In this episode, the hosts explore the question of belonging for adoptees. They discuss personal experiences of belonging and the impact of early experiences on identity. The hosts also delve into the challenges of navigating cultural differences and the search for biological parents. They touch on the influence of narratives and the impact of reunion on identity. The hosts emphasize the importance of acceptance and self-acceptance in forming a healthy sense of identity. They also discuss the unique characteristics of adoptees and the significance of publicly identifying as adopted.

Overall, the episode explores the complex and multifaceted nature of adoptees' sense of belonging and identity. In this conversation, Gene and Emily Trowbridge discuss the themes of loss, not belonging, emptiness, and identity in relation to adoption. They explore the impact of being chosen and the fairy tale narrative often associated with adoption. They also discuss the challenges of forming and maintaining relationships, as well as the push-pulled dance of connection. Overall, the conversation highlights the complex emotions and experiences that adoptees may navigate throughout their lives.


Story Notes:

• The Question of Belonging
• Identity Questions for Adoptees
• Loss of Identity and Fitting In
• The Impact of Early Experiences
• The Dichotomy of Belonging
• Navigating Identity Through Interests
• Publicly Identifying as Adopted
• Identity as a Unique Characteristic
• Adopted Identity as Part of Self
• The Fairy Tale Narrative
• The Push-Pulled Dance of Connection