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How To Harness the Power of Saying No

Released Tuesday, 1st October 2019
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If you harness the power of saying no you can avoid the problem of over-committing. That's when you make a commitment. Then you make another. Before you know it, you're making yet another commitment. It’s a never-ending cycle.
You overcommit to your job, your friends, colleagues, social causes, family, etc. These commitments add hundreds of hours and stress to your already over-scheduled life.
One of the most important things to remember is that time is finite. No matter how hard you try, you'll never have enough time to do everything. However, once you truly accept that you can't do it all, you can begin to prioritize your time.
Doing this gives more opportunities to do the things that you really want to do, rather than the things that you feel you should do. Spending quality time with family and friends, achieving goals to improve your future, and just having time to yourself are prime examples.
In this episode I look at:
The benefits of saying no
How saying no helps you be more successful
Why women don't say no
How saying no is easier when you're confident
How to determine when you should say no
How to say at work
Ways to say no everywhere
Saying no won't be easy at first. For some people, it may never be simple, but you have your own health and well-being to consider. The people who care about you will more than likely understand. When dealing with acquaintances, if they don't understand, it's probably better to limit your time with them, if possible.
Remember, saying no does not make you a bad or selfish person. On the contrary, it generally makes you healthier and happier. More importantly, saying no doesn't mean you can't help those who you really want to help. After all, everyone needs help at one time or another. In the words of Tim Ferriss, "What you don't do determines what you can do." It's totally up to you!
Resources Mentioned in this Episode:https://allegrasinclair.com/apc-025-lack-of-bounda… (Podcast on setting healthy boundaries)
https://allegrasinclair.com/support-the-podcast/ (Punch Fear in the Throat Mug)
Show notes are available at https://allegrasinclair.com/071 (https://allegrasinclair.com/071)

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Length
39m 24s
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Episode
71
Episode Type
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