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Who knew that our 75th episode at Taiwanica Podcast would turn into such a soul-searching journey? Anita and I never imagined that our celebration would lead us down the path of dissecting selfishness and selflessness, concepts that have haunted and challenged every one of us. This particular dance of interests—balancing our own needs with the weight of societal expectations—is something that hits close to home for both of us. As we share our personal narratives, with me bringing an American perspective on individualism and Anita considering her Taiwanese roots and familial obligations, we hope to shed light on this universal struggle.

The nuances of attending a friend's birthday or the commitment seen in careers like medicine and firefighting might seem worlds apart, yet they converge on the same dilemma: how do we honor our own needs without neglecting those of others? We're all familiar with the guilt that creeps in when we choose ourselves over someone else, but what if there's a way to craft a solution that benefits everyone involved? That's the conversation we're bringing to the table—practical wisdom for creating scenarios where no one has to lose.

To cap things off, we dive into the concept of self-value, and how it shouldn't be overshadowed by our drive to serve others. Anita opens up about her struggle with self-care amidst the pressure of familial duty, offering insights into how setting boundaries has become her act of rebellion and self-preservation. And as your hosts, we're excited to tease the idea of an upcoming deep dive into personal values—because learning to live authentically, aligning with what truly matters to us, just might be the key to resolving the age-old conflict between self-interest and selflessness. So join us, as we embrace the full spectrum of what it means to be human, right here on Taiwanica Podcast.

誰能想到我們在《Taiwanica Podcast》的第75集會成為如此深入反思的旅程呢？安妮塔和我從未想過我們的慶祝會將我們引向探討自私和無私的道路，這些概念一直困擾並挑戰著我們每個人。利益的這種特定舞蹈──平衡自身需求與社會期望的重量──對我們兩個都是深有感觸的。當我們分享個人故事時，我以美國人的個人主義觀點，安妮塔則考慮她的台灣根源和家庭責任，我們希望能為這個普世之爭帶來新的光明。

參加朋友生日的微妙之處，以及醫學和消防等職業中所見的承諾，看似天差地遠，但它們在同一個困境上匯聚：我們如何滿足自身需求而不忽視他人的需求？當我們選擇自己而非他人時，內心總會充滿罪惡感，但如果有一種方法可以制定使每個人都受益的解決方案呢？這正是我們要討論的話題──創造出沒有人必須輸的情境的實用智慧。

最後，我們深入探討自我價值的概念，以及它不應被我們服務他人的驅動所掩蓋。安妮塔談到她在家庭責任壓力下的自我關懷困境

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