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Trish Blackwell

Trish Blackwell is an Author, Confidence Coach, Podcaster, Body Image Specialist and the Personal Trainer. She hosts The Confidence Podcast .
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#323: THE GUIDE TO MORE CONFIDENT RELATIONSHIPS
Episode of
The Confidence Podcast
THE GUIDE TO MORE CONFIDENT RELATIONSHIPS PODCAST #323  In this week of The Confidence Podcast we are chatting about:   How to stop being jealous and insecure about your partner How to trust the nice things your partner says about you How to have confidence in the future relationships you will have            SPONSORSHIP NOTE:   This week's podcast is brought to you by my partnership with Beautycounter. Look, I love all things clean - clean thinking, clean living, clean eating and clean beauty. I'm sure you're seeing my favorite clean beauty brand all over the news ... we were literally the top Googled beauty trend of 2018 and we are truly effecting change through beauty.  If you haven't fallen in love with Beautycounter yet, you're the one missing out. Shop for safer beauty and let me love on you a little as a customer ... you can place your order at www.beautycounter.com/trishblackwell    REVIEW OF THE WEEK:   From: JenniferLynn322 "My minds software update"   Hello Trish, I started listening to your podcast about 2 months ago. At first, I was drowning so much in self-doubt I felt I couldn't even listen because "I wasn't ready yet." I now binge listen to your podcasts and often go through the notes online on the daily. I like to think of my time listening to you as my minds software update. Just as my iPhone needs updates often, so does my mind. I think that I pushed the "update later" button a few million-time s and now I am in a mass update and growing mode. I want to, of course, say thank you so much for all the work you do and how open and honest you are. I continue to learn every day and am working on many aspects of my mind and confidence thanks to your podcast. I wanted to tell you that the mean girl in my mind is now getting bullied by the confident and kind woman I am becoming. Thank you so much. Be you. Be free. -Jennifer Gil OK, JEALOUS AND INSECURE?   Confession, y'all. I have struggled with jealousy in my relationships. Not in the way you might anticipate, but let's face it, jealousy is jealousy. It doesn't serve us and it steals from our souls. Whether you are jealous and nervous about your partner looking elsewhere or you are jealous because you are throwing a pity party for yourself about how your life looks versus how he does (raising my hand here), jealousy is toxic.   Jealousy is an indicator that you don't see your relationship through the lens of confidence ... as what it is: a life-giving, confident partnership.  Not a competition, not a tit-for-tat, not a threat to you.   For me, I've had to pop my pity party balloons. How? Communicating. Working through what I'm really upset about. Asking for more help. Getting honest about what I need from Brandon. Resisting with all my power and might allowing the weed of resentment to build between us.    For other types of jealousy - get your story right. Set people up, and set your heart up, to have to give people the benefit of the doubt. This will not come naturally, but if you want the relationships in your life to be life-giving and soul building, then this is a core component to what all relationships need.        WHAT SEEDS ARE YOU SOWING   Questions I ask myself in my marriage: How am I being present? Am I pursuing my husband now as I did when I first met him? What would happen if I gave Brandon the benefit of the doubt? Does what I am doing sow seeds of a lifelong legacy? How is God using our union for the greater good?      HOW TO TRUST THE NICE THINGS AND BELIEVE THEM?   Chances are, if you're like me, you are like "compliment-resistant." Or, at least I used to be. I thought my parents, friends, relationships, coaches all said nice things to me because they "were supposed to."     Because my past relationships include domestic violence, abuse, assault and general negative toxicity, I was very broken when I met my husband. He had to step through a lot of emotional landmines.  And I had to learn to trust that what he said was...
