In this podcast episode, our guest, Alison Cheperdak, an etiquette expert, gets into the distinctions between etiquette, ethics, and manners. We will touch upon the importance of language and respecting individual choices. The discussion also extends to various social behaviors, including how to approach unconventional situations and conversations. 

We explore how to become skillful conversationalists, making social events more comfortable, and the art of teaching etiquette to children. The episode concludes with insights into the meaningful handshake, the use of profanity, and guidance on public speaking.

Key Points:

• Etiquette, ethics, and manners are related but distinct concepts that impact our interactions.
• Using a person's name can be a respectful alternative to using nontraditional pronouns.
• Understanding social behaviors and respecting individual preferences is essential in various situations.
• The pandemic has influenced social behaviors, making people feel rusty in social situations.
• Having specific goals and topics for conversation can enhance social interactions.
• Conversationalists should aim to make people feel heard and engage in meaningful conversations.
• Event hosts can promote comfort by strategic seating arrangements and giving guests tasks.
• Separating couples at events can encourage interactions with other guests.
• Teaching children good etiquette begins with setting a positive example.
• Children should be encouraged to write thank you notes from a young age.
• The handshake should have the firmness of checking a piece of fruit for ripeness.
• Avoid excessive cursing, as there are alternative words to express emotions.
• Proper public speaking coaching involves video analysis and continuous improvement.

Quotable Moments:

"You don't need to get super creative with the English language in order to be respectful.”-Alison [00:24:03:15]

"Don't use the toy or experience the gift until the thank you note is sent.” - Alison [00:29:08:05]

“There is nothing more powerful than watching recordings of yourself. [To Improve Public speaking] " - [00:36:48:03]

LINKS MENTIONED:

https://elevateetiquette.com

https://www.instagram.com/elevateetiquette/

www.amycassels.com

https://twitter.com/amy_cassels?lang=en

https://www.instagram.com/acassels/?hl=en

https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBzoQfLNzz_ieatgaoWDTcw

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