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into. The wrong station.
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You may wish to adjust the dial you're
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Hey. Come on in. Oh,
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uh, let me just move some of this stuff off the chair.
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My daughter, Kiera. First year
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psych at university. Parties
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more than her mother and I would like, but she's
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doing okay. What can you do?
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Want some coffee? No? Well,
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just grab a seat then. So
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I guess you want to hear that story then, huh? No?
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I said I'd tell it and I'll tell
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it. I'm just not
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going to enjoy it. Uh...
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okay. I
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guess I'll start by saying, I never
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knew much about my dad's side of the family until
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he died. My mom's.
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Lots. Too much, if I'm honest.
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They're Catholics, so there's about a hundred of them, and
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they all live in BC, about an hour's drive from
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each other. I spent most of my summers out
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there as a kid, and got enough drama and politics
2:36
to last a lifetime. But
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on my dad's side... Well
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I've got one aunt and a cousin, but my dad
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and my aunt never really
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talked.
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See, my grandfather
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drank, and he died young,
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and everyone in the family blamed everyone else. Probably,
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I'm speculating here, because they all really
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blame themselves. Well, you
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probably know the kind of guy my dad was, not
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the type to talk about his past or feelings or
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anything like that. And
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so beyond the stuff I just said, which I mostly
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gathered from things my mom told me, I
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didn't really know much about him until he died. Don't
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think I really got to know him until I went through his stuff
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after the funeral.
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Yeah,
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yeah, people tell me that's off in the way
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of things.
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Anyway, after he's
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gone, mom gets in touch with me and
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says she's going to stay over at his house for a few days and
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sort through some stuff. And
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since we haven't seen much of each other since Jessica and I moved
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out of the city, she asks if we all want
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to come stay as well.
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Make it a
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sort of family thing. So I
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say, sure. No,
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they hadn't been together for years. She
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was telling his will in everything, and in their own way,
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I think they still loved each other, but
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she'd have been a lunatic to stay with him. And
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he'd have been a lunatic to let her. You
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can ask the question. I said
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I'd tell you the story. story, and I'll tell you
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this story." No,
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no, he never hit us. I
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think he was always afraid, though,
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that that was a person he could
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become. If you talked
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to anyone he knew, you'd hear that he had a temper.
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But it went deeper than that. I think
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he had real anger issues, scary
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ones. Don't think I ever
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met anyone that angry in my whole entire
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life. Growing up, we'd
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always have these polka dots on the walls
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where he'd put his fist through them, then patch
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them up later. Never laid
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a hand on either of us, though. At
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least he never laid a hand on me, and my mother
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says he never laid one on her. I
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guess I believe her, but also
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I guess he can never really tell in a situation like that.
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But there was always the possibility.
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He never hit us, and never threatened
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to hit us. It was like the three
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of us were living every day with the fear that one
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afternoon he might completely lose control and put
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one of us in the hospital. It
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must have been terrifying for him. Christ
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knows it was for us. Oh,
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I didn't become conscious of any of this until a couple
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years ago. Jess made me start
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seeing a shrink, and it made a huge difference
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in my life. Mother guys wouldn't
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talk about that, but hey,
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that's how it is. Unconsciously,
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though,
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I always knew.
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Back when I was in kindergarten, it was still sort of
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accepted to spank your kids. And
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some people were saying, hey, you could do a lot of damage to your
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kid that way, but as you might guess, my
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dad was not one of them. 100%, that
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was a guy who believed in corporal punishment.
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Not criminals should be canes like in Singapore
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or whatever. But in
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spite of that, he never spanked
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me. Not even once. It
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was like he knew that if he crossed that
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line once, just one time,
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then that was it. There'd be no going
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back. We'd all become one of those
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horror stories you see on the news. So,
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after I got a job and moved out at seventeen,
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it wasn't long before mom called to quits
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and got her own place too. Personally,
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I think dad was relieved. So,
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I guess that's all to say, going
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back to the old bastard's place wasn't really
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a
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happy homecoming.
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It was the family home, my
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grandparents' place originally, and
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in its own way, it was sort of a vacation for
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Jess and Kiara and I. A few
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days in the cities, nice when you live in the burps.
