Well, ding dong 2020 is dead and good riddance. Today, we're talking about lessons from tragedy and misfortune. From the pages of history - the Triangle Shirtwaist fire - to the garbage fire of 2020, humans regularly learn lessons from the p

The Christmas Spectacular!!!

Dec 21st, 2020 35m 7s

Welcome to Season 2, and Happy Holidays! This is the You Should Have Asked Me First Holiday Spectacular. We have everything, plum puddings, Christmas spirits, Cratchits, Fezziwigs, and the largest Christmas goose in the poulterer’s window. God

The Messy Midlife Society

Sep 14th, 2020 46m 35s

Today we're talking about Second Acts. Midlife resets. What's next? Heather's guest on this episode is Jo Ann Kobuke, a coach for midlife women, helping them answer the question…what’s next? Like so many women of her generation, she put herse

Trump Lied Americans Died

Sep 10th, 2020 38m 45s

This is not a normal episode of YSHAMF. It's an emergency round table discussion with friends Dana and Corlin about the newly discovered fact that there are tapes of Trump talking about how serious COVID-19 actually was - and he's known since F

The Magic Show

Jul 24th, 2020 1h 18m

What is the function of magic in our world? What is going on online with magic? How can magic improve our lives? In this episode, Heather talks with a magician and a witch to find out.Guests:Michael Graves - Magician and Mentalist. email: mic

Dear Fellow White Allies,

Jun 21st, 2020 23m 44s

We talk about white privilege, systemic racism, amplification, mistakes, Black Lives Matter, and our place going forward. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/youshouldhaveaskedme/message

Why Did You Call the Show THAT?

May 20th, 2020 41m 1s

I knew this day would come. Here’s an attempt to explain what was going on in my brain when I chose the name for the podcast. In the interview section, I talk with Dr. Jennifer Kuchen

Innovation in Quarantine?

May 5th, 2020 38m 41s

Innovation, productivity, and creativity can occur even in times of social upheaval. We’ll talk about historical examples of creativity while being distant, socially. I tell you about my foray into gaming, and I talk to a couple of friends abou

Slay at Home Order (The Makeup Episode)

Apr 27th, 2020 45m 34s

A relaxing episode, where Heather puts on her makeup and chats about what products she uses. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://ancho

Girl Talk from Quarantine: Featuring Jo from Unapologetically Anxious Me

Apr 17th, 2020 49m

Heather and Jo chat about Sheltering at Home during COVID-19. Family, school, parenting, being alone, diversions, etc. --- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a vo

Got Jokes?

Apr 9th, 2020 14m 8s

Quarantine updates, guilt, humor, jokes?--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/youshouldhaveaskedme/message

Anger in the Time of the Coronavirus

Apr 2nd, 2020 10m 45s

Are you trying to not be angry and scared? What are we supposed to do with those emotions?--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/youshouldhaveaskedme/message

Coffee Time

Mar 26th, 2020 11m 20s

Isolation update, coffee time.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/youshouldhaveaskedme/message

Storytime for Social Distancing: The Great Driver’s License Debacle

Mar 24th, 2020 18m 2s

Isolation update, Heather’s Driver’s License Story, Shannon’s call. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/youshouldhaveaskedme/message

Kenny Rogers and the Wisdom of the Gambler

Mar 23rd, 2020 18m 8s

Rest In Peace, Kenny Rogers, and thank you for everything. Here’s the link to the Spotify playlist: https://open.spotify.com/playlist/5oOjEsXRZnpzB7uXnH2yzT?si=Dg2a2TrhSO25F627d6KV1w--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.

Hope

Mar 21st, 2020 13m 13s

Changes personally and globally. --- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/youshouldhaveaskedme/message

Men, You Should Have Asked Me First - 3

Sep 9th, 2019 21m 49s

Today, Heather gives unsolicited advice to men. Yes, all men.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/youshouldhaveaskedme/message

Episode 2 - Leeches And The Good Samaritan In America

Aug 17th, 2019 17m 35s

The folks at the Smithsonian made a discovery, and I break down exactly why I'm upset these days.--- This episode is sponsored by · Anchor: The easiest way to make a podcast. https://anchor.fm/app--- Send in a voice message: https://

Episode 1 - Weddings

Aug 9th, 2019 28m 32s

Correct opinions and 20/20 hindsight. This week we cover Tana and Jake, weddings in general, and then finish up with a few wedding horror stories from Reddit.--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/youshouldhav

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