In this podcast episode, Doyen shares their insights on the importance of communication and accountability in a dominant and submissive relationships. Doyen emphasizes the need for eye contact and humanization after reaching a limit in a scene, as well as the importance of being emotionally and technically aware to maintain safety. Doyen also differentiates between topping and dominating, and stresses that the submissive is the one with the power in the relationship. They suggest trying things on oneself to gain familiarity with different sensations, and recommends being open to feedback as a necessary part of the feedback loop in BDSM relationships. Ultimately, Doyen encourages listeners to be humble, communicate openly, and be accountable in their BDSM relationships.