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So, we take an afternoon to get settled in. Jess
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and I have the master bedroom. Kiara's about
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seven at this time, so she's got the pull-out couch
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in the office, which had been my bedroom growing
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up and dad's before that. We
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order in Chinese and try to watch a movie on
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TV, but dad sets
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about a hundred years old with no cable or anything, so
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it's basically either CBC or the
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news in Spanish. Mom's
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not staying with us, by the way. She's at home, about
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twenty minutes away by transit. The
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plan for the next day is, Jess takes Kiara to
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the museum, and mom and I start looking for
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the old man's stuff on our own. If
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I'm not being clear, it's small doses
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of mom for Jessica, sometimes. We
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don't sleep that well that night, though. Kiara
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has a nightmare around two, and it takes an hour for
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her to get back to sleep. As a result,
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I'm pretty crabby when mom starts leaning on
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the doorbell at eight the next morning. But
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that's life for kids. And
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parents. I make bacon and
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put on some coffee while mom gets started on the boxes.
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Jess sneaks Kiara out the back door before mom can
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ask the two of them to help for just a few
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minutes. And then it's
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just mom and I getting to work. Man,
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it's actually a lot of fun in its own
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way. You know, we're just down in
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the basement, putting things in new boxes, unpacking
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old boxes, and sorting things into piles
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of keep, and throw away, and whatever.
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Taking stuff out to the curb, and that. A
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couple of years at that point since I've had some good one-on-one
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time with my mom. So it's
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nice. And at some point
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that morning, we start talking about Dad,
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and his life, and about who he was to her
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when they were young. And
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I start to realize how little
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I knew him. Like to me, he
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was just this tyrant. And after
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that, this crusty old bastard. But
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talking to Mom, I start to see this whole other side
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of him. Now for her, when she
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was just this 20-year-old from Tumbleweed, B.C.,
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he was this dashing, mystery man.
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She showed me some pictures of him from when they first started
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going out. And he looks like a young Brando.
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Like, Jesus, why wasn't I ever
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that handsome? And then
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somewhere along the line, we also start talking
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about his anger. And
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that's when she starts to tell me a little bit more about
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his dad's drinking. He,
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my granddad, wasn't a mean
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drunk. Didn't have anything like
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my father's anger, for sure. Otherwise,
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I doubt Dad would have made it. That much anger
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and alcohol?
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Not safe.
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No. Granddad was more of a
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sad drunk.
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He'd disappear for days on end, go
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months without a job, drinking away the savings
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in a dark room full of his own despair.
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I think he had little affairs, too. Good
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trysts with other drinkers from the church
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or neighborhood, though my grandmother was never
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the sort to give you a straight answer about that sort of thing. She
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cared about appearances. Your
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granddad, she would say,
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just like a little whiskey now and then. Well,
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now and then doesn't drop you dead at 55. But
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because of all this, Dad had
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to be the man of the house from the age of 10, working
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full time at 15, never finished
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high school.
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That's something I never knew before, which
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was probably a relief for the teachers. But
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that amount of responsibility, that young, that's
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a lot of strain.
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And strain? You have to.
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to do something with it, right? But
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Dad also had to be better than his dad, to be
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the man his mom expected him to be. And
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so instead of drinking or screwing around or whatever,
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he just took all that strain, and
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he bunched it up inside him, and he carried
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it around in his chest like a lipstick of dynamite
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for the whole rest of his life.
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Can you guess what killed him?
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Bingo. Huge coronary.
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Doctors say they never saw anything like it.
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Anyway,
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so mom and I are talking about all
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this, and I start thinking about how
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all of my shit comes from my dad, and all
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of his shit comes from his dad. And
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so the next natural thought is, okay,
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so where did all his shit come from? And
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I put it like that to my mom. And
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that's when the conversation stopped called. Well
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I don't know if this is how it really happened, or if I'm
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just making things up in light of what
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came later. But the way I
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remember it now is this
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shadow passed over her face, like
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a sun behind a cloud. And
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then her shoulders slumped, and she just said,
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I
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don't know, honey.
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And then that she was tired, and we
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should take a break for lunch. Well,
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maybe it was odd, but I didn't think too
11:21
much about it. You know, fair enough.
