Sometimes we let others abuse us because we fear worsening the conflict. Have you let this happen in your life and asked: ‘Where is the personal growth in this?’ Tune in this week as Lisa Jones and I discuss constructive vs. destructive conflict. Constructive conflict tends to be when the benefits exceed the costs or the process becomes as important as the end result. Destructive conflict tends to flow from a narrowly defined rigid belief and produces a negative result. Individuals are less flexible and feel success is in the other person’s defeat. Personal attacks, threats and a general tone of hostility is the rule. This show is about how to grow under the worst possible scenarios.