Twisted Monk Talks About Responding To Recent Fetlife Controversy Mistress Matisse listens and talks with Twisted Monk, as he discusses the problems of women on Fetlife being targeted for data-scraping and reposting by online harassers, and po

Mistress Matisse and Twisted Monk Return!

Apr 10th, 2015 12m 20s

This is an informal test podcast, about 12 minutes. Monk and I talk about one time when I walked in on him when he was getting ready for a BDSM session in my space, and the things were not...quite what I expected. #sexwork #BDSM

He Said/She Said

Feb 26th, 2011 9m 6s

Twisted Monk and I read a letter from someone who wants her boyfriend to have a two-man threesome with her. He refuses to do so, she wants advice on how to change his mind.We talk about how we get a lot of letters from listeners/readers who as

Altoids and Listerine Breath Strips

Sep 13th, 2010 8m 25s

BDSM techniques, in today’s new podcast: Monk and I talk about putting Altoids mints and Listerine Breath Strips in female pink parts. Naturally, I talk some about boy bits as well. Plus, why you’ll want some milk on hand for this type of play.

Escorts and Strippers: The Sharks and The Jets?

Aug 18th, 2010 9m 33s

Monk and I have a brief discussion about our ability to fight off an attack by maniacal clowns. Then we answer a letter from a woman who wants to be a sex worker, and who made the mistake of asking strippers for advice about being an escort.

The New Young Dominants

Aug 11th, 2010 7m 44s

In this episode, Monk and I briefly discuss how the Zombie Apocalypse would affect my diet Mountain Dew consumption. A letter from a dominant woman who feels nervous about her scenes. Key point: she’s eighteen years old. How should a young kink

Baby Steps In Polyamory

Jul 19th, 2010 9m 51s

In this podcast, Monk and I riff about phallic microphones and then read and discuss a letter from a reader pondering how to begin a polyamorous relationship. How do you treat the other significant others?

Cut The Ties: Your Kink and Your Parents

May 31st, 2010 9m 37s

Monk and I have been so busy the last month, we have had no time to get down to the studio where we usually record our podcasts. So while it offends Monk’s production-quality sensibilities, I persuaded him to record what I will call some “Qu

Quick and Dirty Podcast 2: Custom Clothing and How Mistress Matisse Gets Good Service

May 31st, 2010 6m 21s

TwistedMonk and I recorded what I am calling a "Quick and Dirty" podcastlast week. We didn't have access to our usual sound-studio, so this is lower quality than we prefer, but it's better than nothing, right? In this edition, we answer a r

Poetry And Kink

Mar 24th, 2010 13m 42s

Time for another podcast! In this one, Monk reads an original poem – or at least, we hope it is original – sent to him by a reader. And he reads it in the voice of William Shatner, because the William Shatner-voice makes everything better.

Threeways, Slaves, and Polyamory Veto

Mar 3rd, 2010 19m 25s

Another podcast, and another riff from Monk about how I’m playing with my nipple. Even though I’m not. Then letters: a letter from a listener asking about jealousy and a three-way. Threesomes are fraught with peril, in my opinion. The best

No-Rope Bondage, Why Get Involved In The BDSM Community? and Sex Workers and Love

Feb 22nd, 2010 21m 36s

A new podcast!First of all, I was not playing with my nipple while we were recording, all right? Let the record show. The bomb shelter we’re doing these things in is freezing cold, so I was actually wearing a leather jacket. A motorcycle-style

Primary/Secondary, BDSM Scene Interruptions, and Kink Celebrities

Feb 15th, 2010 18m 29s

A new podcast! Monk and I answer your questions about primary/secondary partners in polyamory – can one person in a relationship in a “primary” and the other person be a “secondary”?The seconds question is about dealing with unexpected int

Tell Me Everything and Cover Me Up!

Jan 18th, 2010 12m 48s

A new podcast! We answer a letter from someone who is new at being the top in a scene, and who is struggling with playing with people who don’t disclose important medical/emotional before the scene. Short answer: it's not perfect, but people do

The Delicate Question of STDs: How To Ask, And How Not To!

Jan 12th, 2010 13m 10s

This one's a lulu. Now, let me say that Monk and I are practitioners ofsafer safe, and we want to help people learn how to do safer sex. Weare sympathetic to people who are nervous about STDs. That said, thereis a right way and a wrong way t

Too-Sexy Phone Calls And Harsh Judgements?

Jan 6th, 2010 11m 56s

Monk starts off with a letter from a sex worker asking abouthow to handle curious phone calls. I’m embarrassed to say that the word “motorboat”is mentioned. I also mention my oft-repeated bit of sex work advice, “Don’t sayanything you woul

Pervertables and Kinky Kissing

Dec 23rd, 2009 13m 43s

A fresh podcast! And I think this one gets to a new high incompletely non-serious silly riffing. First, there’s a whole bunch of insane nonsense about doingan all-musical-version of the podcast. (Which makes no sense, don’t try t

Kinky Lovers and Humiliation Play

Dec 14th, 2009 9m 35s

In this podcast, Monk and I read and answer a letter about how to meet kinky romanticpartners, and then a letter from a woman who is struggling with herfeelings about humiliation in BDSM porn and erotica, and who iswondering if being African

Sex Negative Sex Workers, and Fisting

Oct 14th, 2009 11m 10s

I wasn’t going to upload this last podcast. But Monk says I’m being silly. And lord knows, I need the blog-content, I've been way too busy to write much lately.So, I am ignoring a voice in the back of my head that says it’s slightly undignified

Polyamory Letters and Questions

Oct 6th, 2009 9m 56s

First letter: when to disclose to a potential new partner that you are poly, if they don’t know already.And then: dealing with weirdness from your partner’s other partners. (AKA “metamours”.)

Fast and Dirty Bondage

Oct 1st, 2009 16m 35s

In this podcast, we do a lot of silly banter about needlesand being naked in bed, and then Monk reads a letter about how to do fast, easyrope bondage during a resistance play scene, and I make some comments aboutsecuring someone who is large

Poly Time Management and Young Poly

Sep 23rd, 2009 9m 18s

Questions about Polyamory: Time-management for poly people: how many partners is too many? And the difficulty of finding polyamorous partners when you're young. (Meaning: in your twenties.)

Bondage and Kink In Long Term Relationships

Sep 18th, 2009 6m 44s

After way too long of aninterval - blame it on our busy schedules - Monk and I got together inthe zombie-proof sound studio and recorded some silly rants. This one is a little short, only about seven minutes. It's a letter from areader who

Apples and Oranges: Comparing Your Partners In Polyamory

Jul 8th, 2009 15m 50s

In this one, Monk and I read letters aboutpolyamory. First we talk about the not-so-good idea of comparing yourpartners. "Why can't Partner B be more like Partner A." Then Monk talksa little about his wife Tambo - and explains why he hardly

Safewords, and BDSM With Hearing-Impaired Partners

Jul 3rd, 2009 13m 4s

In this podcast, first we read a letter about safewords, and make mention of my two favorite safewords: vomit and lawsuit. I promise, those two words will capture any top's attention, anytime.We also talk about the challenges of doing BDSM with