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It's been a long morning, and she's getting older. Why
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wouldn't she be tired? Well
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as I'm going up the stairs for lunch, she
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stops to pick up this heavy, dusty
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cardboard box. I
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ask her what she's doing with it. Oh,
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it's just a box of stuff we already looked through. I'll just
11:39
take it out to the curb. Are you sure? I
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don't think I recognize it. Oh, yes,
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it's just a bunch of your dad's old tactical manuals. Except
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I remember the box of the manuals, and this isn't it.
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And as I take a closer look, I notice
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that the box is old.
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Really old. Coming apart at the corners,
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held together by
11:59
a by crumbling tape. The dust
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on top is
12:03
matted, crusty,
12:05
black.
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Now I start to think something's up because if
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we'd looked at that box, the dust would have been disturbed.
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And also my mom is not the sort of person who'd lose
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track of which boxes were which. Just
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ask Jess, she'll tell you my mom's methodical to
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a fault. So
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I say, you know what, you shouldn't be carrying
12:23
something this heavy. Let me bring it up. Oh,
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no, no, honestly, it's fine. No, honestly,
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I insist.
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She halfheartedly lets me take the box and
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I lug it upstairs and leave it in the hallway, saying
12:35
I'll deal with it later. And since
12:38
she doesn't make a fuss, I start to think maybe
12:40
nothing was up at all. Maybe she
12:43
did just mix up the boxes. So
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we have lunch and do a few more hours
12:47
of work in the afternoon. I tried
12:50
to steer the conversation back to my granddad and
12:52
great granddad a couple of times, but every time
12:54
I do she just starts talking about condo board
12:56
politics. So eventually I drive
12:59
it. Jess and Kiara get home mid
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afternoon. Mom hangs out with them for a bit while
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I cook dinner and after the dishes are done, Mom
13:06
heads home. No, at
13:08
this time Jess is in the early stages of being pregnant
13:11
with Harris. So later in the evening she
13:13
gets this craving for ice cream and
13:16
I head out to the corner store to get some. When
13:20
I'm coming back up the street, I
13:22
notice something in the driveway.
13:25
That box.
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It's tucked in among all the others that got put out,
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like someone was trying to hide it underneath them. And
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I know how Jess gets about old dust, so I'm
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certain it was Mom. And
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at this point I don't have the bandwidth to open it up and dig
13:39
through. So I grab the box, bring it back inside
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and put it right back down outside the office where it
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was sitting before. I'll find out
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what the hell's going on with it in the morning. Well,
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as you can probably guess, that did not happen.
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We end up having another rough night. Dad's
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mattress is well past shelf life and
13:57
Kiara's having nightmares again. And
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this time, they're so bad she insists on sleeping with us
14:02
the rest of the night. So, once
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again, I'm exhausted when Mom starts rapping on
14:06
the windows at 8 AM. Jessica's
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pissed because this is supposed to be a vacation and
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she should be able to sleep in. But Keira's
14:13
already bouncing around the house anyway, so I
14:15
groan and roll out of bed and complain about my
14:17
back and make some coffee and eggs. Once
14:20
again, Jess manages to smuggle Keira out the
14:22
back door before Mom can guilt them into helping.
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Come on, honey, we're going to the aquarium.
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But Mom, I hate fish. Ha
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ha. Well, as
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you can guess, by this point I've completely forgotten
14:34
about the box. Then,
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as I'm waiting for Mom at the top of the stairs,
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she walks out of the bathroom wiping her hands on her
14:41
jeans and... Then
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just stops dead. Like
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she's walked into a wall. And
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her face goes...
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Gray.
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I've never seen anything like it before. Her
14:54
face just goes gray on the spot.
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Hey, what's wrong? And
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she looks at me and suddenly there's anger
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in her eyes.
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Not just anger.
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Fury.
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Why on earth did you put this picture up?
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Picture? What are you talking about?
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She crosses one arm across her body and points
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with the other. No. On
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the wall outside the bathroom door there's some old family
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photos. Great aunts and uncles.
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People who died before I was born, no clue who
15:25
most of them are. And she's
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pointing at one of these photos and...
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She's angrier than I've ever seen her in over 30
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years.
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Sorry, what? What are you so angry about?
