questions about the nature of this unique relationship.

Then, another listener is horrified by a news story of a college student shot and killed by a boyfriend who was not who he claimed to be. Silvia, Wesley and Producer Bill offer some perhaps counter-intuitive advice for staying safe in the modern dating world.

Finally: Silvia shares the story of the time she was catfished!

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Dr Ramani Durvasula (@doctorramani) is a licensed clinical psychologist, a Professor of Psychology, and the nation's leading expert on narcissism.

Silvia Saige (@silviasaigexxx, @silviasaigesex) is an adult film actress and standup comedian.

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