Today we’re covering something that is central to my mission as a life coach focusing on helping individuals feel better about their age: – age anxiety. This is a topic that so many of us experience as we transition from our twenties into our thirties and we experience the reality of ‘growing older, entering a new phase of life and really facing the societal pressures of becoming an adult and everything that comes along with that. 

For some of us this feeling is sudden and happens at the turn of a big birthday or as our birthday approaches, yet for many of us this is a background anxiety that gets heightened. 

In this solo episode I am sharing my thoughts on the reason we experience anxiety at this age, how I personally experienced aging anxiety over the years, and how we can cope with this and take control of our anxiety and even use it to our advantage to make the most of our thirties. 

Topics that I cover include the ‘instruction manual’ we hold ourselves accountable to in our thirties, the existential fears that can crop up as we age and see our parents growing older and experiencing loss, the part that society and popular culture plays in convincing women of their impending value drop due to growing older and more. 

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We talk about:

• [0:00] Intro
• [3:10] What is age anxiety
• [7:00] The birthday hole
• [8:40] Why is 30 the number we dread?
• [9:55] The expectations we have by certain ages
• [10:55] The age of marriage getting higher
• [12:00] How pop culture influence our perception of reality
• [13:35] The external pressures of movies and TV shows that we're 'doing something wrong'
• [15:20] How confusion induces this anxiety
• [16:20] The fear of being older
• [22:30] Finding acceptance for where we are in life
• [27:55] Women growing 'less valuable' over time

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