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This picture. Why did you put this
15:39
picture back up? And
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the picture, the one she's pointing
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at... It's this old sepia
15:46
photograph of a guy in a dark jacket. Sort
15:49
of a military looking coat.
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What are you talking about? I didn't put that up. It's been there for years.
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This picture
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was not here yesterday. Well,
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nobody... Nobody put any pictures up, so unless a burglar broke
16:01
it and started decorating the place, then it was already there.
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See? And when I nudged the picture on its hook, sure
16:09
enough, there was a patch of darker paint underneath,
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like the paint's been protected from the light for ages.
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At this point, I start thinking that maybe Dad's death
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has hit Mom a little harder than she thought. Who
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is this picture of, anyway?
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She's just
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staring at it. Then
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she shakes her head. Sorry,
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sorry, you were right. Let's
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just get back to work. She
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seems rattled, so I drop it. We
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head downstairs and get to work, and
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before you know it, she's telling me how she ran into this
16:42
person who's a real idiot, and heard from that person
16:44
who's not doing so well these days, and whatever
16:46
happened to so-and-so, and
16:48
everything's fine.
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And eventually, the pace of the work starts to slow.
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You know how it is. You open a box to see if it's junk,
16:55
and then something catches your eye, and all of a
16:57
sudden you've been reading 1950s report cards
16:59
for forty minutes. Well, late
17:02
morning, and I've been sucked down one of these rabbit holes.
17:05
I'm elbowed deep in a box with my granddad's old
17:07
immigration papers. Born in England,
17:09
came over as a kid during the war. All
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of a sudden, I straighten up. Something
17:14
in the papers has struck me as odd, and
17:16
it takes me a full minute to figure out just what
17:19
that thing is. Once
17:21
I do, it stands out as really
17:24
odd. Hey, uh, didn't
17:27
granddad come over during the war? Hmm?
17:29
Yes, that's right, during the Blitz. I
17:32
look at the document again, and blink a couple times,
17:35
making sure I haven't misread. But
17:38
these immigration papers say he came over in 45. Okay.
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So? Well, the Blitz have been
17:44
over for years by then.
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Got it.
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You know, what can I say? I'm a dad, I know a lot of
17:50
facts about World War II. And
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when I tell her I'm sure, she says,
17:56
well, that does seem a little strange, and
17:58
shuts right back up again. I
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decide not to push it. With how
18:02
she's been acting, there's clearly something going on with
18:05
her, and so for the rest of the morning I just leave
18:07
it. We talk about some celebrity
18:09
gossip or something, and then we head upstairs to have leftovers
18:12
for lunch. I offer to take
18:14
care of the dishes, and when I'm done, I wander
18:17
into the living room and find her staring at a picture
18:20
hanging in the corner. An old
18:22
black and white family portrait. Mother,
18:25
father, daughter, younger son.
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And because I'm an idiot, I open my
18:31
mouth. Was that one there
18:33
yesterday? And
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then she turns to me, and
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for a moment all I see is this deep
18:40
terror in her eyes. And
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then I get really afraid because I start to think
18:45
maybe she's really losing it. My
18:47
mom's losing it. But
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then she rolls her eyes and slaps me on
18:52
the arm. Real funny. Excuse
18:55
me, I'm just going to go to the bathroom. And
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she brushes past me and heads upstairs to use
18:59
the second floor toilet. All
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the way upstairs, even with her bad joints, even
19:04
though the bathroom with that other picture is
19:06
just a few steps down the hall. As
19:09
soon as she's gone, I take the black and white portrait
19:11
off its hook, and of course there's
19:13
a round patch behind it too, like it's hung there for
19:15
years. I take a
19:17
moment to study the picture. It's
19:20
the same man. The father in this
19:23
portrait is the same as in the photo hanging across
19:25
from the bathroom door, a couple years
19:27
older and with a bit of a beard, but the
19:29
same high cheekbones, the same square
19:31
jaw. A handsome
19:33
man, but like a young
19:35
Brando, even though the picture is black and
19:37
white and you can see just how clear
19:40
and pale his eyes are. I
19:43
flip the frame over in my hands, a couple
19:45
of names written in cursive on the discolored backing.
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William, Elizabeth,
19:51
Mary, Clifford.
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Must be names, huh? But
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I recognize one of them. Clifford.
