We are talking dating in or after your thirties with the fantastic Marie Nicola, one half of the Alt.Pop.Repeat podcast and previous guest of the show. Being single or dating post 30 often gets a lot of shade and is just another thing to add to the list of reasons women feel shame for. Well the shame stops here, because first off no one should feel shame about their dating or relationship status and second, Marie brings some new perspectives and shares her experiences about dating in and after her 30's that just may shine a new light on dating. Marie talks to us about toxic relationships, not feeling worthy, fear of starting over and how one day that all changed and so did her outlook on life and dating. She also shares some hilarious first (and last) date stories! We talk about "Blue Monday," and January being a tough month for mental health, nevermind layering lockdowns on top of it. We give some binge-worthy reco's and Jess brings a (not so) hot take on how great the Marvel movie's franchise is. To our beloved listeners, if you ever need someone to talk to about anything at all, please don't hesitate to reach out, we all need a little help sometimes and we are here for you. 

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