This episode features an insightful conversation with Bill  Kirst, a former military officer and civilian professional. Bill shares his remarkable journey from being born in Iran to growing up in Europe and eventually joining the military. He discusses his experiences living behind the Iron Curtain, his unique upbringing, and the impact of significant events like the fall of the Berlin Wall and the 9/11 attacks on his life. Bill also reflects on his decision to leave the military due to the challenges of the "Don't Ask, Don't Tell" policy and his subsequent successful civilian career at IBM. 

KEY TAKEAWAYS

• Diverse Background: Bill Curse's upbringing in various countries and exposure to different cultures shaped his unique perspective and skills, allowing him to excel in his career.

• Integrity and Values: Bill's commitment to integrity and the Army values guided his decisions, even when faced with challenges related to his sexual orientation in the military.

• Compartmentalisation Skills: Bill's ability to compartmentalise his personal and professional life, honed from a young age, proved beneficial in navigating complex situations in both civilian and military roles.

• Advocacy for Inclusivity: Bill's focus on creating a sense of belonging for minority veterans, including those from the LGBT community, highlights his dedication to promoting diversity and acceptance.

• Quiet Activism: Bill's approach to activism through personal connections and storytelling emphasises the power of human-to-human interactions in fostering understanding and change.

BEST MOMENTS

 "I had to live this double life. I was constantly looking over my shoulder, to make sure that if somebody saw me, I was constantly in fear." 

"I think change happens one conversation at a time. I'm not going to be the one to wave a banner or to disrupt a meeting. Instead, what I want is people to get to know me for who I am." 

"I chose to spend my time making those people feel less alone in the world, so that they can live a full life. I've always been the type to say we change by healing." 

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HOST BIO

Joe O'Connor is a resilient business entrepreneur and Financial Adviser dedicated to supporting business owners and veterans in their transition to civilian life. Despite facing life-threatening challenges at a young age, Joe defied the odds and embarked on a remarkable journey. From excelling as a Combat Engineer and Physical Training Instructor in the Royal Engineers to starting his own business as a Financial Adviser, Joe has displayed unwavering determination.

After rejoining the Army as a reservist in the Bomb Disposal Unit, Joe reached the rank of Sergeant before transferring to the SAS, where he endured a severe injury and was medically discharged. Undeterred, he resumed his role as an IFA and founded a charity that aids injured veterans and their families.

Joe's charity is currently finalizing plans for a training center and 23 Lodges, aiming to provide vital support for veterans transitioning to civilian life while addressing stress, anxiety, and PTSD. Today, Joe's mission is to unite business owners and veterans, helping them unleash their full potential for success.