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my grandfather's name. So
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it's a portrait of his family.
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My family.
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Him, my great-aunt, great-grandmother,
20:08
and William, the
20:10
man with the pale eyes. My
20:13
great-grandfather. The
20:15
toilet flushes upstairs and I quickly hang
20:17
the portrait back up on the wall. I'm waiting by the
20:20
basement stair as my mom picks her unsteady
20:22
way back down and clutching at
20:24
the banister. After about
20:26
another hour of work and more celebrity gossip,
20:29
it's my turn to head upstairs and use the washroom. For
20:32
some reason, I follow her example and head up to the
20:34
second story. On
20:36
the way back down, I notice something
20:39
that I'd forgotten about.
20:42
Dusty books.
20:43
Waiting for me in the gray autumn light outside
20:46
the office where my daughter sleeps. For
20:49
reasons that I don't quite understand at the
20:51
time, the sight of it puts a bad feeling in the pit of my stomach. But
20:54
now I've been reminded of the mystery and the bits
20:57
between my teeth, so I pull over a dining
20:59
room chair and sit down beside it and unfold
21:01
the dusty tongues of its lid. Revealing,
21:05
just a bunch of old papers, heaps
21:07
of disorderly letters written in illegible
21:10
cursive, I
21:12
shift aside a few piles and underneath discover a
21:15
sort of leather-bound scrapbook, and
21:17
the first page is a crumbling, folded document that reads,
21:21
George V. Across the Top, as in George
21:23
V. It's a commission granting
21:25
the rank of midshipman in his
21:30
Majesty's Navy to one William
21:33
Onslow.
21:34
Gentlemen, William.
21:37
Pale eyes, dark military-looking coat. Dark military-looking
21:40
coat.
21:41
Him again.
21:43
Looking at the date and doing a bit of math in my head,
21:46
I come up with the fact that he'd been crazy young
21:48
at the time. We're talking 12 or 13 on an active
21:51
warship. As I've learned
21:54
since, the Royal Navy didn't raise the minimum age of midshipman
21:56
until something like 1950. So
22:00
he was in the Navy. I never knew
22:03
that about my great-grandfather, or
22:05
anything about him, really. And now
22:07
I'm starting to think that this was something that had been kept from me
22:09
on purpose as a sort of pacifist thing. My
22:12
mom's a bit of a hippie, she's part of that generation. But
22:16
as I start plopping through this book, I forget
22:18
about all that, because I'm drawn into
22:20
the pages. All of these pictures
22:23
seep your photos from 1900-something
22:26
of life aboard ship and sundry reports of call,
22:29
strange locations, strange people
22:31
lost to the foreign country of the past.
22:34
And
22:36
there's this one picture that stands
22:38
out. It's taken
22:40
in, I don't know, Southeast
22:42
Asia or something, a beach
22:45
with dark blueish palm trees in the back. I
22:48
think the kid in this picture must be William because
22:50
he has these pale eyes and because in
22:53
his own strange way he looks a lot like how I looked
22:55
at that age. And there's a man
22:57
with him, standing really close behind
22:59
him with both hands on his shoulders.
23:03
And since it's a long exposure photograph, it's impossible
23:05
to tell what this man's face looks like because
23:08
he moved while it was being taken, and his features
23:10
are only a blur. And
23:12
all around them, it
23:15
takes me a moment to figure out what they are because your
23:18
brain isn't expecting to see what they are. All
23:22
around them, five or six on either
23:24
side, are these chest-high
23:26
wooden stakes, and
23:28
each one carries a human
23:30
head spitted like a melon. This
23:34
is the picture I'm holding in my hand when my mother
23:37
comes back upstairs.
23:39
You can't...
23:41
When she sees me holding this picture, it's
23:43
like she's going to break to little pieces. But
23:46
I guess she's strong. You'd have to be to live with my
23:48
dad for as long as she did. And
23:51
so she steps up to me, and calm
23:53
as anything, takes the picture from my hand and
23:56
folds it back into the book, and closes
23:58
the book and seals it with all the letters of the book. tears back inside
24:00
its filthy box. Then
24:03
she says to me, Honey,
24:06
I want you to take this box out to the curb. And
24:10
I do. But
24:13
when I get
24:15
to the curb, I put down the box
24:17
and then I stare at it for a moment. And
24:21
then I open
24:23
it up again. I take the
24:25
picture, tuck it into my pocket, and
24:28
only then do I close the box back up and walk
24:31
away. Why? I
24:33
don't know why.