#322: STOP CARING WHAT YOUR FRIENDS THINK
Episode of
The Confidence Podcast
STOP CARING WHAT YOUR FRIENDS THINK  PODCAST #322 In this week of The Confidence Podcast we are chatting about: How to stop the cray cray of caring too much Why we care so much anyways The real reason you might be stuck right now SPONSORSHIP NOTE: This week's podcast is brought to you by my partnership with Beautycounter. Look, I love all things clean - clean thinking, clean living, clean eating and clean beauty. I'm sure you're seeing my favorite clean beauty brand all over the news ... we were literally the top Googled beauty trend of 2018 and we are truly effecting change through beauty.  If you haven't fallen in love with Beautycounter yet, you're the one missing out. Shop for safer beauty and let me love on you a little as a customer ... you can place your order at www.beautycounter.com/trishblackwell REVIEW OF THE WEEK: From: Jdannireid "Wow" Trish, I just started listening to this week and wow. This is exactly what I needed. You are so real and passionate about what you do. You have brought me to tears several times already. Thank you from the bottom of my heart. HOW TO STOP CARING WHAT PEOPLE THINK Make sure you listen to the original coaching episode on this...How to Stop Caring What People Think, episode #187 of The Confidence Podcast. You can listen directly at www.trishblackwell.com/187 In that episode, we talk about ... How to stop wasting so much emotional energy and effort worrying about and caring about what other people think about us 5 specific ways to start changing how you let people interfere with you living your best life yet and your full version of yourself – how to really live free as who you were created to be A powerful mantra to use when you find yourself sucked into the siphon of self-comparison and self-doubt that is birthed from worrying about what people think about you More specifically, in relation to caring about what your friends think, I want to go deeper.  The moment we begin to fear the opinions of others and hesitate to tell the truth that is in us, and from motives of policy are silent, when we should speak, the divine floods of light and life no longer flow into our souls. –Elizabeth Cady Stanton 5 WAYS TO STOP CARING ABOUT WHAT YOUR FRIENDS THINK:  Think about what you love about the people you love. Act as if you only have 36-more months to live. Be honest about what you have missed out on. Stop being so afraid to be alone. Resist the desire to cheapen who God made you to be. WHY WE CARE SO MUCH ANYWAYS We look at the wrong places to get our worth. We compare and give ourselves a place in this world in relation to the comparison. We were taught to strive for approval. We yearn to fit in, yet to also be different. We are afraid of being weird, left out, isolated, unnoticed, forgettable. THE REAL REASON YOU MIGHT BE STUCK RIGHT NOW  Being in a place where you are caring too much will always keep you stuck. It will keep you from hearing God's voice (because instead, you are listening for the voices of others) It will keep you from generating and stepping into self-trust, which is what you need to take action on an idea, dream, goal or life change that matters It will keep you striving to conform to being "enough" in the opinions of others - which are fleeting and constantly changing, meaning that your confidence will also be in an eternal state of flux and fluidity, leaving you exhausted chasing the finish line that always moves ANNOUNCEMENTS:  If this week's coaching resonated with you, then you're going to want to be more focused and proactive about your personal growth through a progression of the confidence stages. Learn what stage of confidence you are actually in, and then how to get to the next stage so that getting to where you want to be and to how you want to feel doesn't feel overwhelming. MY NEW, SYSTEMATIC APPROACH TO TEACHING CONFIDENCE: The Confidence Formula.  If you're here,
#321 :  HOW TO INCREASE CONFIDENCE THROUGH SELF-COMPASSION
Episode of
The Confidence Podcast
    HOW TO INCREASE CONFIDENCE THROUGH SELF-COMPASSION  PODCAST #321        In this week of The Confidence Podcast we are chatting about:   The secret, often untapped power of self-compassion Why you definitely shouldn't be shrugging off self-compassion as something for "other people" Practical ways you can intentionally activate self-compassion for more confidence             SPONSORSHIP NOTE:   This week's podcast is brought to you by my partnership with Beautycounter. Look, I love all things clean - clean thinking, clean living, clean eating and clean beauty. I'm sure you're seeing my favorite clean beauty brand all over the news ... we were literally the top Googled beauty trend of 2018 and we are truly effecting change through beauty.  If you haven't fallen in love with Beautycounter yet, you're the one missing out. Shop for safer beauty and let me love on you a little as a customer ... you can place your order at www.beautycounter.com/trishblackwell        REVIEW OF THE WEEK:     From: BarbellsAndBaking "My Absolute Favorite Podcast!"   Hi Trish! I just wanted to let you know that I love your podcast so much! I know we have never met, but I feel like you're a best friend. I always look forward to Tuesdays when a new episode comes out. You have been such an inspiration in my life and have encouraged me to step out of my comfort zone and finally start my own blog...something I've been thinking about for some time but haven't done until recently because of what people might think or because what if I fail? Thank you so much for everything you do! You're amazing!          THE UNTAPPED POWER OF SELF-COMPASSION AND WHY WE NEED IT   The toxic effects of my perfectionism and my eating disorder perpetuated for years long than it should have because I lacked a basic level of self-compassion.    Self-compassion includes forgiveness, grace, patience and perspective. For someone with all-or-nothing tendencies, it felt impossible and out-of-character for me to ever experience.    