Get in Where You Fit In is an episode that emphasizes the importance of enjoying who you are and what you’re doing to be your authentic self.  Andre and Anitra evaluate examples of unique people who refuse to conform to the norm, but have the confidence to embrace their individuality. This episode analyzes the need to be appreciated in our partnerships and relationships and how that appreciation can lead to positive self-awareness and personal identity. Dre unpacks how the position of the older sibling has inherent expectations that limit choice and can create frustration and Anitra speaks from the perspective of the younger sibling and the difference between “have to” versus “get to.”  

If you wonder why you didn’t feel like you belonged to your family, you will relate to this episode.  If you wondered how your family felt overwhelmed with family expectations, take a listen.  The Savage Siblings reflect on the difference between being needed and belonging to the family. Understanding these dynamics creates safe strategies to meet the needs of your family and partners in a healthy way.  This episode gives the listeners an opportunity to evaluate their relational value, which should create a healthy situation where you belong. 

Memorable quotes:

• Enjoy being the best of who you are. ~ Andre
• People can undergird you while the second wind is coming. ~ Anitra
• I can never have two bad days, because on the first day my tribe shows up and beats the drum. ~ Daniella
• God puts people in your life that are instrumental to help you get going. ~ Anitra
• We as human beings need to feel needed. ~ Anitra
• Belonging never ends, but being needed ends. ~ Andre
• The older sibling is the walking litmus test. ~ Andre
• The innate desire to be needed puts us in times of transition. ~ Anitra

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