In this episode of the "You Are Dope" podcast, we emphasize the significance of avoiding the absorption of other people's emotions. While it's natural to empathize, constantly taking on others' emotions can lead to feeling drained and depleted. We illustrate strategies to avoid this by encouraging listeners to be like a colander rather than a sponge. Just as a colander allows water to pass through while retaining the substance, we discuss ways to empathize without internalizing others' emotions, promoting emotional well-being and resilience.