The cycle of self-pressure is toxic, and it is fueled when self-compassion isn't available. When I pump self-compassion into me, it feels foreign, because I lived most of my life without it, but it feels good; freeing. Self-compassion is the ability to walk in the grace that God already gives us.   When I push away self-compassion, when I try to punish myself and just "do better" and "expect more" then I am saying to God ... thanks for your grace, and thanks for Jesus, but I'll just take full responsibility here to be perfect. I know I'm human  - flawed and weak in my flesh, but I'll take help in all the other areas aside from this one. Ya'll, it doesn't work like this.        We need it because we thrive when -we walk in grace -when we know that we don't have to be perfect -when it's safe to fail and fumble -when our growth comes from something bigger than ourselves -we don't have to live in a rush, on a timeline or in comparison          WHY SELF-COMPASSION IS FOR YOU, NOT JUST "OTHER PEOPLE"     Self-compassion isn't weak - it doesn't slow you down - it doesn't hold you back.    Self-compassion is actually character strength, not weakness.   Too often, we have been brainwashed to believe that we need to work, work, work, perform, perform, perform and sweat, sweat, sweat to be successful ... and that then, when we reach where we want to go, that then we can relax.         PRACTICAL WAYS TO IMPLEMENT SELF-COMPASSION   Active self-forgiveness Spiritual alignment each day Celebrating the progress  Radically slowing down Practicing self-kindness Nurturing self with sleep, touch, good food Listening to your body Resting and talking back to the "not enough" voice Cutting back on obligations Getting help from others (housekeeper, etc, or modifying expectations) Being okay with mistakes (I am learning to embrace them)  Seeing your past self with tender sympathy and love         ANNOUNCEMENTS:    If this week's coaching resonated with you,
#320: THESE TWO WORDS WILL MAKE YOU MORE CONFIDENT
Episode of
The Confidence Podcast
THESE TWO WORDS WILL MAKE YOU MORE CONFIDENT PODCAST #320 In this episode of The Confidence Podcast we're chatting about: The two words that will make you more confident instantly How to simplify your thinking so that you have better thoughts The process to really become more confident  SPONSORSHIP NOTE:  Just a quick note to let you know how much I love all things clean - clean thinking, clean living, clean eating and clean beauty. I'm sure you're seeing my favorite clean beauty brand all over the news ... we were literally the top Googled beauty trend of 2018 and we are truly effecting change through beauty.  If you haven't fallen in love with Beautycounter yet, you're the one missing out. Shop for safer beauty and let me love on you a little as a customer ... you can place your order at www.beautycounter.com/trishblackwell REVIEW OF THE WEEK Brenna Garcia Trish, I stumbled across this podcast while searching for inspiration to better myself. I've spent the last 5 months taking little steps to become the person I'll be proud to be; turn my life around, and I have to say this podcast is the tool I didn't know I was searching for. A little about me: I served 4 years in the military, learning the life lessons that I wouldn't trade for anything in the world, but I also walked away with emotional and mental damage that I'm still working on years later. Just after listening to several episodes, I feel ready to tackle and get to the bottom of my issues instead of using the "fake it till you make it" approach. I LOVE the idea of women empowering each other, keep doing what your'e doing. Will continue to binge watch. :) WHAT ARE THE TWO WORDS? "All well." Why does it work? Because it frees us from the pressure we put on ourselves Because it frees us from caring too much about what people think about us Because it frees us to make mistakes and be able to move on Because it frees us from the holds of perfectionism Because it frees us to take action without fear or overthinking Because it frees us to work through our past with forgiveness and separation LOLA SPONSORSHIP: I have to come clean with you all. One thing I would never talk about publicly because I worried about what people thought of me, was the personal parts of my health care. I’m over that, which is why I wanted to tell you about my newest obsession, the 100% natural brand, LOLA.  LOLA is a female-founded company offering a line of organic cotton tampons, pads, liners and all-natural cleansing wipes.No toxins, mystery fibers, or doubts about what’s going in your body. LOLA products are all gynecologist-approved and hypoallergenic. Major brands use a mix of synthetic ingredients in their products including rayon and polyester. Their feminine care products may also be treated with harsh chemical cleansing agents, fragrance, and dyes; I can’t believe I used such harsh chemicals inside my body for so many years, and I am so glad I have found an alternative solution. Plus, LOLA products come in a simple, customizable subscription. LOLA will deliver exactly what you need, exactly when you need it. I personally love how my monthly supply is delivered right to my door, in beautiful, clean packaging, might I add, which makes life as a busy mompreneur just a little bit easier for me. For 40% off all subscriptions, visit mylola.com and enter when you subscribe! HOW TO SIMPLIFY YOUR THINKING TO REALLY HAVE BETTER THOUGHTS Know that distraction, overwhelm and busyness are three of the most dangerous threats to our confidence and to our ability to live a beautiful, life-giving lifestyle. You have to make a decision: do you want to keep doing what you've always been doing, and to keep getting the same results, or do you dare to do something differently, to think differently and to prioritize differently in order to get different results? This has been tremendously challenging for me, but the biggest lifestyle and priority changes I have made have be...
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Virginia, USA
Episode Count
392
Podcast Count
15
Total Airtime
1 week, 3 days