Red & Blue are back for Season 2! No they didn't initially plan on making the previous episode a season finale, but with everything that's happened since it seemed like a good chapter marker as they dive headfirst into the the world of Open Mar

HWMI 020 - Flirting with Attraction

Dec 17th, 2019 53m 32s

Red & Blue banter about flirty attraction, keeping sexual tension in the friend zone and the importance of feeling attractive. Red sings a bit, and Blue shares his epiphany toward submission. Blue shares his frustrations with his own "conventio

HWMI 019 - Dominance

Nov 13th, 2019 58m 40s

Red & Blue return (after surviving another Spooky Szn) to pick up where they left off in their BDSM discussion: Dominance. You may need to forget everything you think you know about BDSM Dominance (definitely forget most of what Hollywood taugh

HWMI 018 - Spooky Storiez

Oct 17th, 2019 37m 26s

HWMI 017 - How We've Made Spooky Muzic

Oct 10th, 2019 56m 35s

Red & Blue PLAY THEIR OWN RECORDS!! In the thick of Spooky Szn, time is limited, resources are waning, but things are gettin' creepy. During his hunt for Spooky media, Blue dove into the archives of his hard drives and came across a bunch of th

HWMI 016 - Spooky Szn

Sep 25th, 2019 6m 12s

Blue gives a heads up regarding how chaotic it's going to be for the next few weeks. Don't worry! We're still releasing episodes, but they'll likely be a bit off the normal schedule that we barely stick to in the first place. Stick around to th

HWMI 015 - Discipline

Sep 17th, 2019 42m 29s

Red & Blue discuss discipline and how it relates to the BDSM lifestyle, religion, and life in general. Blue coughs a lot.

HWMI 014 - Bondage

Sep 10th, 2019 36m 39s

Red & Blue bicker a bit over bondage and Bacon. Red guides us through a high-level view of Bondage 101 while Blue interrupts by being generally not so funny and in kind of a bad mood. Get tied up in one of their shortest episodes yet, no promis

HWMI 013 - Enneagram Test Results

Aug 27th, 2019 42m 18s

Red & Blue return (after an unscheduled "mid-season break") to take the Enneagram Personality Type test and discuss the results. What type number are you? Do you have a wing?

HWMI 012 - How We've Made It Out Alive

Jul 16th, 2019 1h 36m

Red & Blue candidly discuss their experiences with mental health. TRIGGER WARNING: topics discussed may be triggering for some sensitive listeners. They're discussed openly, freely, and in a way that is meant to emphasize and promote the normal

HWMI 011 - BDSM Quiz Results

Jun 25th, 2019 54m 34s

Red & Blue take their BDSM Quizes 1 question at a time and discuss the questions and results. This is an intro episode to the BDSM series that will follow over the next few weeks

HWMI 010 - Father's Day (No I Dadn't)

Jun 18th, 2019 1h 2m

Red & Blue discuss and honor their Fathers...mostly honor...

HWMI 009 - Pr3n (The Filthy Climax)

Jun 11th, 2019 55m 17s

**TRIGGER ALERT!!** The content of this episode is more graphic than usual and could potentially trigger some listeners. If you've got a need for elite seed, email Blue at [email protected]. Also, the swear words aren't edited out of this

HWMI 008 - How We've Made It Fertile

May 28th, 2019 49m 50s

Red & Blue discuss the first 7 years of their marriage as DINKs (dual income, no kids), and the feelings of anxiety, exclusion and alienation from the "army-of-children" mindset that dominates Mormon culture, and how those feelings put a damper

HWMI 007 - Mother's Day (Part II)

May 21st, 2019 51m 43s

Red returns (after a Mother's Day break) to share her "Mom-speriences".

HWMI 006 - Mother's Day

May 14th, 2019 30m 14s

While Red enjoys her Mother's Day, Blue flies solo in this episode and pays tribute to the Mom(s) in his life. Warning: it gets a little spooky...

HWMI 005 - Pr2n (A Decade of Deception)

May 8th, 2019 45m 33s

Red & Blue discuss how and why they kept their secret porn use from each other for the first 10 years of their marriage.

HWMI 004.5 - Ceis de Mayo

May 6th, 2019 3m 37s

Blue explains wtf happened to this week's episode.

HWMI 004 - How We've Made Pr0n (No not like that)

Apr 30th, 2019 1h 7m

Red & Blue begin uncovering their first trans-episodic topic, and it's kind of a big one (TWSS): Pornography. Travel back in time to a world desperate for digital documentation as Red & Blue discuss how pornography impacted their formative yea

HWMI 003 - How We've Made It Cyber

Apr 23rd, 2019 59m

Red & Blue get IRL about Cyber relationships (social media for all the people who don't remember the late '90s world-wide web lingo). It gets a little heated and a little frumpy, but hey...that's cyber-love. It's miraculous that only a few swea

HWMI 002 - How We've Made Music

Apr 16th, 2019 55m 3s

Red & Blue discuss the significant role music has played in their lives, including brushes with fame that came too close for comfort.

HWMI 001 - Boundaries (Caged vs Free-range)

Apr 10th, 2019 58m 8s

Red & Blue discuss boundaries: the boundaries of the podcast, the boundaries they used to live within, and the current boundaries they've set for themselves...and why properly-fitting boundaries are so important.