Zara and I had the pleasure of sitting down with Berthe and Maturin for an exclusive interview regarding marriage, and marriage with children. They gave very unique insights, and we're quite fortunate to have been able to learn from them. Enjo

S02 E04 - Get Real Get Married - Part 2

Sep 20th, 2021 9m 36s

Get Real, Get Married is written by Aleeza Ben Shalom, and we highly recommend it.Keep an open mind. For our related Publish0x blog regarding this book -- check out this link HERE https://www.publish0x.com/loveviahashem/get-real-get-marri

S02 E03 - Get Real Get Married - Part 1

Sep 14th, 2021 7m 29s

Get Real, Get Married is written by Aleeza Ben Shalom, and we highly recommend it.One of the important aspects to takeaway is knowing yourself, and just how important that is. For our related Publish0x blog regarding this book -- check out

S02 E02 - Five Practical Tools to Win in Marriage

Jul 20th, 2020 17m 34s

Welcome to Season 2 of Love via HaShem!In this episode, we’re talking about the tools below, and how they can help strengthen your relationship.SlackGoogle KeepGoogle DriveGoogle PhotosAlexa (Amazon Echo)Keep in mind that

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Music - Sweet Evening by Hezi

Jul 16th, 2020 2m 17s

This piece is called Sweet Evening, and it's performed by yours truly ;D I decided to hop back on the guzheng after some time away, and I felt the desire to share some of this love with you... hoping that you enjoy! ---- Sending you sunshine

S02 E01 - Give 100/100 (not 50/50 in your Relationship)

Jul 6th, 2020 11m 21s

Welcome to Season 2 of Love via HaShem! This is the first episode of this season - S02E01 .I'm happily joined by my awesome wife Zara, and together we're hoping to bring you more content to boost your knowledge and understanding vis-a-vis love

E049 - The Importance of Mashpi'im 🤓📚

Aug 27th, 2019 7m 42s

Welcome to Love via HaShem. This lesson is about Mashpia.After finding someone, write down your list:How do you feel around people? (determining chemistry)Ask about relationship with each parentsWho is their Mashpia?What do you want o

E048 - Run the Right Race; Stay the Course 👟

Aug 16th, 2019 7m 12s

Seeing life as a race, makes a position of stale complacency of where you are, an impossibility! You cannot simply lie down in laziness, when you understand that this life is race, and the runners of this race, if they are temperate in all thin

E047 -- Signs of Healthy Relationships 🔬

Aug 14th, 2019 6m 52s

Have a list. Ask yourself some questions. Get to know yourself. What are you looking for? Understand enough to be able to recognize your spouse. Are you comfortable with that person when you do meet them? Ask them about their father (if they’r

E046 - Stay in your Lane? 🚘 NO! ... Balance your Heart to Extend Love to Others. ☯️

Aug 9th, 2019 8m 16s

Ying Yang Question - How can you be Free AND a servant!? OK ... so we have freedom to do; and yet we are bound? {Check out 1 Cor. Chap 9}It’s like this. We are free to love others as we have the mitzvah to do so, and we can take certa

E045 - How to be Mindful about Your First Date 💚

Aug 6th, 2019 7m 26s

If you are meeting, you may know some things already. Know at least the basics of what you want. Usually dating sites can help with this, but they might not provide everything you’re looking for in terms of information. If you can get a picture

E044 - Support Those Who are Balanced and Honest

Aug 3rd, 2019 7m 7s

Money Money Money is a famous song which Abba sang some time ago. It’s reflective of the sad situation that many organizations are in. Rabbi Paul noticed the horrible imbalance of how money is handled and asked for. There was fiscal abuse, and

E043 - It's OK to Be a Little Selfish

Jul 31st, 2019 7m 1s

You’re looking for your Beshert - the one you want to be with forever. Here you come across someone and they have a lot of what you like - personality, ideas, but there’s something off. This other person has dreams and aspirations which are in

E042 - A Modest Return for a Spiritual Service

Jul 30th, 2019 7m 23s

Asking for money is OK. Don’t muzzle an ox while it’s treading the grain. The ox is doing a work, let it take in some of that sustenance. We have the right to ask for money for our services, even if they’re spiritual. You can consume part of

E038 - Guard the Consciousness of Your Brother

Jul 23rd, 2019 7m 45s

Watching out for your fellow human is not an attribute that you can put on a resume, but it’s certainly a spiritual plus. If you’re cool about doing something, and your friend or fellow companion isn’t ok with that, what should you do? Where sh

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How to Find the One? - Interview with Zara

Apr 3rd, 2019 12m 55s

There's plenty of ways people talk about for winning in the "game" of finding your beshert (the one aka soulmate). To put it simply, after consistently using the tools of the web (for example: Coffee Meets Bagel) you need to KNOW yourself. Look

E041 - Be Considerate, Not Overly Honest

Dec 22nd, 2018 7m 3s

Ever heard the old adage “Honesty is the best policy.”? In relationships, this can definitely prove to be hogwash that can ruin your day, and the day of the other person. Strive for foresight and wisdom in your relationships (romantic or othe

E040 - The Balance of Personal Freedom

Dec 21st, 2018 7m 14s

We have a lot of freedom, especially in the US. But, what does it all mean? How can we harness our freedoms in the best way. How can we pick up from the mind-ways of others to learn, and maybe show them love by joining in on their schtik. In k

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Music by Zechariah Mathz - Sweet Pine

Dec 21st, 2018 1m 16s

This piece is called Sweet Pine, and it's by Zechariah Mathz Check more of his music out here: @Zechariah Mathz https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCsf1e1EuBQPyYAlo7ZiFcJA Sending you sunshine and love! (^_^* ------------------------------D

E039 - Use the Matchmaker!

Dec 18th, 2018 6m 41s

What is a Matchmaker (Shadchan)? And why is a Shadchan important? We cover this and more within this episode. Here’s some details from Wiki: Shadchan (Hebrew: שַׁדְּכָן‎, plural shadchanim or shadchonim Hebrew: שַׁדְּכֳנִם‎) is a Hebrew word fo

E037 - Casual Dating and the Way of Finding a Marriage Partner - Series with Rabbi Manis Friedman

Dec 13th, 2018 7m 17s

Is your desire for marriage? Or, do you just want a friendship, attachment of sometime, a physical thing, or something else? Casual dating, geared simply for the purpose of dating, may not be the thing that helps you reach your goals. We often

E036 - Lawful? Perhaps… but is it Expedient? Does it Edify?

Dec 13th, 2018 6m 30s

TobyMac - Lights Shine Bright ft. Hollyn is the name of the song. Have it a listen, I’m pretty sure you won’t regret it :) And … sure we can do a lot in this universe. It would almost seem like constrictions are being released and that we’re be

E035 - How to Support ... and Really Show It! #Love

Dec 11th, 2018 5m 15s

Here are some steps on how to support and display that to your partner. Cut each other slack Embrace the differences (and celebrate them) Desire to grow with that person Strive to see the world through their eyes One way of being able to

E034 - How to Accept Responsibility, Our Connective Bond

Dec 11th, 2018 6m 55s

Yea … in a way, all of our mistakes are our own fault. We can’t say that the devil made me do it, nor can we say that Gd made me do it. Taking thought of how we got into the mess, and prayerfully developing a strategy to get out, we can learn t

E033 - The More We Invest, the More We Love

Dec 7th, 2018 6m 29s

When you invest in the child, you are giving .... & you start to love the child more and more. When you invest in others, they usually begin to notice and like you, but just the same, you start to like them more. It’s like the person who takes