Four years later, Patty reconnects with old and new friends as she continues to try to make sense of her thirties. She is joined by Ami, whose vulnerability always inspires Patty to put herself out there more. There’s A/B testing and hockey sti

The Wrap-Up

Dec 29th, 2018 35m 30s

Patty looks back at the quarter and the year that was and how far things have gone but are also, in the end, just ok. From reclaiming spaces and places and wifi accidents, the past couple of months have been... interesting.She is then joined by

The Return of the Empire

Oct 18th, 2018 49m 6s

Patty is back and is still pretty out of it. She gives the state of affairs for the past quarter (!!!) and somehow manages to share the downsides of confessing your feels.Patty is also joined by Chinggay and Macy, her co-future media empire fri

The Why Not

Aug 4th, 2018 44m 1s

Patty is back from an unplanned hiatus after diving into the World Cup and coming out of it the same person with more alcohol tolerance and less sleep at night.Patty gets into Shelby Lorman's article on unfollowing ex’s on Instagram and the com

The Kinda Steady

Jun 5th, 2018 48m 37s

Patty is alive and back at it or trying to get back at it. She pulls herself out of her distraction spiral and debates on which organ rules -- her head or her heart.Patty also somehow followed directions correctly and therefore, is also joined

The Soulmate Debate

Apr 24th, 2018 38m 30s

Patty is back and has calmed down from March Madness while also trying hard not to be an April fool. She ponders the past and the present and all the delusions and distractions that come with it. She also fangirls over Queer Eye's Jonathan Van

The Full Circle

Mar 28th, 2018 46m 58s

Almost 3 weeks later, I'm still alive! I give an update (or non-update depending on how we look at things) on March madness. Spoiler: not that mad, after all.I also talk to Mike (whom I struggle to introduce) -- a blast from the past who's been

The Anti-Chill Secret Crazy Movement

Mar 7th, 2018 42m 11s

Happy International Women's Day! It's been a tad too long since the last episode or at least later than expected. I give an update on February's lull in excitement and also talk to Acid on Alana Massey's 2015 article on Against Chill.I am also

The Love Lauriat

Feb 13th, 2018 47m 37s

Happy Valentines Day! It is by a miracle (and some caffeine) that I've managed to get this episode out in 2ish weeks time. In this episode, I'm joined by my wing lady (and awesome friend), Lou as we discuss the NY Times article, How To Stop Rus

The False Start

Jan 29th, 2018 40m 30s

Welcome to the maiden voyage of 30ish Going on 13, an idea I've been toying around with in my head for months now but never able to actually do. Listen along as I try to make sense of dating as a 30ish year old woman with the dating experiences

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