24:35
Lots of reasons. More
24:38
but curiosity. A desire to preserve
24:41
some family history. He
24:44
was my great-grandfather. He
24:46
was a part of me. I don't know. Well,
24:50
when I get back inside, Mom's waiting at the kitchen
24:53
table. She put on a pot of tea,
24:55
asks me to sit down.
24:58
I think it's time I told you the truth.
25:02
I just
25:03
nod and sit across from her, accept
25:05
a cup of tea with lots of milk and sugar, and
25:09
then when she hands it across to me, a yellowed
25:12
old envelope. What's
25:14
this? It's for you to read. Unfolding
25:19
the lip, I find a stained letter, well
25:21
on its way to dust. It's written in
25:23
neat cursive and dated November 1944. Dear
25:27
Colleen. Who's Colleen? A
25:31
distant relative on your father's side. Her
25:33
family put up your grandfather when he came over from England.
25:38
What's that have to do with whatever's
25:41
going on? She
25:43
looks at me steadily, and it's
25:45
the look I remember her giving me when I scraped
25:47
my knees as a child or got my heart broken
25:49
as a teenager. Just
25:52
read the letter Edward, if you want
25:54
to. I
25:57
look down at the page. Dear
26:00
Colleen, the winding,
26:02
cursive. I hope this letter
26:04
finds you well. Have just received
26:06
word that William has been discharged and will be
26:08
returning to us after all. And
26:11
so I now have to ask something of you that goes beyond
26:13
all reasonable expectations. Will
26:16
you take Clifford in? Please.
26:19
He's seven now, the same age as Mary
26:21
was. I cannot go through
26:24
it again, Colleen. Please.
26:27
I cannot go through it again. In
26:29
desperation, Elizabeth.
26:35
Along silence as I reread the letter and
26:37
my mother drank her tea quietly on the other side
26:39
of the table, Mary,
26:43
the name from the back of the photo in the living room, my
26:46
grandfather's older sister. Seven,
26:50
the same age that Barry was. William
26:53
will be returning. In
26:55
desperation. In
26:58
a soft voice, my mother asked me, do
27:01
you understand? Without
27:03
saying anything, I folded the letter back into its
27:06
home and passed it across the table. After
27:09
that, I stood and went into the living room and
27:12
took down the picture that was hanging there, leaving
27:14
a pale circle in the paint. Then
27:17
I went to the bathroom, collected that photograph
27:19
as well. I brought
27:21
them both out to the curb and smashed
27:24
them and threw them in with the rest of the garbage. I
27:29
didn't throw away the photograph in my pocket,
27:32
though. Good
27:34
God, don't ask me why. He
27:37
was only a boy in that one. Still
27:40
only a boy. When
27:43
I came back inside, I ducked into the office and found
27:45
one of my old notebooks, hid
27:47
the photo inside for safekeeping.
27:51
And after that, my mother and I spent the rest of the day
27:53
trying to bury everything in hard work. We
27:56
made more progress in two hours than we had in two days,
27:58
and when Jess and Kara came back In the evening, Mom
28:01
didn't stay for take-out. She just said
28:03
she felt tired and wanted to go home.
28:06
Jess—and
28:07
this is one of the reasons why I love
28:09
her—immediately knew that something was up. So,
28:13
after she put care out of bed, she found me sitting
28:15
in the living room and poured us both a drink. And
28:18
waited until I'd told her everything. And
28:24
that night— No. No, I
28:27
said I'd tell you the story. No,
28:32
I don't need to take a break. All
28:38
right. All
28:39
right. That
28:43
night, I had strange
28:45
dreams. I still
28:47
remember parts of them. I
28:50
was standing in the living room, looking at that family
28:52
portrait hanging on the wall. But
28:54
I knew something was wrong in a way we sometimes
28:57
do in dreams, because I remembered that
28:59
I'd smashed the picture and thrown it out. It
29:03
had changed, though, because in this version of the
29:05
picture, Elizabeth was sitting off to the side
29:07
with her hands over her mouth, and
29:10
William was standing behind Clifford and Mary,
29:13
and he had both of his hands pressing down on
29:15
Mary's shoulders and somehow
29:18
he also had both of his hands pressing down on
29:20
Clifford's shoulders. And
29:23
he was smiling.
29:28
And then I noticed that in the background of the
29:30
picture wasn't some drawing room in England.
29:33
It was that beach in Southeast Asia.
29:37
And there was a pair of hands pushing down on
29:39
William's shoulders as well, a sailor
29:42
with no face who had stood behind him in the photo.
29:46
And there were a pair of hands pushing down
29:49
on his shoulders,
29:51
some other faceless man, and
29:54
above him another, and
29:56
above him another in infinite regress,
29:59
and all around. the children on the beach, those
30:03
quiet witnesses, the
30:05
severed heads, and
30:08
though the rest of the photograph was still, those
30:11
heads still slowly
30:14
bled. And
30:19
that was when I walked to hear my daughter screaming.
30:22
I lurched out of bed. It was like still
30:25
being in a dream. You want to run and go, but everything
30:27
seems hazy and insubstantial, and
30:29
you're dizzy and your whole body feels weak. I
30:32
tripped over some old box in the hall, fell
30:34
against some old photo on the wall, and cut my
30:37
hand on broken glass. Here
30:39
a scream rose to an even higher pitch, and
30:41
when I burst into the room, something
30:43
was crouched over her in the darkness,
30:46
and I shouted at it, but my voice came out
30:49
weak and half-strangled with fear. And
30:52
for something in the darkness turned its
30:54
face toward me, and all I could
30:56
see in the gloom was a pair of pale,
30:59
blue eyes, and
31:02
then Jessica turned on the light, and
31:06
there was nothing in the room but
31:10
the two of us and our crying daughter.
31:17
Jess doesn't. One
31:21
time some old university friends of hers came over,
31:23
and each of them drank a bottle of wine to themselves.
31:27
She told me she'd seen something after that,
31:30
but she denies it now.
31:32
Well,
31:34
I picked up my daughter and grabbed my wife by the
31:36
hand, and took them down to the car. We
31:39
had some cough medicine in the glove compartment, and
31:41
I gave care more than I probably should have
31:43
as a responsible parent, and
31:46
I drove us an hour and ten minutes back to our house. That
31:51
night neither Jess nor I said anything.
31:55
That night she believed it.
31:59
Kyra!
32:00
I don't think so.
32:03
I hope she doesn't. No.
32:06
No, I never talked to her about it. Because I...
32:09
Because
32:12
I wanted to end with her. I
32:16
want to be the last one who knows his
32:18
name. Well, the morning
32:21
after that, I called
32:23
Mom and drove back to the city to meet at her place.
32:26
Told her not to go to the house until I got there. When
32:29
I arrived, all she said to me was,
32:32
You saw him, didn't you? Yeah.
32:36
Yes, I did.
32:41
Well, we did go back, and
32:45
when we got there, the front
32:47
door was open. I'd slammed
32:49
it behind me the night before. I knew
32:51
I had. And when we
32:53
went inside, the
32:57
pictures were hanging just where they'd been,
33:00
in the living room and outside
33:02
the bathroom, the
33:04
glass on both frames intact.
33:08
The pull-out couch in the office was immaculate.
33:12
We'd left it in a tangle of sheets. Somebody
33:15
had folded up the bed
33:17
and left their box of things sitting
33:20
on top of it. That
33:22
photograph with the heads was
33:25
neatly propped up in the dust. We
33:29
took the box, the photograph, and
33:31
those pictures in the wall back out into the driveway
33:34
and doused them with lighter fluid and set them
33:36
on fire. Then
33:39
we sold the house for half its worth to some
33:41
development company who tore
33:43
it down and built a giant, ugly fucking
33:45
McMansion. Is
33:48
that it?
33:50
I hope so.
33:53
But sometimes I look
33:55
care, and
33:57
I think about the kind of father I've been, and...
34:00
I am.
34:01
I don't know. I just don't know. I hope that's
34:03
it. I hope that's it. The
34:25
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34:40
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